Cunnilingus

[niagra]

Did I spell that right?

So I have a few questions for the men here.

- What are your limitations for doing this?
- Do you prefer small or large lips / clit?
- Would you go down on a stranger?

I was never interested in going down on girls until I was probably 28ish or so. Now I like the thought of it but honestly most vaginas just aren't attractive enough to actually do it. The thought of going down on a stranger is fairly repulsive. I'd have to know that she's clean and whatnot. Some of the comments I see on the forums seem to give the impression that some of you guys will go down on juts about anything so you can get a girl off.

 

[UYN]

You spelt that correctly

1) None,
2) Medium sized clit, easier to find
3) Yes. She would not be a shady girl, in fact the opposite, so I would most likely feel safe then and there.

I really do not see why guys do not want to give girls head.

-UYN-

 

[redbear52]

Well, I have gone down on girls I had just met that day. Does that make them strangers?

Some guys, like me, actually enjoy it and are not doing it just to get a girl off. Obviously, a reasonable degree of hygiene is required but I haven't encountered any vaginas I found repulsive. I enjoy the appearance, scent and taste most of the time. I rather like prominent labia and clits, but small ones are just fine as well.

There are a few exceptions, but generally speaking nothing is better if you want to see a woman have an orgasm than cunnilingus. I suppose a vibrator would be a close second.

 

[Snooze]

Only ones I have performed it on are clean girls. I prefer any kind of clitoris. I love large lips that I can just dig into.

IF, however, it is smelly or just seems a bit too ripe on a certain day, I make quick work and get back up north and let her know that I'm ready to just go ahead and penetrate. Don't want to hurt any feelings.

 

[niagra]

So redbear, are you talking about just maybe ticklign the clit with your tongue or are you getting mad into it and letting her push your face down so that she can come all over your mouth?

Now dont' get me wrong, if been with a girl that had a nice vagina and I liked her alot and sometimes I'd just go crazy on her. But as far as saying that ANY vagina will do as long as it's clean just rubs me wrong.

 

[vulcan]

A while back someone posted a link to this Female Pornstar doing a Workshop on eating pussy. I learned a thing or two & have put it into practice. I want to see it again.

I am a fan of doing it if everything is Tip-top, otherwise I use the same method as Snooze & head North sharpish.

 

[redbear52]

Perhaps I have been lucky and I have only encountered women who prized cleanliness, or perhaps my standards are simply low. Personally, I find the smell of pussy incredibly erotic. Yes, in some women it can become a bit pungent, but you get used to it. Some women taste a little acidic during the less fertile portions of their menstrual cycle, but usually I like the taste quite a bit also, and it generally gets even better the more aroused a woman becomes.

If you are just going down there to give her clit a few token flicks with your tongue, you might as well save your time because you are probably just going to frustrate her. Women often take a half hour or so to reach orgasm so you need to be persistant and patient. And yes, I am talking about the kind of pussy eating where she locks both legs around you in a headlock and when you finally do come up for air, your face is soaking wet.

Let me ask you a question niagra. Is this something you have ever done, or just thought about? I am trying to think back to before I ever went down on a female. It has been a long time, but I seem to remember being not too sure about it until I tried it. You might find it more pleasant than you think.

 

[GTO]

Perhaps I have been lucky and I have only encountered women who prized cleanliness, or perhaps my standards are simply low. Personally, I find the smell of pussy incredibly erotic. Yes, in some women it can become a bit pungent, but you get used to it. Some women taste a little acidic during the less fertile portions of their menstrual cycle, but usually I like the taste quite a bit also, and it generally gets even better the more aroused a woman becomes.

If you are just going down there to give her clit a few token flicks with your tongue, you might as well save your time because you are probably just going to frustrate her. Women often take a half hour or so to reach orgasm so you need to be persistant and patient. And yes, I am talking about the kind of pussy eating where she locks both legs around you in a headlock and when you finally do come up for air, your face is soaking wet.

Let me ask you a question niagra. Is this something you have ever done, or just thought about? I am trying to think back to before I ever went down on a female. It has been a long time, but I seem to remember being not too sure about it until I tried it. You might find it more pleasant than you think.

A man after my own heart!!

 

[niagra]

Yeah I've done it, I'm jsut very surprised at how some men can be willing to do it without a close inspection first. I don't want to go into too much detail because there's nothing women can do about hwo they look down there but smoetimes it's just real bad.

 

[GTO]

I absolutely love eating pussy and my gf is very grateful and appreciate of the attention I pay to "my lady." Past lovers have also expressed their gratitude - even when some of them were not the best or very skilled in reciprocating (there was one when I just told her to stop cause the BJ was just horrible). Like redbear52, I not only love the smell but also the taste - when my gf gets really wet, her scent is very strong and it really invigorates me - I don't know, call it an aphrodisiac or something. And every time I go down on her, it's one of my goals to always come up with a shiny face!

Anyway, I love it. Specific to your questions:

1) Yes - on the upside and the peak of her cycle. Some guys I know do - I don't know how they can. And even if I wanted to, she wouldn't let me. On the downside, sure cause it's hit and miss.
2) No preference in size - a skilled tongue will always find it's mark
3) No, for the reasons you mentioned. Although I did once on a trip to Australia during my time in the military ... she was much older (I was 22 and she was in her 40's), divorced (husband left her for a younger woman - that girl must have been a super model or something cause this woman was drop-dead gorgeous), and was simply amazing in bed. I remember she took me over to her mother's house the next day to have pancakes! LOL! Ahhhh .. that was a wild time, but I digress ...

