After doing this hybrid method (I call it "Riding The Orgasm") for 30 minutes last night with no ejaculation, I am getting steady light tingly full-body orgasmic waves all throughout the day and a very pleasantly warm fuzzy feeling in my penis. It is kind of distracting, to be honest. lol. Here I am at the office with bedroom eyes and the ladies are looking at me in curiosity. Even just urinating feels crazy good. It has been 5+ hours into my day and I am still feeling it.
Cock is still hella heavy. Horny as hell, but I think I could get used to this.
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Anyways, reverse Kegels are the key. Wait until you get to about 8 out of 9 arousal, hold the reverse Kegel strong and try to ride the feelings between 9 and 10.
The way I see it, a reg Kegel increases pleasure, and those random flutters can push you over the edge. If you clamp hard on it, you may (or may not) be able to stop yourself from ejaculating, but it is much more difficult than simply riding the dry orgasm. The orgasm from cumming is in that split second before you have those ejaculatory contractions. Extending that split-second over several seconds allows you to experience the orgasm completely dry and it lasts longer without even a drop of pre-cum. Although the contractions enhance the orgasm, without it, the orgasm is warmer and full body.
Let's say the arousal scale usually goes 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 (Half-Erection Stage) - 4 - 5 - 6 (Full Erection Stage) - 7 (Pleasure Stage) - 8 (Building Stage) - 9 (Pre-Orgasm Stage) - 10 (PONR Stage = Contractions+Ejaculation)
If you reverse kegel at 8, then the arousal scale looks more like:
8 - 8.1 - 8.2 - 8.3 ... ... ... 9.5 - 9.6 - 9.7 - 9.8 - 9.9 - 10
-------------------->[ "The sweet spot" / The Orgasm Stage ]
The orgasm stage is actually tucked in between 9 and 10 and most men don't know that you can separate the orgasm out from the ejaculation by going past 9 but not reaching 10. Even prolonging the building phase is extremely pleasurable, going each small step from 8 to 9.
It basically extends the scale between 8 and 10. The first time you try, the scale isn't all that extended, but the more you practice the longer you can hover and ride out 9.5 - 9.9, where the dry orgasm happens. Without the reverse kegel, you will go straight from 9 to 10, with the orgasm coinciding with ejaculation. However, you can separate out the orgasm at around the 9.5 - 9.9 stage. The closer to 10 you get, the more intense the orgasm is going to be without cumming. If you accidentally go from 9.8ish to 10, then just shift from the reverse Kegel to a reg Kegel to stop it and then restart from 6 or 7 (80% to 95% erection).
Don't be afraid to stroke the frenulum to get to 8 or even occasionally message it to build up from 8 to 9 while reverse Kegeling. It feels amazing (why not?), and if you have a strong PC (train!) then your reverse Kegel will give you plenty of time to switch over to a less sensitive spot to ride the "The sweet spot" where all that orgasmic goodness happens.
TL;DR train reverse Kegels. I argue that reverse Kegels are far more important than traditional Kegels.
Side note, this is way more challenging during sex. If you want to try it, I would suggest going with oral first. Let your girlfriend or lover lick your frenulum and slowly stroke your shaft by hand until you get to 8, reverse kegel, have her continue to lick but slower, and then once you reach 9, have her switch to kissing, licking, or sucking on the underside of the base of your cock. If that isn't enough to ride a dry orgasm, you could have her try just massaging your magic spot. Communication is super important here. During penetrative sex, this is like ultra expert mode. It is far easier if she is on top and grinds you than thrusting, as pelvic movements make it extremely difficult to maintain a good reverse kegel, although it is possible. If you do get to the point where you try thrusting, go with the coital alignment technique (CAT) (Google it!) and when you get to 9, go balls deep, reverse Kegel h-a-r-d and grind against/inside of her to ride the dry orgasm. (Make sure to void your bowels and/or take a gas pill first) Also, note that it takes a lot of practice to remain present with your lover while being able to focus on the sensations in your cock. It might be best to let her know that you may get in the "zone" if dry orgasming is your goal.
Cock is still hella heavy. Horny as hell, but I think I could get used to this.
__________________________
Anyways, reverse Kegels are the key. Wait until you get to about 8 out of 9 arousal, hold the reverse Kegel strong and try to ride the feelings between 9 and 10.
The way I see it, a reg Kegel increases pleasure, and those random flutters can push you over the edge. If you clamp hard on it, you may (or may not) be able to stop yourself from ejaculating, but it is much more difficult than simply riding the dry orgasm. The orgasm from cumming is in that split second before you have those ejaculatory contractions. Extending that split-second over several seconds allows you to experience the orgasm completely dry and it lasts longer without even a drop of pre-cum. Although the contractions enhance the orgasm, without it, the orgasm is warmer and full body.
Let's say the arousal scale usually goes 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 (Half-Erection Stage) - 4 - 5 - 6 (Full Erection Stage) - 7 (Pleasure Stage) - 8 (Building Stage) - 9 (Pre-Orgasm Stage) - 10 (PONR Stage = Contractions+Ejaculation)
If you reverse kegel at 8, then the arousal scale looks more like:
8 - 8.1 - 8.2 - 8.3 ... ... ... 9.5 - 9.6 - 9.7 - 9.8 - 9.9 - 10
-------------------->[ "The sweet spot" / The Orgasm Stage ]
The orgasm stage is actually tucked in between 9 and 10 and most men don't know that you can separate the orgasm out from the ejaculation by going past 9 but not reaching 10. Even prolonging the building phase is extremely pleasurable, going each small step from 8 to 9.
It basically extends the scale between 8 and 10. The first time you try, the scale isn't all that extended, but the more you practice the longer you can hover and ride out 9.5 - 9.9, where the dry orgasm happens. Without the reverse kegel, you will go straight from 9 to 10, with the orgasm coinciding with ejaculation. However, you can separate out the orgasm at around the 9.5 - 9.9 stage. The closer to 10 you get, the more intense the orgasm is going to be without cumming. If you accidentally go from 9.8ish to 10, then just shift from the reverse Kegel to a reg Kegel to stop it and then restart from 6 or 7 (80% to 95% erection).
Don't be afraid to stroke the frenulum to get to 8 or even occasionally message it to build up from 8 to 9 while reverse Kegeling. It feels amazing (why not?), and if you have a strong PC (train!) then your reverse Kegel will give you plenty of time to switch over to a less sensitive spot to ride the "The sweet spot" where all that orgasmic goodness happens.
TL;DR train reverse Kegels. I argue that reverse Kegels are far more important than traditional Kegels.
Side note, this is way more challenging during sex. If you want to try it, I would suggest going with oral first. Let your girlfriend or lover lick your frenulum and slowly stroke your shaft by hand until you get to 8, reverse kegel, have her continue to lick but slower, and then once you reach 9, have her switch to kissing, licking, or sucking on the underside of the base of your cock. If that isn't enough to ride a dry orgasm, you could have her try just massaging your magic spot. Communication is super important here. During penetrative sex, this is like ultra expert mode. It is far easier if she is on top and grinds you than thrusting, as pelvic movements make it extremely difficult to maintain a good reverse kegel, although it is possible. If you do get to the point where you try thrusting, go with the coital alignment technique (CAT) (Google it!) and when you get to 9, go balls deep, reverse Kegel h-a-r-d and grind against/inside of her to ride the dry orgasm. (Make sure to void your bowels and/or take a gas pill first
) Also, note that it takes a lot of practice to remain present with your lover while being able to focus on the sensations in your cock. It might be best to let her know that you may get in the "zone" if dry orgasming is your goal.
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