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Hi people and yep, l'm new round here but have browsed over the yrs and also started Jelqing too 4 or 5 yrs back and on off since.
l'm 61 now although l didn't put exact age in the rego form, don't trust internet but anyway l wonder a lot of things sexually and the unit and about other guys as we age and bla bla soooo, thought maybe we could convo a bit about things here. lf anyone's interested feel free to talk about anything or any thoughts .
There is a point to this but l'm fortunate l suppose in that most seem to think l'm a lot younger some have even guess later 40s or so and l do feel something like that too prob early 50s give or take or so most of the time. l do know l am luckily way way more agile than most l ever see anywhere near my age and l don't mean that in a bragging sense only in that l often wonder though sexually where l am at for my ball park so to speak.

Anywayyyy. just this last yr or so l have noticed for instance though and for the first time in my life really apart from while divorcing 10 yrs ago , but a drop in my interest sexually. However if the stimulation there that works a little differently and l find l often still can;t get enough if the interest is there. l'm probably triple my gf/partners libido for example mostly, but not always, and she's only 51 and she is a "very" sexual person.
bUt at the same time , l also move in waves and sometimes on down waves , l could really just take anything sexual or leave it , wouldn't worry me, unless- something stirs me up then l't'll most likely be back .

So on things like that for a a start, l wonder how others are and feel sexually as they've gotten getting older and things like thinking about anything sexually too , and how often you feel like it ldk, anything really.
Sometimes the unit is still dancing about as my gf calls it, waking up full of beans and staying that way all day long even if he's had some satisfaction that morning. might be that way for a few wks no matter what we do or l do. But at other stretches on the other hand , might be a few days or a wk or two , he might be just feeling all dopey as she calls it , or sleeping, she loves me sleepy haha, gives her a rest. but really l or the unit couldn't care less during those times mostly. Mind you even during those periods though if the inspiration arises , could even just be a sexy picture or something my gf did- he'll wake up for sure but if left alone otherwise , might not care until it returns which could be a day , a few or a wk or two. When l was young there were never breaks or sleepy times.

So maybe it is age , or sometimes l think we get to a stage where we get board too or just sick of women. l also wonder to that with age , we've usually lived many things well l know l have for sure and so things just aren't as exiting anymore, or something butttt, ldk.

Anyway , just thoughts and wonderings to start with and l'd love to hear yours if you feel inclined.

ps , l've noticed my gf moves in waves too.


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Maybe at your age you have found that there are many things to do besides sex and they're fun.
 

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Maybe at your age you have found that there are many things to do besides sex and they're fun.
Sorry. Don’t think so, LOL
Hey Marco, I’m 61, delt with low T levels, sever ED, fatigue, muscle aches and arthritis. My hot tub keeps me sane. I never tire of fucking my wife and she never says no, hyper multi orgasmic, even more so since my gains. Every year I seem to acquire more doctors, cardiologist, urologist, podiatrist , dermatology , etc…..and more tests. CAT scans, blood work, T levels, sugar, colestoral, renal ultrasound, cardio echograms, prostate exams, my favorite BTW, cute nurse practitioner. Take your time sweet heart. So, if you are fit and feel good? Don’t take it for granted, fuck her as often as you can because tommorrow is a different day.
 

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Hey Cysp.
Haaa that is funny , good for you my friend, enjoy yaself eh.
But yeah it's been weird really wondering what my new normal is or isn't and so what anyone else's normal is these days. l mean everyone's different so all this stuff would vary far and wide l know and then l suppose there's also many circumstances too like married or not , how long for , attraction , or somebody that's been single or divorced awhile .
Being single for some l'd be thinking , don't know but l'd be thinking they might be feeling to hell with any of it by now , to hell with women too , do know a few guys feel like that. One's been divorced 10yrs he use to play around a lot but he hardly cares less these days he's 59. He goes out drinking now and then brings someone home but won't get involved.
Married guys yeah , dk . l mean a lot of them l guess been with the one partner so long now so all that sort of thing comes into it too l'd guess. Then l hear about someone like yourself where things between them are still firing nicely between you haha.
Can l ask how long you've been married ?

l was married 20yrs and must admit l lost interest as she'd changed so much . My partner now has an incredible body for her age but she does have some health problems that come and go a lot too so we're never really into some steady type patterns for very long at a time. When she's ok we might be everywhere for a few wks but then she;ll get problems again so even with us it's hard to know a normal , or for me these days in those ways.
But going waves myself too anyway it all kinda works out and mind you , she's always happy to ahhhh, give me some fun even if she can't go for it herself when she's having problems.
 

