Getting a nice 8"x6" but loosing anal sex chance?

[Batwoman]

Yes indeed, all of that was very well said. Thanks, Gary.

 

[The Holy Intruder]

I see that poor Sekeris is banned and probably won't read this, but I can't help myself. I must reply to this heresy:

If you're not a homosexual, there's no reason to do anal sex in the first place.

Bullshit. That's like saying if you're not a paratrooper, there's no reason to skydive.

Anal is great. Most girls love it. Some of them just don't know it yet.

 

[Ivor]

I realise I'm coming to this thread late, but I read it all last night and I feel inclined to agree with Misty. The OP's attitude is all wrong. He could have said something like "Women I've tried anal with have found it painful in the past - does anyone here, M or F, have any advice on how I can help make it pleasurable rather than painful for my partners in the future, despite the fact that I'm PEing?"

But, as Misty points out, the only thing he seems worried about is whether he's going to get the chance to do it again, without any reference to his partners' pleasure or comfort - which is not a good attitude to sex in general, let alone anal.

Also, it's obviously true that someone can be abusive in a relationship without literally being a rapist or a wife- (or husband-)beater.

Sorry, I know I'm new here and I don't want to look like I'm laying down the law - just thought Misty could use some (belated) back-up.

 

[mistydawn]

I realise I'm coming to this thread late, but I read it all last night and I feel inclined to agree with Misty. The OP's attitude is all wrong. He could have said something like "Women I've tried anal with have found it painful in the past - does anyone here, M or F, have any advice on how I can help make it pleasurable rather than painful for my partners in the future, despite the fact that I'm PEing?"

But, as Misty points out, the only thing he seems worried about is whether he's going to get the chance to do it again, without any reference to his partners' pleasure or comfort - which is not a good attitude to sex in general, let alone anal.

Also, it's obviously true that someone can be abusive in a relationship without literally being a rapist or a wife- (or husband-)beater.

Sorry, I know I'm new here and I don't want to look like I'm laying down the law - just thought Misty could use some (belated) back-up.

OP could have said something like that, but it was not what he was thinking. Welcome to the boards.

 

[frb3]

Like a sailing ship tacking into the wind these threads drift hither, thither and yon.

Regardless of your usage 8 x 6 is a noble goal. I wish you luck in your endeavors Norseman.

 

[dunwatchme]

I have close to an 8x6 and had no problems having anal with my girlfriend. I dont really get why people are saying anal is just for male enjoyment, my girlfriend orgasms almost instantaneously while having anal...

 

[Ivor]

I've decided to retire from PE, at least as far as girth is concerned. Must have been something wrong with me to think I needed any more than 6.3" MSEG. It was a rather brief and difficult anal session last night that decided it - she came, I didn't - she said afterwards "It wouldn't be so hard if you weren't so big". From now on I'm just going to cement my gains with a reduced regimen and try to finish straightening out my slight lateral curve, which is now almost imperceptible anyway. If I can be bothered to continue with length I may try to reach 9" NBP, just because I can't shake the feeling that bone-pressed measurements are somehow "cheating", as it were.

Not for the first time, I considered how cool it would be to have a variable-sized penis - I mean a choice of erect sizes, like the different tools (haha...) you can select from a Swiss army knife: the size I am now which I find pretty much ideal for straight sex and oral, a standard-issue 6x5 for anal and a Mandingo-sized whopper simply for show, or for her to get to grips with using her hands.

 

[somebodyelse]

6.3 is completely sane. I'm glad it's said to be a big size.

 

[Gravik]

I don't really care for anal. No point IMO when there's a tight, wet vagina between the girls legs.

 

[NP97]

I don't really care for anal. No point IMO when there's a tight, wet vagina between the girls legs.

I feel the same way, but to each his own.

 

[Ongekibou]

If you slowly progress from gradually-increasing dildos, eventually your lady's anus would be able to accomodate you. In regards to size, while it takes more time to get adjusted, the anus will stretch more than the vagina will.

