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They probably vary a little from brand to brand.
Still the evidence seems to be that something like 5.5" is a good size prefered by many women for overall use.
I have had a girl tell me she likes small for anal, medium for vaginal and large for oral/manual.
 

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Lpsg is a strange place, so I didn't spend much time there. Seems that young gay guys are overrepresented, in any case if you did like big dicks you may well go to a site called lpsg (large penis support group).
 

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I believe that European toilet paper tubes are generally wider than most American brands.

I agree with Pegasus. When it comes to women (vaginal sex anyway) 5.5" works quite well for most and doesn't preclude getting to enjoy oral sex without receiving a lot of bite marks. Six inch girths are definitely pushing it for some gals and anything greater may be too much of a good thing, and really starts to curtail a guy's ability to receive oral gratification (or so I have been reliably informed).
 

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A UK toilet roll tube is 6.25" :eek:

I'd me more than happy with a 5" girth, but I'm aiming for 5.5" in the long run - just for the 'wow' factor.

As for swimming around in the vagina of a small girl: I wouldn't worry about this. I don't think the tightness of the vagina is in any way related to the build of the girl.
 

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yes 5.5" is probably a good aim very useable and a bit macho too.

Some girls need to follow Batwoman's example with kegals.

The girls that commented re toilet rolls were american so I think 5.5" girth or thereabouts seems to be popular.
 

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Another question for our wonderful ladies, girth seems to be what is most desirable from what Im reading. What part does length play in the equation, I ask from the standpoint that the woman is into the man she is with and that all of the emotional factors are satisfied, which I have learned from the women on this site and my fiance.

I know it will differ from woman to woman of course, curious as to what our ladies have to say.

What would you find more satisfying, a cock that is below average in lenth, say in the 4-5" range with above average girth 5.25-6". One that is average in both length 5-6" and average girth 4.5-5". Lastly one that is aboe average in length 6.25"+ and below average girth 4-4.5"?

Look forward to your thoughts, thank you.
 

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My toilet paper roll is 5.1 in girth. So with all the different tubes, I don't think it's a good item to compare with.

What I'm curious about, is how to find out if a condom will fit me without having to buy it.. All the stats are from a "rolled and flatted" state, so the numbers are way off. I'm curious to know if I'd be able to slip into a magnum--just for that esteem boost, and because normal durex's are leaving lines on my penis from the end elastic. It doesn't feel too great. The reason I thought of this is because I asked someone before, and they said "if you can't fit your dick comfortably through your toilet paper roll, you need a magnum." Apparently, that's not too much of an indicator, haha.
 

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I wondered if any of you guys double clamp while having sex.

I notice that if i clamp at the base, and clamp (with something like a thin tape or rubber band) at midshaft, then my overall girth from head to mid-shaft is like 4.75" and my girth between the two clamps is near 5.5". Now, I figure if I wear a condom over this, then the tap/band shouldn't really interfere in sex as long as its connected well to my shaft.

Wondering if you guys have any thoughts on this matter...(as in should I do this? should I not? or just general thoughts)
 

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It is all on who the woman is really, some women like to be fisted, others have to really work themselves up for a while just to push two fingers in (like my girlfriend). The average penis should feel perfect with the average vagina. Looking at statistics, it looks like anything under 4 inches is thin and no longer in the "normal" range. A perfect average is between 4.5 and 5 inches, where as low average is probably 4 to 4.49 inches and high average is more like 5.1 to 5.25 inches from all the reading I have done. Plenty of testimonials I have read from the womans perspective considered a 5 inch girth thick and no longer average. That said, no woman wants something so big it hurts, but some still don't even like the "thick" feeling, claiming it makes sex more difficult and makes her feel crammed, some women actually prefer the feeling of a thinner penis, I have heard it described as a "gentle massage" inside her vagina. The average woman is most likely going to prefer an average girth. I am not saying this because I have an average girth of 4.5 inches, it is just the direction everything points towards if you get enough opinions, and it also just makes perfect sense. If you are feel you are too thin OR too thick, fear not, if you fall in love with the right woman she is not going to care, even if you are not her perfect size, the size of your penis will not put a halt to a relationship with a foundation of strong emotions.

That is my two cents on the whole girth thing. Sounds awfully conservative for someone who is aiming to gain .25 inches in girth. I know my girlfriend would probably never tell the difference between 4.5 and 4.75 inches in girth, but I am doing it for myself, I aim to be the perfect average.
 
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Hopes, that all makes good sense to me, good post. And welcome to the Gym!
 

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I wondered if any of you guys double clamp while having sex.

I notice that if i clamp at the base, and clamp (with something like a thin tape or rubber band) at midshaft, then my overall girth from head to mid-shaft is like 4.75" and my girth between the two clamps is near 5.5". Now, I figure if I wear a condom over this, then the tap/band shouldn't really interfere in sex as long as its connected well to my shaft.

