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Nope. Doesn't make sense at all.

What I mean I guess is she won't give me a chance more than likely so me talking to her is almost pointless.
 

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What I mean I guess is she won't give me a chance more than likely so me talking to her is almost pointless.

Umm seems to me that her continueing to msg and contact you is her giving you a chance..
 

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Umm seems to me that her continueing to msg and contact you is her giving you a chance..


Maybe, I don't know. I mean I'm pretty sure she is still doing her thing, ie being single and banging who she wants, so I doubt there is any chance.

Thick: How?
 

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Shes atleast giving you the chance to be someone she wants to bang while shes single
 

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Text her something totally out of character. For you I would assume something like "When are you going to come over for round 2 ;)" would work.
Life doesn't last very long, even when you die of old age - so fuck while you can.
 
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Text her something totally out of character. For you I would assume something like "When are you going to come over for round 2 ;)" would work.
Life doesn't last very long, even when you die of old age - so fuck while you can.


I agree with this.

Stop playing games with each other. It's apparent she is always on your mind, A. Put it all out there and end the questions. If she continues to play, delete her number, etc, etc. Forget about her.
 

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Yea.......

I don't think there are any questions really. I think she likes me but doesn't like me. Probably liked the fact that she had me pussy whipped.
 

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Yea.......

I don't think there are any questions really. I think she likes me but doesn't like me. Probably liked the fact that she had me pussy whipped.

Right. That's why you play to her beliefs. Make her think all you want from her is pussy, not in a jerky way but a fun playful way, and act like you don't care about the other stuff.

Do it right and she will want you to recognize those other things and start seeking you out as a real interest.
 

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Amiok you really have nothing to lose
you are miserable now.. you are already living and feeling your life in the rejected way of being..
So you can be whatever about it.. you can be whatever and try to hit dat again.. or you be whatever and say fuck you very much but you lost out, chase me all you like,I'm not pussy whipped by your cheapness.
 

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Complaining is something neurological that becomes addictive, it becomes a comforting action and your ability to adapt to situations or circumstance begins to atrophy.

I.E - the more you complain instead of act, the more you'll always complain. We can always change our minds, our bodies or our plights. But few do because it's hard work.
 
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Huh?
 

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Really cute girl was apparently flirting with me hard last night. I just took it as she was a waitress lol. My friends think she dug me. Oh well
 

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I had problems like this, a few girls were pulling my dick (literal translation of a phrase from my language). I'm 22, virgin (I only count girls, I'm BI and been with men, just have no sexual experience with girls), and it's not that bad. Until recently I lied to everyone because everyone assumed that I did it. A few weeks ago I just stopped lying. I don't mind telling that I'm a virgin to anyone anymore. Can't care less about their idiotic opinions.

There was this girls (still not sure if she likes me or not), she was a few times at my place (just cuddling the first time and hanging around), second time we both ended naked and horny, but she didn't want to do it. I didn't want to force her since I'm a gentle person, especially to girls even though she scratched and bit me all over. I didn't mind that for a second. I was confused for a while after she left, I was gentle, I made her rafaello, bought a drink (didn't want to get her drunk, just relaxed and naked), but she didn't want. Also, I didn't want to just have sex with her, I'd really like girlfriend.

But I'm not chasing after her. Because if I was able to get this far with a girl, I can do it again. + I'm a borderline sociopath, I have phases, strong ebbs and flows of interests. Right now I'd like to be locked up in a lab, devoid of any and all human contact (especially physical). It's not (just) because of her, it just happens. My friend told me to give her silent treatment, she told me not to contact her or anything for a few days. Still doing it... Pretty sure she doesn't like me as I thought she is.

My lack of experience makes me.... I think someone in this thread used a term clingy. I'd say that I fit that description. But lately since that girl didn't want to do anything with me, I stopped doing that. I'm even ignoring them, especially if they're "off the limits" (married or in relationship, even if interested in someone else). Why interfere in someone's affairs? It never brought me any good.
 

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So. A girl who I talk to a little at work, I flirt but I don't think she does, got a new job and was saying her goodbyes today. So when she gave me a hug I tried to pull away early and she was like "no" and pulled in tighter.

I didn't want to seem creepy and hug too much but when she hugged tighter I was all about having her boobs squeezing in on me. Haha

I doubt she dug me, just had to report.
 

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So I finally gave in to this girl I work with and have started hanging out. Not ^ that girl lol. This past weekend we had sex a few times.

One hilarious thing she said one of the times was "So deep." LOL sure.