He isn't you asshole! Didn't you read the thread? She was the one who made the advances not him and he was the one who is EXPRESSING RESERVATIONS about calling an engaged woman. You also completely ignore the fact that it could be something she says often to throw horny guys off the scent. It might not even be true and that is exactly what he's going to find out before he trys anything. If you don't have anything constructive to say then stay the fuck out of the thread!
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He isn't you asshole! Didn't you read the thread? She was the one who made the advances not him and he was the one who is EXPRESSING RESERVATIONS about calling an engaged woman. You also completely ignore the fact that it could be something she says often to throw horny guys off the scent. It might not even be true and that is exactly what he's going to find out before he trys anything. If you don't have anything constructive to say then stay the fuck out of the thread!
Sure, he didn't do ANYTHING to push the situation, did he? It was ALL on her wasn't it? :der:
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Its unclear if she is really engaged at this point in time. Females do say they are when they aren't and they do say they have boyfriends when they don't, as an automatic defense... her behavior if she is engaged is not very becoming to say the least .. which is why I said find out if she is or isn't, no harm in making the first phone call .. if she is engaged i personally would steer clear.. too much drama, too messy and why get dragged into a bullshit situation .. sometimes its better to walk away knowing you could have, rather then you did... i still say no harm in pursue it, to get some clarity on whether or not she is single.
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She touched your penis? Must be true love.
By the sounds of it, she was lying about being engaged, probably due to the age thing that she mentioned. She was either feeling that she was too old for you (low self-esteem), or initially felt you were just being a horndog. She either revised her opinion later on, especially when you were sweet to her, or she decided she fancied a go on your choo-choo train.
That, or she really is engaged, and just fancies a bit on a the side. Chugga, chugga, chugga...
By the sounds of it, she was lying about being engaged, probably due to the age thing that she mentioned. She was either feeling that she was too old for you (low self-esteem), or initially felt you were just being a horndog. She either revised her opinion later on, especially when you were sweet to her, or she decided she fancied a go on your choo-choo train.
That, or she really is engaged, and just fancies a bit on a the side. Chugga, chugga, chugga...
stretch you will be happy to hear i phoned and a man answered...... i asked for one of my friends. I used a real name so it wouldnt sound awkward. Now im confused. First why did she give me a home number? At this point im thinking the number is fake. Again im really looking for a womens opinion. What do i do now? If it really is her number how do i proceed. And if its fake how do i find out. At this point my plan is to phone again on Saturday night. I assumed calling earlier before the shift i saw her working would be best. If it doesnt work then ill probably give up. Well maybe, there is the off chance (50%) the abcess comes back lol, if that happens ill try to arrange it to get in for her shift. If we meet again maybe its fate lol. But seriously fake number or not? im 22 btw
the first thing would normally bring up would be how territorial a guy like you is when im around. This has an amazing effect on women lol. If you could actually stick to the part i bolded you might stand a chance
but it would still be easy to get in there, assuming your good enough to get anyone out of anyone elses league easily makes you flawed enough for me to make you look bad simply by giving her a mans perspective on the way you think 
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If shes engaged shes a dirty and only good for a shot, so get her pumped and get her dumped. If shes single, great! Stretch just hates going behind folks backs i kinda agree with him on that. I know she gave you the number so its on her, but try and clock a ring next time!
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Is it odd that I'm against cheating yet I find phil's behavior to be completely acceptable?
I guess if you're not the one doing it, it's not as bad. If she does have a fiance, thats her problem.
I've been in this situation a few times, if not you, it'll be someone else.
Why not enjoy yourself with a hot, freaky nurse? Have fun!
I guess if you're not the one doing it, it's not as bad. If she does have a fiance, thats her problem.
I've been in this situation a few times, if not you, it'll be someone else.
Why not enjoy yourself with a hot, freaky nurse? Have fun!
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I am against cheating too...
My advise at this point is one of two things... assume that he was indeed her fiance and move on!
or call again .. if you get him ask for her .. if he asks who you are, be honest say you met her at the hospital and ask who he is .. if he says i'm her other half then say oh sorry i got the impression she was single,sorry and hang up... if you get her on the phone ask her straight up if the guy who answered the phone was her partner and if she says no (listen real carefully to her response time and what she says) and decide if you believe her.. if she says yes, then say oh i thought you were joking.. ok well umm thanks for the handjob and kiss.. and hang up.
