Edging 101

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uhm ive been trying to edge these days, but im not sure if i am right.

I often go pretty deep into the orgasm. I can feel the onset of it, and it is right at that point, where i release my hand, and I hold a kegel as long as i can to stop the ejaculation, but it also holds up the orgasm feeling as well. So i dont ejaculate (sometimes slightly), feel a little bit of the orgasm, but after around 20 seconds. I start masturbating again, and blood flow seems to be very intact.

Im not sure whether or not this is the right type of edging, and can actually lead to dry orgasms. Or is this just learning how to control premature ejaculation?

Thanks!
 

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uhm ive been trying to edge these days, but im not sure if i am right.

I often go pretty deep into the orgasm. I can feel the onset of it, and it is right at that point, where i release my hand, and I hold a kegel as long as i can to stop the ejaculation, but it also holds up the orgasm feeling as well. So i dont ejaculate (sometimes slightly), feel a little bit of the orgasm, but after around 20 seconds. I start masturbating again, and blood flow seems to be very intact.

Im not sure whether or not this is the right type of edging, and can actually lead to dry orgasms. Or is this just learning how to control premature ejaculation?

Thanks!

Kep practicing! you'll get there.
 

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Fantastic, very informative post, but I don't agree with point 4 when it comes to lasting longer.

I understand that the purpose of edging isn't ONLY to last longer, but also to get a good pump and blood flow into the penis after a workout..

However, if I am going for stamina in bed, when I edge I should stimulate the entire penis, including the head, in a similar fashion to penetration, shouldn't I? Otherwise you're not getting used to the feeling of sex.

I can stroke the shaft for hours if I want but it won't help me last longer when fucking a tight pussy.
 

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How to:

4: Stroke the base of your erect penis slowly move up toward the frenulim. The frenulim is the trigger this is what makes you cum to soon, avoid the frenulim unless you feel it is time to cum. Remember edging teaches you to be in control not your biological sensations.

Can someone show me a video of how this is done? Is this sort of the same as jerking off, except its much slower, u use the hand on the head (not the skin of the penis), etc?
 

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Hi Kingpole, I was wondering when I edge I almost last to three hours so far, but my question is do I blow a load after im done, or I dont blow one and just hold it in when im done with my session? thanks in advance
 

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Hi Kingpole, I was wondering when I edge I almost last to three hours so far, but my question is do I blow a load after im done, or I dont blow one and just hold it in when im done with my session? thanks in advance

Me personlly i like to blow my load, i think semen retention is unhealthy.mYou get the same amount of pump as if you don't blow.
 

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thanks, sorry but I have one more question im doing jp's 90 day, and so should I edge everytime I do a session, im doing 5 days on and 2 days off or should do it like 3 times a week? thanks again
 

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thanks, sorry but I have one more question im doing jp's 90 day, and so should I edge everytime I do a session, im doing 5 days on and 2 days off or should do it like 3 times a week? thanks again

3 times a week should be plenty.
 

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Can someone tell me if it's "bad" to do edging too many times during a day? When it's been some time since last ejaculation I can get the need to do something, but i just edge a little.. Instead of small edging sessions throughout the day, should I have one long at the end of the PE?
 

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How are your pi's?
 

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longer sessions are better IMO, because you are trying to increase stamina, right? Therefore, lasting longer in your edging sessions should be a goal.

"Quality comes before Quantity"
 

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1. What is PI?
2. When I do edging at the end of my PE sessions (often, not always) I do it for quite long.

I try to masturbate (and obviously ejaculate less). This will of course give you the longing to do it, so I do it, BUT I don't ejaculate. Still it calms down my need to ejaculate. Anyway, my question is whether these small "sessions" can be disturbing to the growth, etc?
 

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In my very early 60's and get to have sex every 2 days (when I behave myself!). I find that the days following intercourse are difficult for me to get near to PONR when Edging. Edging still feels really great, but think it would be better if I could get near to the PONR during those sessions.
Does this mean I don't produce enough *****, or ?
Some direction on this would be great.
 

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I have understood with balloning you are suppose to stroke the head of the penis. What kind of motion are you doing when you are edging? Because it's not jerking off right (and stopping before ejaculation of course).
Why can you not jerk off and stop before PONR and edge like that? I don't want to desensitize my cock so much that I get a hard on and can cum just by stroking. I am afraid that will actually make me last shorter in bed because everything the girl does will feel very sensitive.
 

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Hi kingPole, I was wondering what is Supra slammer? I read it on a post earlier, it's like the next level of edging? Cause I wanted to try since I last at least 3-4 hours, and wondering if you could tell me how to do it? thanks
 

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Hi kingPole, I was wondering what is Supra slammer? I read it on a post earlier, it's like the next level of edging? Cause I wanted to try since I last at least 3-4 hours, and wondering if you could tell me how to do it? thanks

Simpluy you aplly a uli grip to the base of your cock and masturbate withthe other hand. Release the uli hold every 30 seconds.
Becareful not to over do this one.
 

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Hi kingpole, i'm on my 8th day of JP's 90 day beginners routine and i'm planning to add edging to my exercise. Last night i tried to do edge and I followed all your instructions. I used OK grip to massage my penis from base to top slowly, it felt really good and the sensation is awesome i was very hard and horny. The problem is ive been doing edging for about 20mins but it seems i cant reach the PONR with slow massaging and stroking, those things only makes my penis erect. I cant proceed to the next step which is kegeling because of that PONR problem. I think the only way i could reach PONR is by masturbating normally. but it might drop the essence of edging if i do it. What advice could you give me? i really want to add this to my exercise to maximize my gains.