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Been reading a a lot about edging and it's obvious it has great benefits in bed (I'm sure my lady will appreciate it). But what benefits, if any, does it have for PE?
Edging 101
- Thread starter kingpole
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I think I've been doing it wrong. I just edged for 50 minutes while watching porn, but I guess I got to the PONR and couldn't prevent it. Just to clarify: Is edging, "I'm jerking off for as long as I can while not ejaculating," or is it, "I'm just stroking the shaft for as long as possible to maintain an erection and keep the tissues expanding for a prolonged period."
I think my version of edging is detrimental because more often than not I am ejaculating, I can't seem to help it.
I think my version of edging is detrimental because more often than not I am ejaculating, I can't seem to help it.
I can use imagination or porn and fully beat my cock like it owes me money for hours if wanted to. I only reach the PONR if I choose to. And contrary to what I have read about kegels/reverse kegels etc. I use none of these to achieve this. Actually the opposite. I fully relax all the involuntary spasm that you feel when it starts to feel good. Don't get me wrong it still feels good, just in a controlled manner. Now I am looking at this from a stamina point of view as size gains will come or they won't, thinking about it won't change the science behind it. Also, I would like to say I have no EQ or ED issues as I can also beat my cock and make it spit in minutes if I choose to do so.
So my question is - Is it possible that I'm actually controlling the smooth muscle in all the regions that makes you cum/not cum? Is there any possible explanation for this? To clarify, I am not pushing/pulling/squeezing/holding back...I am going full force the whole time.
So my question is - Is it possible that I'm actually controlling the smooth muscle in all the regions that makes you cum/not cum? Is there any possible explanation for this? To clarify, I am not pushing/pulling/squeezing/holding back...I am going full force the whole time.
I am a beginner and I have recently pledged not to masturbate for pleasure for three months- only to get blood flowing for jelqs 
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It seems edging might help me last longer in bed, even though I ain't old enough yet, but I've read here that masturbation can lead to lower gains. Is it worth me edging at this beginners' stage and will it only cause my newb gains to take longer to occur?
. It seems edging might help me last longer in bed, even though I ain't old enough yet, but I've read here that masturbation can lead to lower gains. Is it worth me edging at this beginners' stage and will it only cause my newb gains to take longer to occur?
I am trying to juggle PE, edging, gymming and getting with my girl all at the same time. They all revolve around my girl sucking me off every few days.
So kingpole's views are very clear ejaculate ejaculate ejaculate! But my ideal situation would be PE and edge (without ejaculating) for 2 days, then in my off day have my girl do it for me
Sound good?
So kingpole's views are very clear ejaculate ejaculate ejaculate! But my ideal situation would be PE and edge (without ejaculating) for 2 days, then in my off day have my girl do it for me
Sound good?
Yep....dick is out of shhape now at best at present i could posssibly hold a moderate kegel for 5 minutes.
hey kingpole, it's awesome that you're back posting! Hope all is on the up for you! I took the time to read through all of your log yesterday and while I realise that most of that was a cementing routine, when you were in your growing period did you have a specific routine? And did you have a specific kegel routine to get to the point where you could hold one for 45 minutes or was it just random holds throughout the day? Sorry if this is in the wrong place to ask, welcome back!
I edged today for my first time,and i've got a pretty good time : 58 minutes.I could've gone longer but it started to become frustrating.So,i'm wondering if i did ok:
I had a couple of points of no return after i stroke it a lil' faster because i was bored(the rest of the time i've gone slow),but i didn't really have to kegel.I just went a little slower and i felt a weird sensation:like something was building up in the base of my penis.Possibly the explosion i've heard some of you talk about.And when i ejaculated,it was weird,the first load got on my chin(i was lying back and i'm a pretty tall guy-by the way : NOT COOL)the second and third were also pretty high,and the ammount of sperm was almost double.
P.S.:I did kegel sometimes but not when i was in the PONR.
I had a couple of points of no return after i stroke it a lil' faster because i was bored(the rest of the time i've gone slow),but i didn't really have to kegel.I just went a little slower and i felt a weird sensation:like something was building up in the base of my penis.Possibly the explosion i've heard some of you talk about.And when i ejaculated,it was weird,the first load got on my chin(i was lying back and i'm a pretty tall guy-by the way : NOT COOL)the second and third were also pretty high,and the ammount of sperm was almost double.
P.S.:I did kegel sometimes but not when i was in the PONR.
Now, eventually once you have mastered base stroking and you can last 20 minutes your edging session should now include the entire shaft of the penis. Stimulate the entire thing from base to tip and back again. When you can delay ejacualtion from stimulating the entire shaft for 20 minutes then you would likely start lasting longer during vaginal sex.
hey KP, in the above described my erection does not always stay at 100%. And, it is very difficult without stopping. What do you recommend?
Do?
Do?
This is my first full week of PE. I'm really starting to like edging. My goal is to keep myself constantly at right below the PONR because that's when you feel like your head is gonna pop off your shoulders lol. Once I get to around this point I relax all my muscles and stroke slowly only stopping when absolutely neseccary. While doing this last night I decided to try to stop from coming by kegeling. What happened was odd. I went past the PONR and kegeled hard and held it while I came. Only a few drops came out but it stopped the refractory period. I waited a few seconds and when I started again within a few seconds I came again. This caught me off guard so I couldn't kegel in time and full out busted. Am I on the right track here?
Do?
This is my first full week of PE. I'm really starting to like edging. My goal is to keep myself constantly at right below the PONR because that's when you feel like your head is gonna pop off your shoulders lol. Once I get to around this point I relax all my muscles and stroke slowly only stopping when absolutely neseccary. While doing this last night I decided to try to stop from coming by kegeling. What happened was odd. I went past the PONR and kegeled hard and held it while I came. Only a few drops came out but it stopped the refractory period. I waited a few seconds and when I started again within a few seconds I came again. This caught me off guard so I couldn't kegel in time and full out busted. Am I on the right track here?
What I'm trying to accomplish is to constantly stay as close to orgasm as possible to be able to feel the intensity of that point but be able to not ejaculate. I really try to not to ejaculate. I love the build up of tension over days and weeks and I'm in folds more sensitive. The only exception to this is when I have sex. I like to ejaculate then because I feel like I completely empty out and I'm still as sensitive the next day for the most part
That is called riding the tiger, alwaya at the PONR but always holdng off tell the last......
I always know I had a good edging session when my cock takes a good 5 minutes or so to completely subside its erection.