I really do not recommend pursuing this girl if she is with someone, even for just a hit it and cum thing
My advise at this point is one of two things... assume that he was indeed her fiance and move on!
or call again .. if you get him ask for her .. if he asks who you are, be honest say you met her at the hospital and ask who he is .. if he says i'm her other half then say oh sorry i got the impression she was single,sorry and hang up... if you get her on the phone ask her straight up if the guy who answered the phone was her partner and if she says no (listen real carefully to her response time and what she says) and decide if you believe her.. if she says yes, then say oh i thought you were joking.. ok well umm thanks for the handjob and kiss.. and hang up.
I really do not recommend pursuing this girl if she is with someone, even for just a hit it and cum thing
Going from this post i can tell you are thinking with your dick and not your head...if its to happen, it shouldn't involve you rearranging fate ... whether it was her fiance or a fake number ..the odds are now starting to stack against you.
ok i never meant to give the wrong impression but i only ever wanted sex. Shes very attractive and has many qualities i like, but she is seven years my senior so eventually i would begin to either annoy or bore her. As far as i understood it she only wanted sex as well, i was someone she liked but she was attached and wanted a fling. Yes i was doing a bad thing but the responsibility fell on her shoulders. Not to mention this kind of behavior would be completely unacceptable for anyone i considered dating lol. Dating isnt even something im considering yet, im 22. my brain is not going to quit growing or changing for another 2 years, how can i possibly know what i want? A relationship at this point in my life is just a sham, leading some poor girl on for sex. I prefer being honest and letting them know i want sex in the first place. The majority of them agree with this and realize they want the same thing to. the rearranging fate thing was really meant as a joke, if the abcess does come back i will probably try to make it so im in there on her shift, but im praying it does not come back lol, its quite painful.
As for the phone call, i dont want to get her in trouble, so i wont be asking for her. He will want to know how i got her number and i will have planted the evil seed of mistrust. If shes a cheating slut there is not much i can do about it to better the situation, although washing my hands of it does not make me any better either, so with no clear right thing to do i might as well go for personal gratification. But do you think its a real number even? why would she give me a house a number? that doesnt make sense, why would she risk me talking to him.
As for the phone call, i dont want to get her in trouble, so i wont be asking for her. He will want to know how i got her number and i will have planted the evil seed of mistrust. If shes a cheating slut there is not much i can do about it to better the situation, although washing my hands of it does not make me any better either, so with no clear right thing to do i might as well go for personal gratification. But do you think its a real number even? why would she give me a house a number? that doesnt make sense, why would she risk me talking to him.
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Maybe the guy who answered is her dad. Or her brother. Or her roommate's boyfriend.
Maybe you should stop making all these assumptions, and just call and ask for her like TTBB suggested.
Or forget her and get on with your life.
Maybe you should stop making all these assumptions, and just call and ask for her like TTBB suggested.
Or forget her and get on with your life.
mmkay im gathering you both think its a real number, im gonna go ahead and call on saturday. If it doesnt work ill let it go.
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first off i know you just wanted sex .. i am just saying if she is involved don't go there
and like BW said if you want to find out who the guy is or if the number is really hers you need to call again and you need to ask to speak to her.
If she gets in trouble .. you did not put her there ..she did... and planting the evil seeds of mistrust is probably not a bad idea if she is in a relationship and behaved the way she did at the hospital... and if she is in a relationship do not kid yourself that you are something special,its more a reflection that she is a skanky opportunist..
umm yes it does
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and like BW said if you want to find out who the guy is or if the number is really hers you need to call again and you need to ask to speak to her.
Rinse and repeat till you get what you want
Havent read all of the reactions, but a lot of times this kind of stuff are just subconscious tests see if you really have balls. I have heard so many times I have a boyfriend, and I understand no is not always no(I'm not telling you to be a rapist).
No means yes more often then us guys think ;-) It's just sh*t-test see if we truly have a big pair ;-)
Havent read all of the reactions, but a lot of times this kind of stuff are just subconscious tests see if you really have balls. I have heard so many times I have a boyfriend, and I understand no is not always no(I'm not telling you to be a rapist).
No means yes more often then us guys think ;-) It's just sh*t-test see if we truly have a big pair ;-)
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Im confused is this the erotic fantasy section...you got a boner while she was picking at your ass sore? lol I did a stint in county when i was younger and my fav fantasy to beat my meat to involved my junk and a nurse.....just saying
i phoned yesterday no answer. Im giving up because something else has come up and im not getting anywhere anyways.
