Hey all, I've been doing people for roughly 8 weeks and edge 5 times a week. Every time I edge I stop right before ponr and kegel to hold back orgasm successfully. Every time I do this though I completely lose my erection and have a hard time getting it back. Any ideas on why this is?
Edging issue
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I forget what it's called but there is an ejaculation where your semen goes into your bladder instead of actually ejaculating or you could be experiencing dry orgasms.
Today I edged for 40 minutes and felt like I had two dry orgasms except it took every bit of focus and effort to hold a kegel and keep from ejaculating. Both times I lost my erection and when I finally finished it was weak and puny. Do you think I actually orgasmed or maybe my mind just thinks I've ejaculated?
Another note, I have always had normal orgasms except recently when holding back orgasm when kegeling
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Two possibilities ,first retro ejaculation into bladder, erection behaves as per normal ejaculatio.
Second dry ejaculation, but nervous system is unused to it and shuts down erection.
Second dry ejaculation, but nervous system is unused to it and shuts down erection.
Was their any fluid or precum at all before you lost your erection, or was it all internal? Depending on your views on energy work and meditation, there is an incredible book that I recommend highly to my (martial arts) students called "The Multi-orgasmic Man," by Mantak Chia. It contains a lot of techniques that are really helpful when trying to hold back your ejaculate. Again, depends on your views of energy/esoteric work and the amount of time you want to put in, of course. 
Ideas on how I can tell if its a dry orgasm or not? It doesn't feel at all like an orgasm but I have to strain to hold it back. I'm thinking I'm past the ponr but force it back in if that's possible. Just trying to figure out if my timing is off or not. Thanks for the replys
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It sounds like it is retro amd you are kegeling late.
Dry orgasm usually needs a training routine leading up to it.
There is a lot of info on this stuff in dry orgasm and male multi orgasm group.
Dry orgasm usually needs a training routine leading up to it.
There is a lot of info on this stuff in dry orgasm and male multi orgasm group.
