Edging 101

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I sometimes get a sharp pain in the middle of my penis after sex/masturbating/edging after i ejaculate. Its not often at all with se or masterbuating but often when edging. Its almost as if something is stuck have way up my penis, like pee or cum. Anyone else get this? Its not extrmly painful, it just makes me need to pee, and even then it doesnt resolve it. I usually have to wait half an hour to an hour.
 

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My question is, the point of no return... are you supposed to lose your boner when you stop there? I usually lose my boner once I get to that point. Is that normal?
 

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Same happens to me. Dont go flaccid but get back to semi.
 

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I still don't understand what you exactly mean by stroking. You mean like the way you would stroke a kitten or something?
 

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I still don't understand what you exactly mean by stroking. You mean like the way you would stroke a kitten or something?

Like the way you stroke your penis when you masturbate.
 

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The nervous system is used to going to ponr ,ejaculating and losing erection , sometimes it loses erection from habit.
 

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The nervous system is used to going to ponr ,ejaculating and losing erection , sometimes it loses erection from habit.

With edging practice, does this change? Losing erection while having sex sucks...
 

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"Edging should be in everyones PE toolbox. What would be the use in having a 8X6 unit if you only lasted two minutes? EQ and stamina gains will always shadow size gains in my book."
SOoo trueee!!! Omg
 

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From personal experience if your EQ is good or beyond and you're actually aroused your erection shouldn't subside substantially depending on the # of times you have already ejaculated. My 2 ¢
 

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So for you ponr is not so important.

SO Pegasus, what about if you want EQ, size, and complete ejaculatory control!!
(A)Is it better to edge or balloon?
Additonally, (B) is there any difference between edging and ballooning? ...because to my knowledge one deals with more so jerking off until PONR and stopping and repeat[edging] while the other focuses on conditioning the frenulum( what I understand to be my underglans under my head) for constant stimulation [ballooning] is this correct?
 

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Damn, for the second straight edging session i lost control. It's been hard to get erect the past few days. I've given up on porn and i guess my mind is trying too hard. I don't know whether the stretching session before jelqing has to do with this. All I know is that to get and keep it erect I have to always get too close to ponr and it sucks cause I feel as I won't gain if i continue to ejaculate during edging - penis gets pretty flaccid after that. I guess there is no solution but to keep practicing, right?
 

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Nothing frustrates me more than blowing a load "by accident" right at the very of a great PE and edging session. It happened today after 20 minutes of good edging.
I guess the brain goes into dumb mode and forgets for a split second that edging is to keep erect and to control and its not sex or jerking off.
I always get the feeling after that happens that "well, there goes all of my progress".....Almost a hangover...
 

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...it sucks cause I feel as I won't gain if i continue to ejaculate during edging - penis gets pretty flaccid after that.

That claim has been made, but I'm not the only one who is skeptical about whether or not it holds any truth. One member would blow every 3rd edging session and he made good gains. Personally, I'm more worried about all the built up pressure without a release.
 

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i do not understand edging. what troubles me the most is the grip... should it be an ok grip or a grip where my thumb is touching the glans and all other fingers are at the base near the pc muscle??? i cannot visualize the process. i only understand i should avoid the frenulum at the begining.

or is edging simply masturbating and i should hold my unit how i hold it when i masturbate
 

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What do you mean, ThirdArm?


Sorry for the real late reply. I didn't see this one.

When you edge, but don't release, you end up with semen that has to go somewhere. It usually just comes out in your urine, but until you do it's got nowhere to go. I just don't see how releasing could affect gains; the workload has already been applied to your penis.
 

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Hi, I`m new. Let me ask you guys this: now, edging sounds like EVERY SINGLE ONE OF MY MATURBATIONS. I mean, when you masturbate, you stop before cumming a lot of times, isn`t that the same as edging? I`m confused.
 

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Edging is just that but never taking to Orgasm, or at least once or twice a week if your not sexually active.