I try to get the important things I need to do out the way and then let it go. Although i don't always do this in practice.
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You should be worried less about some mystical life energy and more about getting laid. Trust me, you'll see what the fuss is about.
Seriously, orgasms are great. Have them by yourself. Have them with the love of your life. Have them with a girl (or boy) you just met. It's not using you up, it's not draining anything that can't be replenished - and replenished pretty quickly if you're young and healthy.
And if not even for your own sake, think of the sperms! Can you imagine anything sadder than a sperm that's all raring to go, just waiting for his big moment, but just ends up sitting around in your boring old testes for a couple of days until he's eventually broken down and reabsorbed? Poor li'l guy. Such a waste of a life.
Ive spent alot of time "worrying" if thats the right word, about needing to get laid. And it just hasn't happened yet. So I feel its best just to let it be, focus on my interest and not be desperate. (although I still really want to of course).
But good to know I'll know I'll see what the fuss is about as Ive spent so long thinking/wishing about it.
But I just can't get myself to that alone now. Because of the after effect. It might be different with someone. But alone now its like a second or two of feeling that is replaced by the opposite feeling. So I'd rather enjoy the whole process more not a few seconds followed by the "end" for a while hah.
And you could say the opposit of that too. I.E releasing them into nothing rather than where they want to end up. As I see it the ejaculating bit is for creating the baby really and so to be shouldnt necesserily be needed for the process of sex. But thats just me.
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It's fine to masturbate & ejaculate - just not to excess IMO.
If you think about it, if you are jerking off multiple times per day, you are probably not going to be ejaculating inside a partner on the same day. It's simple opportunity cost.
If you think about it, if you are jerking off multiple times per day, you are probably not going to be ejaculating inside a partner on the same day. It's simple opportunity cost.
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Coming inside a woman is generally necessary for making a baby, yes. But it feels good too! Again, you'll see what the fuss is about soon enough.
Coming inside a woman is generally necessary for making a baby, yes. But it feels good too! Again, you'll see what the fuss is about soon enough.
Unless I withould the ejaculation then too hah. which I will if it feels the right thing at that moment.
But nah hopefuly yeah (with or with cumming).
Doesn't the body release unused sperm through wet dreams anyway? Isn't that the body's way of protecting the prostate? Can't control that.
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Trust me mate, when your time comes, not ejaculating will seem about as appealing as snacking on some salad when there's a whole roast beef dinner right in front of you and you haven't eaten in a week.
Not always. I'm in the minority. After being cut I couldn't masturbate for 3 weeks. No wet dreams. Everything went out together with the pee.
HAHA thats funny becase I eat salad pretty regularly, but never beef.
I eat chicken sometimes though however!
But yeah, that may be so. I'll see. I still might not give in, knowing what comes after it.
Id like to see how long I can last without doing so.
Yeah it happens like that for me too.
When it happens accidently,espcecially if it wasnt that long since I last accidently did it, its like in slow motion, like a tree falling down. NOOOOOOOOOOO. When I do my best to stop it but it finds a way haha.
Again I wouldnt rule out building it up and at some point letting it out on purpose and seeing what thats like. But at the minute I want to work on not ejaculating at all. But probabaly still masterbate sometimes, to help build the strength and experience "expanded" orgasm instead.
But myself personaly I probabaly wouldn't avoid real sexual activity if I got the chance to. Thats what I want haha. Id just like to be able to apply this to it.
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I find when I sit around bored and I think I'll just jerk off before I work out I know there is zero chance on Earth I work out once I ejaculate. I seriously need to workout first.
i hate nocturnal emissions. Hate that wet sticky feeling in my thighs, boxers, bed, and bedsheets. Such a pain to clean >.>
Maybe I should wear a condom to sleep.
Maybe I should wear a condom to sleep.