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My dad was still as horny as fk even to his later 70s and still chasing mum around, it was a family joke .
Was reading some guy might've even been in here somewhere l think he was saying late 70s but he still needs some action every day even if he has to oblige himself . He'd been married 50yrs or soething and the misses does still fire but just not as much as him haha. Bloody funny really.
 

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Maybe at your age you have found that there are many things to do besides sex and they're fun.

Yeah dunno.
l mean we've seen it all a million times as we get older and done a lot of it just as much almost too. As l was saying l know guys that are literally sick of women, and you hear plenty of women talk about just being sick of men too.
Maybe for some other things and life are more fun these days.
 

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Sex. For me at least is a renewing of my bond to my wife. Without it we grow apart.
 
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Sex. For me at least is a renewing of my bond to my wife. Without it we grow apart.


Ahhh , nice to hear and really , that sort of thing is probably one of natures biggest intentions .
Sadly so often the last sort of thing even mentioned though these days isn't it and it's all become and called just sex- which l hate that term tbh bc it really should be as you describe, and making love , bond.
We've been long distance the last 18mths bc she's had legal stuff up in her city and one thing we love so much is just holding and feeling ea other again.
 
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Staying as [heart] healthy as you can, managing stress, and making sure your hormones stay at good levels are all things that need to be taken care of as one ages. There are men well into their 70s and above who can still perform due to good health.
 

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I am well over 70, but due to diabetes, I now need to use a VED in order to generate an erection. However, my wife seems to be interested in intercourse only once or twice a month.
 
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I am well over 70, but due to diabetes, I now need to use a VED in order to generate an erection. However, my wife seems to be interested in intercourse only once or twice a month.
Implants perhaps. At least she’s still interested.
 

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I am well over 70, but due to diabetes, I now need to use a VED in order to generate an erection. However, my wife seems to be interested in intercourse only once or twice a month.

Is Viagra or Cialis an option for you?
 

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You know one of the things l was wondering , like if it ain't broke why bother fixing it right. So what l mean in this case is , if your losing interest or have lost interest completely- it ain't really broke then right, you've just lost interest so who cares anyway- well that's what l'd be thinking. Do know as l was saying a few guys that couldn't care less these days and it sounds like a lot of wives couldn't either so really , if you'd lost interest and she'd lost interest , then it still isn't broke is it.
l could imagine on the other hand though in other marriages she might still be interested and so if he wasn't under those circumstances, he;'d be feeling pressured and thinking he does need to fix something.
 

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I am well over 70, but due to diabetes, I now need to use a VED in order to generate an erection. However, my wife seems to be interested in intercourse only once or twice a month.
As we get older gone are the days of screwing in the kitchen at 2 in the afternoon. Why? It has nothing to do with lack of interest. There are things that need to be done during the day. As evening comes and it's time to get into bed ,where most people have sex, well people are tired. Age gives us less energy and the things that need to be done seem to take up most of that energy. It's not that men or women don't want to screw each others brains out; we at times are just too tired and simply don't want to say it as if we do we feel we're giving into our age and many of us don't want to be reminded of our age.
 

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As we get older gone are the days of screwing in the kitchen at 2 in the afternoon. Why? It has nothing to do with lack of interest. There are things that need to be done during the day. As evening comes and it's time to get into bed ,where most people have sex, well people are tired. Age gives us less energy and the things that need to be done seem to take up most of that energy. It's not that men or women don't want to screw each others brains out; we at times are just too tired and simply don't want to say it as if we do we feel we're giving into our age and many of us don't want to be reminded of our age.
Yes. Agree. I’m exhausted all the time, even after ten hours of sleep. The house is going to hell because I lack the energy to do the work. A lot of that has to do with filling her needs, sex 3-4 days a week for at least two hours each, she exhausts me. She’s on her way home from work right now expecting it. Just took 100 mgs Viagra, will start pumping shortly, and then shoot up Trimix. And then try to make dinner later.
 

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As we get older gone are the days of screwing in the kitchen at 2 in the afternoon. Why? It has nothing to do with lack of interest. There are things that need to be done during the day. As evening comes and it's time to get into bed ,where most people have sex, well people are tired. Age gives us less energy and the things that need to be done seem to take up most of that energy. It's not that men or women don't want to screw each others brains out; we at times are just too tired and simply don't want to say it as if we do we feel we're giving into our age and many of us don't want to be reminded of our age.
Yup. And add to that the responsibilities that we stack on over time. Some people have kids. We recently added a couple of puppies to the household. Etc. The addition of life things tend to get in the way of spontaneity and frequency.

