Do you tell girls your bone pressed or non-bp length?

[Couchdog]

This is because girls think dicks are bigger than they really are so they think the average is 8" lol my ex thought I was 9" when I'm actually 7.2" bone pressed then another girl asked how big it is and I said 7.2" she said "THAT'S MILES BIGGER THAN 7.2" ... nope lol girls suck with numbers and size

Yup, I've always been 6.8-7 bonepressed for awhile. Girls always assumed that I was 8ish to 9 inches. I let them believe it lol. First time I lost my virginity the girl was scared to have sex because she said I was really big, HUGE confidence boost, for 15 year old me lol. I haven't been with anyone since I was almost 18 years old, I hope girls still think I'm huger than I actually am.

 

[TheGreatDivider]

That's what I do, although I usually think two things when I answer:

1) They probably expect me to exaggerate slightly.

2) They probably know nothing about penis size.

Oh well.

C'mon, we're talking about women here. When you tell her your BPEL# she's going to think of these three things.

1) He's trying to impress me thinking it will make me sleep with him.

2) He's lying about his size.

3) I should pretend to care so I don't hurt his feelings.

That's it, women do not care about the actual number so long as you're not too big, or too small, and you can remain hard long enough to satisfy her. Other than that, unless she's just dying to know the actual number it's probably a sh*t test to see how much you want her.

 

[Pegasus]

Hmm sh*t test isn't that a pua term?

 

[djmotion]

Yup, I've always been 6.8-7 bonepressed for awhile. Girls always assumed that I was 8ish to 9 inches. I let them believe it lol. First time I lost my virginity the girl was scared to have sex because she said I was really big, HUGE confidence boost, for 15 year old me lol. I haven't been with anyone since I was almost 18 years old, I hope girls still think I'm huger than I actually am.

I let them believe it as well :biggrin1: why ruin something that should be left be? :heh:

 

[DarkMedic]

C'mon, we're talking about women here. When you tell her your BPEL# she's going to think of these three things.

1) He's trying to impress me thinking it will make me sleep with him.

2) He's lying about his size.

3) I should pretend to care so I don't hurt his feelings.

That's it, women do not care about the actual number so long as you're not too big, or too small, and you can remain hard long enough to satisfy her. Other than that, unless she's just dying to know the actual number it's probably a sh*t test to see how much you want her.

I don't think they care, nor do I give a fuck enough to avoid telling them when they ask.

 

[TheGreatDivider]

I don't think they care, nor do I give a fuck enough to avoid telling them when they ask.

But why even tell them if you don't care? If you truly didn't give a fuck about what she thought, but you had your boundaries, you wouldn't tell right away.

 

[TheGreatDivider]

Hmm sh*t test isn't that a pua term?

It is, but the term is older than that.

 

[Pegasus]

It is, but the term is older than that.

They taint everything they touch.

 

[TheGreatDivider]

They taint everything they touch.

Back in my day a sh*t test was something you took to get into college.

 

[DaddyDingo]

i tell them half my actual size, or my flaccid length, and show my erect length. So its bigger than expected everytime.

 

[Phoenix7672]

Depending on your size, I think anyone who is over 8" BPEL in actuality is probably best to just say they are 8". Reason being is 8" even in girlspeak is still 'big', and if anything, they will likely think it is even bigger when they see it in person. If you were to round up and say 9-10", then there is the potential they will expect more than you are bringing to the table.

Honestly if pressured these days I'd just say 'somewhat over 7 inches', to 'close to 8'. I doubt anyone would turn things down due to thinking those are small, and they'd likely still be surprised if they saw it in person. Granted part of me would want to say 'about 6 inches...soft' just to see their reaction (and is technically still a truth in my case lol).

 

[Pegasus]

Depending on your size, I think anyone who is over 8" BPEL in actuality is probably best to just say they are 8". Reason being is 8" even in girlspeak is still 'big', and if anything, they will likely think it is even bigger when they see it in person. If you were to round up and say 9-10", then there is the potential they will expect more than you are bringing to the table.