 

[ThinJohnny]

Going back to the OP, I would say it depends a lot on how often you like to have anal sex. I think someone already mentioned this. I like anal, but I don't find myself asking for it very often. I would be much more worried about losing the possibility of oral.

I'm amazed at the number of guys who are in the 6" girth range who have had success with anal. I've had a hard time getting 4.5" of girth in some women, with lube. I would agree with Batwoman and the others who have said that the mere sight of 6+ inches of girth would make some women reluctant to even try it.

For me, anal would not be a big reason to stop going for bigger girth, but then again, if I were anywhere near 6" of girth, increasing my girth wouldn't even be a consideration.

 

[Rando]

I don't really care for anal. No point IMO when there's a tight, wet vagina between the girls legs.

I wonder if it's one of those things where there's some kind of stigma attached to it that makes it seem better than it actually is. Like when you're shooting the bull with buddies and you mention your gf let you have anal sex they're all impressed, but is it better than vaginal penetration? I don't think so.

 

[RedForever]

The anus wasn't designed to be penetrated by a penis.
Who the hell would want particles and smears of faeces on their cock?

 

[jinngabriel]

I do not know what you are thinking but as many of you I am trying to get 8"x6". Nowadays I am curious about loosing my anal sex chance with a girl. Even with my current size,although I had a long preperation( giving her an oral,motivation,using enough lubricants and so on..) it was painful for all the girls I had anal sex with,by the way it was not their first time. Now I wonder if I get bigger size,will I loose all my chances? 8"x6" would be great for my self confidence,vaginal sex pleasure( especially for some positions like doggy,you have to be too close to penetrate if you are not big enough) but what about anal?

You have already tried anal. I think its better if you just stick it in the pussy.

 

[Ivor]

The anus wasn't designed to be penetrated by a penis.

So? Neither was the mouth. Does that make blowjobs wrong and disgusting?

Who the hell would want particles and smears of faeces on their cock?

This is easily avoided by not doing it when one's lady friend badly needs the toilet.

 

[mistydawn]

The poop on the dick is really gross. Somewhere else on this board it was said that a woman had a big poop on the bed when done.

Something probably not known to men, the day after (maybe for a couple days) the woman has intestinal lubrication/mucus/juices coming out her butt. It is not very nice to say the least. I also read in a book about some women having to put tampons in their butt because they have lost control. The poop would just fall out otherwise. I was taken back when I read that. Something like that happening never crossed my mind. So, after he had his fun, the girl suffers after effects.

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

My only experience with anal is a long time ago when I was young stupid and very very drunk. I'm not sure how I thought this was a good idea but my friend's girlfriend shoved a massive thick black dildo up my arse. The length fucking hurt, that's for sure, I felt it ram in to my bowls or something. But the girth didn't feel uncomfortable at all so i'm surprised that people are talking about the penis having to be quite thin to fit. Maybe i'm just not tight. Haha. If I was gay I'd be worried about it, and googling to see if there is such a thing as bum keygels.

I don't really fantasize about having anal sex. It seems like too much hassle from what I've read in this thread. If the woman brought it up I would be happy it to try it though.

 

[IAmAMusicalGenius]

The poop would just fall out otherwise. I was taken back when I read that. Something like that happening never crossed my mind. So, after he had his fun, the girl suffers after effects.

I remember watching some show that was trying to talk women out of doing porn and they mentioned something like this. I wasn't sure if I believed it or not. I mean wouldn't gay men all become incontinent?

 

[mistydawn]

I remember watching some show that was trying to talk women out of doing porn and they mentioned something like this. I wasn't sure if I believed it or not. I mean wouldn't gay men all become incontinent?

Yeah, you don't hear about it. I have heard about gays having problems but very rarely. I am not in those circles so you just aren't gonna hear much about it.

I forgot I saw an interview with a porn star (female) that spoke about anal sex and all she does to do that. She cried after shooting the scene. I felt bad for her.