I didn't understand something (maybe the point lol) when I'm reaching the ponr, I continue to jerkoff (maybe slower)or i stop and then i continue to jerk?
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I mean.
with stop and go it's "easy" because you know you're cumming and you give you some time to relax. but with a woman on you , riding you...it's a little bit different!
with stop and go it's "easy" because you know you're cumming and you give you some time to relax. but with a woman on you , riding you...it's a little bit different!
You just stop all stimulation. When you get better control its possible to stay right before ponr and continue stimulation.
thx.
I've tried yesterday.
It sound "funny" but I alway jerk off with my skin on and off and not with the hand on the glans.I'm not circumcised but I cut(doctor cut it a year ago) the frenulum.
So it was kind a new thingI did it for the most of the time, slowly. becaus it's a little bit sensistive.
I had 2 "fake" orgasms (during the ponr I did a reverse kegel...my penis did the same contraction that i does when I'm cumming, but no cum )
So I think is good for a start, but With a woman if you are involved is difficult to mentaly detach.
I've tried yesterday.
It sound "funny" but I alway jerk off with my skin on and off and not with the hand on the glans.I'm not circumcised but I cut(doctor cut it a year ago) the frenulum.
So it was kind a new thingI did it for the most of the time, slowly. becaus it's a little bit sensistive.
I had 2 "fake" orgasms (during the ponr I did a reverse kegel...my penis did the same contraction that i does when I'm cumming, but no cum )
So I think is good for a start, but With a woman if you are involved is difficult to mentaly detach.
I have a question about edging: sorry if it's been asked before.
I've had 2 20 minute edging sessions with a day between them now.
Both were without porn and I had a hard time maintaining a full blown erection for the duration of the 20 minutes. Most of the time it was 50-70%. I struggled to come up with stimulating thoughts. I concentrated on the physical sensations but that only results in flaccidation.
Ultimately I had to resort to frenulum stroking and then lower my strokes down the shaft when I felt the PONR approaching.
What am I doing right/wrong?
Thank you,
Memor
I've had 2 20 minute edging sessions with a day between them now.
Both were without porn and I had a hard time maintaining a full blown erection for the duration of the 20 minutes. Most of the time it was 50-70%. I struggled to come up with stimulating thoughts. I concentrated on the physical sensations but that only results in flaccidation.
Ultimately I had to resort to frenulum stroking and then lower my strokes down the shaft when I felt the PONR approaching.
What am I doing right/wrong?
Thank you,
Memor
sounds like porn has desensitized you. Just continue doing it until you get better. it is gonna take a while for the effects of porn to remove from your body.
Haha I thought so. I used to watch so much of it, when I thought I had nothing better to do.
Thankfully, edging sessions will provide a suitable replacement for it.
Thanks.
Did my first edging session today. Used porn to get hard, but turned it off. Did it for 20 minutes and reached PONR about 5 or 6 times. ONly rubbed the base and stayed away from the glans. I felt good about it and was able to control myself much longer than with full strokes and using porn. I could see this helping.
I have a question.....when you're finished edging, do you ejaculate or not don't ejaculate and leave it at that? I would really like to know....
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Only ballooning requires refraining from ejaculation, you may ejaculate at the end of your edging session, it might even be better to do it so your body doesn't get too used to heightened arousal and loose its effect.
Sorry for quoting a very old post but just out of curiosity, you were able to go from 5" to 8" in about a year and a half (based on your join date vs date you posted that).
I'm wondering because I'm 5" and hoping to hit roughly around 7" in a year if that's even possible.
Oh, boy! Can any veteran coment on this:
Is edging bad?
Yes, in fact it's worse. The reason is simple: instead of achieving orgasm and ending it, you train your brain to be bathing in chemicals for hours. It's the worst thing you can do, bar none. The worst. If you began and realise what you are doing in time, stop or rush to the end. Whatever you do, don't keep the pace. Most of us weren't addicted to PMO, but rather to PEO.
I fond that on http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-use-porn-without-orgasm . I so like to edge, but after that articull, i am afraid!
Yes, in fact it's worse. The reason is simple: instead of achieving orgasm and ending it, you train your brain to be bathing in chemicals for hours. It's the worst thing you can do, bar none. The worst. If you began and realise what you are doing in time, stop or rush to the end. Whatever you do, don't keep the pace. Most of us weren't addicted to PMO, but rather to PEO.
I fond that on http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-use-porn-without-orgasm . I so like to edge, but after that articull, i am afraid!
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The link won't load for me, but PMO and PEO refer to "PORN>Masturbation/Edging>Orgasm." Emphasis on PORN. Porn can be bad because it can train the brain to only initiate erections in response to extreme mental stimulation. If you watch a 10 minute porn clip and ejaculate every once in awhile, it shouldn't be too big of a deal. However, if you edge daily for 2 hours to various intense porn clips, it can wreak havoc on your mind and severely affect erection quality.
It's my personal opinion that it's merely the watching of porn that's potentially harmful. Even without edging/masturbation. Just do not watch too much porn. I fail to see how edging (w/out reliance on porn) is in any way destructive.
It's my personal opinion that it's merely the watching of porn that's potentially harmful. Even without edging/masturbation. Just do not watch too much porn. I fail to see how edging (w/out reliance on porn) is in any way destructive.
Well, lets kick the porno out of topic! They say, that i might ditch porn as long as i want, what i am trying to do, but as long i edge, i am doing bad things to my mind!
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k the link works now. I've never heard of that before. I suppose it kind of makes sense. I wouldn't worry about it though. Porn is the real danger. The worst part of edging is probably the tendency for it to lead to porn. An hour of edging probably gets old after awhile and appetite for stimulation increases. Just don't let it lead to porn.
I find it hard to believe that edging will ruin your mind. However, if you're having erectile dysfunction problems, it may be something to consider cutting out.
I find it hard to believe that edging will ruin your mind. However, if you're having erectile dysfunction problems, it may be something to consider cutting out.
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Very long article, the writer seems to be basing his hypotheses assuming Edgers don't ejaculate, well, first of all thats not the case with edging, you can ejaculate at the end of your session unlike ballooning where its isn't on the list lol. second of all, you don't have to go for hours on end in edging, most guys don't even have the time to do so.
So all in all, its all up to the individual, and as with most things, moderation is key
