Hi, I am totally new to this and only recently discovered pegym. I am kind of confused on how to edge. Do I just stroke the bottom half of my shaft when erect until I feel like cumming? I've been reading through this thread for a couple of days for some trial and error responses. I've only started yesterday and.. it took me quite awhile to "edge". I mean I have a history of masturbating so I just thought I would just stroke my entire shaft and stop suddenly when I feel like I'm about to cum. So is edging the same thing except just stroking the bottom half of the shaft? and I've read about the ejaculation coming out creamier <-- I am experiencing this so am I doing something right?
Edging 101
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Finished my first edging session last night lasting 20 minuites ive tried edging before but wasn't success full but now i have introduced RKs.
i do these when ever i feel a kegel or as i reach PONR and then i stop and do 20 quick RK and i this made me last alot longer. I also am trying to DO last i night i did it at the end and it was very intense but i stopped right at the end and a little bit came out but im defiantly improving! Thanks everyone.
i do these when ever i feel a kegel or as i reach PONR and then i stop and do 20 quick RK and i this made me last alot longer. I also am trying to DO last i night i did it at the end and it was very intense but i stopped right at the end and a little bit came out but im defiantly improving! Thanks everyone.
Kegels...my long time friend
Kegels...my long time friend
Before I discovered the great world of PE in 2003 (of course I quit in a month lol) I was a big time reader and stumbled across pc muscle work in my local library when I was a pre teen....yes..... Like in the early nineties! But I didn't apply it until around 18/19. But boy, when it's strong, I can squeeze fight that nut away. Girls actually found it hot that I could say wait!...and then do it more.. But be careful, it gets too close and your dick may think you really did cum and go down a notch.
Kegels...my long time friend
Before I discovered the great world of PE in 2003 (of course I quit in a month lol) I was a big time reader and stumbled across pc muscle work in my local library when I was a pre teen....yes..... Like in the early nineties! But I didn't apply it until around 18/19. But boy, when it's strong, I can squeeze fight that nut away. Girls actually found it hot that I could say wait!...and then do it more.. But be careful, it gets too close and your dick may think you really did cum and go down a notch.
Edging, quite simplified, is stimulating yourself until you decide or your dick decides not to continue anymore. The stimulation can lead to a regular ejaculation (creamy or standard, depending upon the circumstances), a so called dry orgasm (DO) where the wet ejaculation is replaced by orgasmic sensations and you may or may not continue, or thirdly you can choose to stop stimulating before you cum. Different guys have different strokes they like to use, but basically stimulate yourself any way that pleases you.
When you reach the PONR, you have to decide which path you will take. A strongly held regular kegel may stop a wet orgasm and timely applied reverse kegels can immediately reduce your arousal level so you can either continue edging, or if you are lucky and willing, continue into a dry orgasm. Basically the idea is to manage your arousal level over an extended period of time so that you can move towards your desired outcome.
See the Edging 101 thread located amongst the popular posts. You can also look at the groups, PONR, and Multiple Male Orgasm for supplemental information.
Good luck. Edging is a fine journey into the unknown.
Sorry for the late reply KP, The PeGYM forum does not have a feature where I can check posts I commented in.
It was a little creamier, the contractions were a little delayed but the cum was just pouring out like as if I was taking a piss.
Thanks for the response! I was just confused because I thought there would be a real technical way to edge. I am not sure if I am experiencing dry orgasms because I am a little scared to reach my PONR (making a mess). Most of the time, I guess I just have the regular wet ejaculations. Sometimes, I have this small orgasm that produces a little cum, like a droplet. Does that mean I am getting close to my first dry orgasm? I also tried not to cum by doing a "strong" kegel but for some reason, the kegel turns me on.. and I can't help it. Is my kegel not strong enough? Thanks again.
There's a lot of learning and experimenting to do. Join the groups as Pegasus suggests.
Also a good start (which I unfortunately did not read until recently) is an article by Pegasus and Pirate entitled "the Dry Orgasm" listed under the "articles " heading on the left side of the pegym menu bar.
You are on the right track big head. Just continue the quest along with the rest of us and enjoy the ride!
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Question, it says edge until you hit the PONR, is that the moment you get the feeling like you are gonna cum? Because when I try to edge when I hit that point I cant hold back at all.
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During initial training stop further back. Get closer to ponr as ability develops.
How many times should you reach the PONR in a 30 minute session?
And if you can, would it be best to stroke more slowly once you reach the PONR, or just stop stroking altogether?
And if you can, would it be best to stroke more slowly once you reach the PONR, or just stop stroking altogether?
Ive just edged for the first time, didnt realise my cock could grow so much! Also lost about half a pint of pre cum lol