Honestly if pressured these days I'd just say 'somewhat over 7 inches', to 'close to 8'. I doubt anyone would turn things down due to thinking those are small, and they'd likely still be surprised if they saw it in person. Granted part of me would want to say 'about 6 inches...soft' just to see their reaction (and is technically still a truth in my case lol).

Actually I made the mistake back when I was young and stupid of saying mine was 7.75" which it was . I was told this was average . The girl stared yabbering on and all the guys around started saying theirs was bigger yada yada Now that was way way back in the day before the internet .

 

[DarkMedic]

But why even tell them if you don't care? If you truly didn't give a fuck about what she thought, but you had your boundaries, you wouldn't tell right away.

Because I don't care..

What do you do for work?

Paramedicine

How long is your dick?

About 6 inches


I fail to see where my lack of caring is supposed to compel me to tell them some foggy haiku. No I don't have those boundaries. Besides, I never get asked how big my dick is.

 

[Pegasus]

Because I don't care..

What do you do for work?

Paramedicine

How long is your dick?

About 6 inches


I fail to see where my lack of caring is supposed to compel me to tell them some foggy haiku. No I don't have those boundaries. Besides, I never get asked how big my dick is.

Meh that's ok . Of course in a sense you would be telling a lie since you know they will visualise 4" .

 

[bob999]

Unbelievably pathetic that men blatently lie and add up to 50% more to their dick size. I can understand why a 5 incher will claim 6 but why the hell would a 6 incher claim 8!? Crazy

 

[Pegasus]

Unbelievably pathetic that men blatently lie and add up to 50% more to their dick size. I can understand why a 5 incher will claim 6 but why the hell would a 6 incher claim 8!? Crazy

way of the world son . I tried to talk sense to people about penis size . Look don't even think about doing that it will just bring pain . Every woman in the western world swears she is dead accurate and just got lucky to get so many 8 in dicks( which are actually l 6") it is no use trying to explain anything or do the maths you are just wasting your time and causing pain to your self and annoyance to those around you especially the girl you are "insulting" by telling she doesn't know what 8" is.

 

[bob999]

Well I'm pleased to say I'm 1 of the normal ones that doesn't bullshit. I do find it pretty strange that penis size actually comes up in conversation because of the many dozens of girls I've been with, precisely 0 of them I discussed dick size with prior to them seeing it. My guess is that it's the guys with weak game trying their best to impress the girl by making bold claims about their sizes. As I said.. Pathetic!

 

[Pegasus]

Well I'm pleased to say I'm 1 of the normal ones that doesn't bullshit. I do find it pretty strange that penis size actually comes up in conversation because of the many dozens of girls I've been with, precisely 0 of them I discussed dick size with prior to them seeing it. My guess is that it's the guys with weak game trying their best to impress the girl by making bold claims about their sizes. As I said.. Pathetic!

Well lucky you. I rather unfortunately have had it happen a number of times that they not only asked but when I tried to deflect the question were very insistent and no I did not bring it up. This seems to have happened to many others . By the way I have had them insist on knowing the inch count after they have seen it, which I also find annoying.
Some of us do not "game " by the way and find "game " pathetic.

You say you do not bullshit and also that you have never been asked which is it ?

 

[TheZZMan]

Women know nothing of bone pressed or any other intricacies of measurements. They judge based on hand size and guess what the actual number is. My wife insists that I am 9" long despite my showing her my actual bone pressed with a ruler. Her comment was, "that is how big you are when you get yourself hard, when I get you hard it is 9 inches" I choose not to argue with her, if that is what she believes, let it be. We joke about it on a regular basis.

 

[Pegasus]

Women know nothing of bone pressed or any other intricacies of measurements. They judge based on hand size and guess what the actual number is. My wife insists that I am 9" long despite my showing her my actual bone pressed with a ruler. Her comment was, "that is how big you are when you get yourself hard, when I get you hard it is 9 inches" I choose not to argue with her, if that is what she believes, let it be. We joke about it on a regular basis.

She understands the concept of girlfriend inches lol.
Any one else never had this happen to them? It seems a pretty common experience .