Wondering if you guys have any thoughts on this matter...(as in should I do this? should I not? or just general thoughts)

I'm sorry, and maybe this is just a personal opinion here, but I would not want to have sex with someone with any kind of clamps on. It would just seem too strange.

Among other things, I would have a hard time not worrying that he was hurting himself by clamping during a time when passions can get the most of you. What happens if it is too tight, or he gets too engorged, or keeps it on too long? Maybe those are silly fears, but as a woman I would certainly have them were my guy to turn up wearing clamps or bands and wanting to have sex with me. That would be highly distracting, and would detract from the pleasure of just having good sex together. I would far rather have him in his natural state than all bound up, even if that meant less girth.

So.... my advice is skip the clamps when you are having actual sex. Play with them at other times if you like, but don't inflict them on your lover.
 

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Why would anyone wear a clamp during sex? Having a cock ring on is a little to much in my opinion.
 

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Another question for our wonderful ladies, girth seems to be what is most desirable from what Im reading. What part does length play in the equation, I ask from the standpoint that the woman is into the man she is with and that all of the emotional factors are satisfied, which I have learned from the women on this site and my fiance.

I know it will differ from woman to woman of course, curious as to what our ladies have to say.

What would you find more satisfying, a cock that is below average in lenth, say in the 4-5" range with above average girth 5.25-6". One that is average in both length 5-6" and average girth 4.5-5". Lastly one that is aboe average in length 6.25"+ and below average girth 4-4.5"?

First off, you are quite right -- I think preferences probably vary from woman to woman. Personally, I have a really hard time answering this question for two reasons. First, with one exception I have always been totally satisfied by the cock of every man I have been with. The one exception was somebody a very long time ago who I remember as being very small -- no idea how small, but quite below average in both length and girth. All my other lovers have been, I would guess, firmly in the average to slightly above average range in both length and girth. Their size has mattered much less to me than their skills as a lover and how I felt about them emotionally. I have loved the cock of every man I have loved. Coincidence?

Because I have no experience with long-but-skinny penises versus short-but-girthy ones (or long and girthy ones!), it is really hard for me to have any opinions. I will say, however, that some positions are easier when a guy is longer, and I'll bet that some positions feel better when he is girthier. So much depends on context.

I know this is not what you were looking for, but it's the best I can offer!
 

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Why would anyone wear a clamp during sex? Having a cock ring on is a little to much in my opinion.

Err, sorry. I meant a cock ring at base, and some suitable kind of like tape to slightly restrict blood flow in the middle-shaft. it'll all be very concealable.
 

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I'm sorry, and maybe this is just a personal opinion here, but I would not want to have sex with someone with any kind of clamps on. It would just seem too strange.

Among other things, I would have a hard time not worrying that he was hurting himself by clamping during a time when passions can get the most of you. What happens if it is too tight, or he gets too engorged, or keeps it on too long? Maybe those are silly fears, but as a woman I would certainly have them were my guy to turn up wearing clamps or bands and wanting to have sex with me. That would be highly distracting, and would detract from the pleasure of just having good sex together. I would far rather have him in his natural state than all bound up, even if that meant less girth.

So.... my advice is skip the clamps when you are having actual sex. Play with them at other times if you like, but don't inflict them on your lover.

Thanks for your response batwoman. I really meant cock ring at base, and some concealable tape to slightly restrict blood flow in mid-shaft. Would this change your opinion?
 

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Thanks for your response batwoman. I really meant cock ring at base, and some concealable tape to slightly restrict blood flow in mid-shaft. Would this change your opinion?
Well, I am OK with cock rings, in part because they are sized to be a reasonably safe fit (one hopes) if a guy buys the right size.
I don't like the tape-in-the-middle idea, however, for all the reasons I mentioned. Even if it was hidden, how do you know it would stay that way? And what if it was too tight? It just seems like unnecessary and potentially scary stuff, not worth it.
 

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Heh, I suppose there is only way to find out (*prepares himself for a big slap from whichever lady he gets to try this experiment with*)
 

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Hi Batwoman, I'm new to this whole PE thing

Right now, bone pressed I'm 6.5x6.5 and i know I feel alot of teeth when i get BJs

I want to do PE to gain in length and keep my girth gains to a minimum, but worried this might not happen. At what point would you say that most girls would just turn away from a dick of a certain girth. (It hasn't happened so far)
 

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HI Koss, and welcome to the Gym! You're a very lucky guy -- a lot of members here are working toward stats you already have. If all you want are length gains (and I agree that you need no more girth!) then you should look into length exercises. There are definitely some that work best for that, you should be able to keep your girth gains to a minimum.

6.5" EG is indeed hefty -- but I don't think a girl that was really into you would run away even if you get bigger. If she really likes you and you turn her on sexually, she'll be thrilled. The main thing your size means is something that you probably already know: you have to make sure she is REALLY wet and ready before you try penetration. When you are a big guy, you may just have to concentrate more and take your time to avoid hurting her. It is the big responsibility that comes with a big cock!