As UYN stated, I don't see why guys don't give more oral pleasure to their ladies. That's one of the most potent weapons you can have in your sexual arsenal - if you can make her come so hard she nearly snaps your neck (from the pressure with her legs wrapped around your head), then you have conquered Mt Everest, my friend! You are King of the Hill! :becky:

 

[niagra]

So you guys basically go down on all of your girlfriends? I can honestly say that I've wanted to go down on several until I find out if it's a mess down there or not. Maybe I'm too picky or anal or something but if a girl has large wrinkled lips it's just not gonna happen. It sounds good and all but for me I can't get over that.

I like a vagina to be nice and tidy. It really shocks me how some guys can be so open with it. I guess it really helps you keep your girl. Let me ask you though, have you ever had a girl turn into a lesbian after giving her head?

 

[JFP NY]

Guys, this is one thing you need to do and get good at...women will love you for it, you'd be surprised how many guys don't go there, and don't ignore her anus either, will drive her wild

 

[GTO]

Let me ask you though, have you ever had a girl turn into a lesbian after giving her head?

That's right out of Seinfeld - hilarious!! Just call me Castanza!!

If you are always expecting a pussy (or vagina for the prudes) to look textbook, you're never gonna get to the good stuff. That's one of the kinks of it - the differences in size and shape and all of that. Big lips, small lips, big clit, small clit - that's what makes it so cool. Part of sex is exploration and this is one of the opportunities to become a real Jacque Cousteau and find the treasure!

Bottom line: if you are expecting a girl to give you a blowjob, you should at least repay the favor. One girl I dated was kind of icy in bed - the lay was sorta stiff and she was very timid. The first time I thought it was nerves. But it never changed. After the fourth or fifth time we had sex, I went down on her and she was a changed woman; there was nothing she didn't want to try. Later she told me that as good as the sex was with straight intercourse (and she came plenty - my cock was always drenched in cream), when I ate her, it was like a dam broke in her and it sent her over the top.

You gotta try it man.

 

[niagra]

Well I've tried it, hell I've swallowed so much woman juice I had a sore throat the next day. I see your point about the exploration though.

For me going down on a girl is way more personal than bangin her. As far as repayment for a BJ yeah I can see that but the thing is most girls don't get sloppy with the cum. Even girls that swallow rarely want more than a drop on their lips. It's kind of one sided i think. But honestly I've never gotten one single blowjob that made me cum, never. Maybe that's my problem, I need better blowjobs.

 

[GTO]

Maybe that's my problem, I need better blowjobs.

Dude - you need to do standup! This is crazy funny! LOL!


Next time, be a tour guide - in other words, tell her what you like and what you don't like, but don't be an ass about it or anything. Make it part of the foreplay or during sex and kind of guide her along. Most women I've encountered really get off on verbal feedback - they really like knowing they are pleasing you. Now most don't want to hear filth and swearing every other word, but letting them know you are enjoying it or not enjoying it is always good. Cause believe me - once your tongue hits the right spot down there when you're eating her, she will most certainly tell you "Don't you fucking move - keep doing THAT right there. Damn that's it! sh*t! THAT feels sooooooo good!" You get my point.

And on the personal point, I know what you mean. But you gotta think it may be the same way on her end too. You may be licking her, but she's sticking your dick in her mouth - not much difference there really. As far as the "sloppy cum job," that's gonna come with time as you two get more relaxed with each other, or maybe it won't. I've known women that couldn't stand even the sight of it and others that wanted it all over their face, on their tits, everywhere. It all depends on the woman on that one.

 

[Hamms]

- What are your limitations for doing this?

Its all good as long as she passes the finger sniff test.

- Do you prefer small or large lips / clit?

No preference really, unless the clit is bigger then my dick, then it would just open up a whole new bag of issues.

- Would you go down on a stranger?

As long as the stranger was a chick and her vag didn't look like it just got over a case of chicken pox, I would.

 

[redbear52]

Let me ask you though, have you ever had a girl turn into a lesbian after giving her head?

That really was good. I snorted some of my beer right onto my keyboard.

There actually are rare women who don't care for cunnilingus. I had a girlfriend once who didn't. But in general, I doubt that there is anything that makes a woman want to jump in the sack with a guy more than her knowing he want's to go down on her, and is willing to take his time at it.

 

[ErictheGed]

My ex had had more partners than i'd had, but she point-blank was not ready for me goin' down. I don't consider myself an expert, but her other guys must just have plain neglected to go down. She kept pushing me away at the good bit at first, but i got her a few times. Its a shame we have to take into consideration if shes clean or not, but thats how it is these days, gotta be careful! Only got like 3 bj's off her in 3 months, whereas i'd always go down, i enjoy it. But now? Nah, no head for me doll, then no head for you.

 

[niagra]

That really was good. I snorted some of my beer right onto my keyboard.

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I know it sounds funny but I've seen a girl go lesbian after going down on her for a few months. It's so good that they just loose their mind and go crazy sometimes. Now, she didnt' stay lesbian for long. She eventually begged for me back. Of course I told her to piss off I don't do sh*t like that. But still, it does happen.

Only got like 3 bj's off her in 3 months, whereas i'd always go down, i enjoy it. But now? Nah, no head for me doll, then no head for you.

Now this is what I'm talkin about. Girls can get away with sh*t like this because guys are willing to do it in secret just to get a piece. I don't blame you guys at all and I know we secretly want to eat the puss out. (except guys like me that are gonna wait a while and check out the territory first). Girls wanna wrap us around their fingers just as much as we do to them and this really gets them off. Having a guys eat 'em out on call and they don't have to do much.

 

[Manoel]

going down is maybe the first thing I do before I kiss my g/f all over.

just one thing I hate is when if my gf shaves completely after few days, the hair that is starting to grow feels so unpleasant I've told her just to trim it and thats perfect!