Even if not, though, there’s a natural decline in the hormonal surges we experienced when we first met. From an evolutionary, species survival, procreation perspective it makes good sense. My wife and I are still very attracted to each other but it doesn’t cause the same rush of hormones like oxytocin and dopamine that it used to.
 
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Yeah tiredness takes heaps away but we both find it's more mental tiredness bc life these days is just so fkg mentally exhaustively complicated. like l just had to do a new card, this means online bs but then l have to go change all my other things to that new card or l can't buy or do sh*t online until l do- againnnn. Only did it 2yrs ago, hrs of wasted bs, here we go again- it's all just such bullshit. last wk l had to redo my online gov site- this involved a 2 hr ph call too, most of that waiting through machines that alone send yuou round the twist- just to get a code so that l could finish the other bit. This wk it's messed up again l have to do all that, again ! Just two things but hrs of total bs involved - there's dozens of these things- numbers numbers numbers , online offline, calls, type, tap tap , blocking scam, protecting this doin that, life bills run your business renew this change that, it's all that sh*t over and over and over and on an on it goes, never ends, pw's, numbers and on and on.
My gf's very tech but even she says there's just so much bs now, life was 50 times less stress 20yrs ago , and it was. Even just phones alone, stress the hell out of you. Wouldn't have known what that was 30yrs ago, just walked in threw on the answering machine end of the day.Computers, back ups, fk ups , it never ends.
My work lifes pretty cruisy own boss short hrs neither so is gf's but l tell ya, it's all that other bs that totally wares us both out. Mentally is everything and if that's all just exhausted and wasted and stressed on all that just total garbage, your done before you even get onto real life itself we find.
 
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Yes. Agree. I’m exhausted all the time, even after ten hours of sleep. The house is going to hell because I lack the energy to do the work. A lot of that has to do with filling her needs, sex 3-4 days a week for at least two hours each, she exhausts me. She’s on her way home from work right now expecting it. Just took 100 mgs Viagra, will start pumping shortly, and then shoot up Trimix. And then try to make dinner later.

l dunno party , sounds pretty repetitious and pressured , chore like, that'd kill the passion for me. What about what you want ?
So many guys round here seem to be just all about what she wants but all this is a 50 50 two way thing including pleasures.
l don't believe in being just all about her got no problem passing if lm not in the mood either or going for what l want and my urges too , passions, bc all that is all just fine for them when they aren't feeling it, or want this want that well, goes both ways in my book.
Maybe you could move things around a bit into times and situations where you are both feeling it and things you want .
 

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l dunno party , sounds pretty repetitious and pressured , chore like, that'd kill the passion for me. What about what you want ?
So many guys round here seem to be just all about what she wants but all this is a 50 50 two way thing including pleasures.
l don't believe in being just all about her got no problem passing if lm not in the mood either or going for what l want and my urges too , passions, bc all that is all just fine for them when they aren't feeling it, or want this want that well, goes both ways in my book.
Maybe you could move things around a bit into times and situations where you are both feeling it and things you want .
She always wants it. And I’m ok with that. I feel my lack of energy is due to low T levels. Lots of muscle pain and aches. Been relying on Androgel but I think it’s time to move to injections. If the insurance is ok with it.
 

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Haaa that's funny , on her part l mean. . Get her sore man that'll shut her up for a wk or two haha.
She usually ends up sore but then again , l always joke that if she can still walk l haven't had enough fun. Mind you l'm a little rough on women, only get a few days out of her haha.
Was thinking about this one though , do you run ? lt doesn't have to be far or fanatical , few k's x 2 or 3 times a wk.
l was feeling the way you describe back in my 40s for awhile there l thought shyt this is weird am l getting old at this age what's going on. Remember chasing my girls up this sand dune , wasn't even that high , l was such a pussy completely ucked by the top.
So l started running , just a few k a few times a wk but man, few mths later we were playing on those same dunes and l was all over them- didn't even realize but then l remembered later gees almost callasped last time l ran around on these things, the difference was incredible.
But there were many huge differences, breathing, energy, 10x fitter, not only but mentally too, you really blow all the crap out of mind and body running,.
 
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