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Many years ago I was just for fun keeping from masturbating for days, or for over a week. Perhaps two. The first few days I felt more and more horny. I never had problems getting rock hard erections in a matter of seconds, but I loved that extra feeling of being really horny beyond just having an erect penis. I experimented staying absent for longer times. But close to (or past) a week I would notice that I would mostly feel less sex drive than before starting the absence. It was like the body (penis) adjusted to the situation and sort of dried out. It was like it went into some kind of semi-hibernating mode. The horniness was still there, but it took on another character; a feeling of being more sensuous and erotic 24 hours a day. It wasn't that it didn't get errect during the semi-hibernation. It was more like it became a slight separation between the mind and the penis. Sort of hard to explain. Once I would touch my penis and masturbate, it would instantly be fully 'awake' again and it would be just the same as before the absence period. I experimented with on/off masturbating periods infrequently for a few years. It is also worth mentioning that I was never the person to have nightly ejaculations first place, and it didn't even happen when staying absent.
I've also noticed that nowadays it's become trendy to embrace the old 'science' from the Ancient East. I remember reading about how the life power (chi, ki, qi, orgone, prana) was depending on how much (or rather how little) one was ejaculating. The spiritual idea was that for each time you ejaculated, you were closer to death. Each ejaculation was called "the small death" as the notion was that you would lose some of your life power for each ejaculation. A person was born with a certain portion of life power, and one could individually choose how to spend that portion. Also one could build up the same life energy by doing other exercises, but ejaculation was by some perceived as draining the life power more than one would be able to fill it up with other exercises. If you would ejaculate often, you would die young, and if you kept away from ejaculating, you could live far past a hundred years of age with great vitality. It was because of this notion that those living in ancient East developed the dry orgasm technique, to be able to take part of the fun of having sex and yet life a very long life.
I personally don't buy into that old 'science' at all. Just because their culture and their 'science' has been cultivated for thousands of years, it doesn't mean that it is perfected, or correct. Their science is often connected to religion, which has created some strange premises.
I had a conversation with an urologist some years ago. And he was concerned about individuals who didn't ejaculate frequently, as by not ejaculating frequently an inflamation in the prostate could occur, and prostatitis could further lead to prostate cancer. He promoted that all men should ejaculate frequently as to maintain prostate health.
I've also noticed that nowadays it's become trendy to embrace the old 'science' from the Ancient East. I remember reading about how the life power (chi, ki, qi, orgone, prana) was depending on how much (or rather how little) one was ejaculating. The spiritual idea was that for each time you ejaculated, you were closer to death. Each ejaculation was called "the small death" as the notion was that you would lose some of your life power for each ejaculation. A person was born with a certain portion of life power, and one could individually choose how to spend that portion. Also one could build up the same life energy by doing other exercises, but ejaculation was by some perceived as draining the life power more than one would be able to fill it up with other exercises. If you would ejaculate often, you would die young, and if you kept away from ejaculating, you could live far past a hundred years of age with great vitality. It was because of this notion that those living in ancient East developed the dry orgasm technique, to be able to take part of the fun of having sex and yet life a very long life.
I personally don't buy into that old 'science' at all. Just because their culture and their 'science' has been cultivated for thousands of years, it doesn't mean that it is perfected, or correct. Their science is often connected to religion, which has created some strange premises.
I had a conversation with an urologist some years ago. And he was concerned about individuals who didn't ejaculate frequently, as by not ejaculating frequently an inflamation in the prostate could occur, and prostatitis could further lead to prostate cancer. He promoted that all men should ejaculate frequently as to maintain prostate health.
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You could just, you know, ejaculate on purpose a bit more often. If you're ejaculating anyway, you might as well do it while awake so you can enjoy it and not have to wash bedsheets afterwards.
Exactly. The fact the some people call it 'science' at all is ridiculous, I mean it's nothing but superstition. Also the idea that just because an idea is very old it must be true is very strange. You could call it the fallacy of ancient authority, I guess. People used to believe the earth was a flat disc at the centre of the universe and that all sorts of diseases could be cured by putting leaches on your body. If you think about it, the older a belief is, the more likely it is to be wrong.
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I do think that it will make you tired, just like sneezing, vomiting, these type of motions that eject some forms of body fluid all makes us tired
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