Am I too big (girth)

[SquiddlyDee]

Thing is my EQ has gone down. Lately I have been experiencing some ED, it quickly goes down without stimulation. It seems to have gotten a little better, but I still have a harder time maintaining a full erection for long. This is a relatively recent development. There could be a lot of causes to that which I'm trying to rule out, but that's a whole other topic.
How much size do I think I gained with PE? I really don't know as I never took measurements, if I had to guess it would be half an inch in girth and half an inch in width. I really don't know though, those guesses could be way off.
Would abstaining really reduce EQ even more?

EQ really depends on your lifestyle, your diet, the supplements you take the number of times you have sex or edge, whether your pelvic floor is balanced or not, your cardiovascular health, whether you smoke or not ect. The fact is all of these things can affect EQ but one thing that dramatically increases and thereafter maintains a high erection quality is (responsible) PE. Particularly jelqing in my experience.

So I wouldn't phrase it as abstaining reducing EQ because if all of the above are in order it is absolutely possible to maintain an EQ of 10 without PE. However PE, I believe, is one of the most influential factors that positively affects EQ.

 

[SquiddlyDee]

Also I can only speak for myself when I say that regular jelqing only seems to benefit EQ, I haven't seen a fraction of an inch increase in EG in any way from jelqing, however it has dramatically improved my hardness. I'm not sure this is because jelqing is such a light exercise or because I'm not erect enough for them to be a girth exercise. So you could try jelqing at lower erection levels, you might find it benefit EQ without increasing girth.

 

[Orome]

EQ really depends on your lifestyle, your diet, the supplements you take the number of times you have sex or edge, whether your pelvic floor is balanced or not, your cardiovascular health, whether you smoke or not ect. The fact is all of these things can affect EQ but one thing that dramatically increases and thereafter maintains a high erection quality is (responsible) PE. Particularly jelqing in my experience.

So I wouldn't phrase it as abstaining reducing EQ because if all of the above are in order it is absolutely possible to maintain an EQ of 10 without PE. However PE, I believe, is one of the most influential factors that positively affects EQ.

That's true, I just found out this week I have some hormonal imbalances that could be attributed to my EQ problems (not to mention changes in mood).

Talked about it in this thread: https://www.pegym.com/forums/erecti...d-test-results-my-ed-psychological-not-4.html

I do think I got a lot of girth gains from jelqing. Before I joined this forum I had Jelqed at 100% (which I know now isn't a good idea).
I think I'll stick with pelvic floor and trying to get my hormonal levels balanced for now.

 

[Orome]

OP
You do IMO need pe exercises. You are not alone in your size nor in Eq problems due to size.
As you age its even more important. Your base has to hold that thing up. Your diet and exercise ( things that promote good blood flow and no blockage or dilation of blood vessels) is important.
Your penis is very heavy I'm sure so imagine the amount of work it takes to fill that up to erection.
Don't take away your partners desire to give you oral sex. Your partner can take in the amount possible or roam around the rest of it.
Don't worry about your size. Take care of your health. Be a good lover. Learn how to use what your God gave you.
Good luck.

I'm curious about this, is there a point where maintaining erections becomes more difficult due to size increase. Just too much volume to fill and it becomes harder to keep it 'hard'?

 

[BigO]

I'm curious about this, is there a point where maintaining erections becomes more difficult due to size increase. Just too much volume to fill and it becomes harder to keep it 'hard'?

No, there is no point that would make it harder. It is not like you all of a sudden need a gallon of extra blood. If PE is done safely then you should maintain a very high EQ.

 

[islander]

Agree what bigo said

What I was saying is if your girth is that big of course you have more to fill and more to keep healthy. Why do anything that will prohibit blood flow. If I had a dick I would not smoke pot or cigs and would promote good overall health but penis health too by doing pe.

The girthy partners I've had hang heavy off their body. It's very noticeable and feels very heavy.

 

[MrsLooking4more]

Orem your girth is workable with foreplay and/or lube. The issue is that when you are having ED or EQ it doesn't feel that size since it doesn't fill up all the way.

I have a hubby with a large member at home 8 x 6.12 and I ca tell you that my biggest complaint is not that I can't accommodate him, is that many fun sexual activities and position are no longer possible due to his new size. If you are single then is even more difficult as your ladies will not have grown with you as I did with my Mr.

 

[Orome]

Agree what bigo said

What I was saying is if your girth is that big of course you have more to fill and more to keep healthy. Why do anything that will prohibit blood flow. If I had a dick I would not smoke pot or cigs and would promote good overall health but penis health too by doing pe.

The girthy partners I've had hang heavy off their body. It's very noticeable and feels very heavy.

I see. Funny thing is when it's flaccid it's really not that big or heavy. Guess I'm a 'grower'.

Orem your girth is workable with foreplay and/or lube. The issue is that when you are having ED or EQ it doesn't feel that size since it doesn't fill up all the way.

I have a hubby with a large member at home 8 x 6.12 and I ca tell you that my biggest complaint is not that I can't accommodate him, is that many fun sexual activities and position are no longer possible due to his new size. If you are single then is even more difficult as your ladies will not have grown with you as I did with my Mr.

That's my biggest concern, I guess there's not much I can do about it.
Out of curiosity, what fun sexual activities are you talking about? I assume anal / oral?

 

[Orome]

Well I think I over estimated a little, was using a string and ruler. I got a tailor's tape and pulled it tight and it's 6.25-6.3 mseg but 6.75 at the very base when pulled tight! It's 6.25 most of the way though.

I've asked a few girls for an honest opinion and most tell me it was too big for them. I've had good reactions in the past for being large, but sometimes it just feels like more of a novelty than anything practical. Getting told you are too big for vaginal sex can suck (I'm assuming similar to being told you are too small).

It's threads like this one:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-perspective/19812-what-too-big-mostly-about-girth.html

and this one:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/13016-6-5-girth-wtf.html

And just getting others opinions that make me conscientious about it.

 

[rumblerumble]

im 6.5 x 6, not too far off from you. My EQ is pretty good, but im my experience theres just too much weight once you get past a certain size. I still get rock hard, but it hangs.

Also, as far as "too big", even at 6 " around ive been told im too big. Make it a challenge " oh I bet i can get you to enjoy it" seems to relax them enough. It also helps that you dont well..... go "bronco" style right out of the gates.

 

[Orome]

im 6.5 x 6, not too far off from you. My EQ is pretty good, but im my experience theres just too much weight once you get past a certain size. I still get rock hard, but it hangs.

Also, as far as "too big", even at 6 " around ive been told im too big. Make it a challenge " oh I bet i can get you to enjoy it" seems to relax them enough. It also helps that you dont well..... go "bronco" style right out of the gates.

Have you gotten any complaints about it being too big after the fact? Are you still doing PE for gains?

 

[rumblerumble]

Havnt heard anything about being TOO big. I have heard some about " cant believe I took that" etc. I just restarted PE to try to get a bit of length. I know ill probably end up gaining some girth too

 

[INS]

Your girls might be sore for a while after that. You might not get very regular sex if she gets sore, or it'll take a few weeks to months for girls to adapt to that. Also, you may have issues with the girls drying up, or cumming too soon (to the point it becomes hard for you to cum). But you might not have any issues either, depends on the girls you're with.

It's easier when you gain that much in a relationship, because the woman has a chance to adapt gradually.

You need to be really good at foreplay.

 

[thenewdude]

I'm curious about this, is there a point where maintaining erections becomes more difficult due to size increase. Just too much volume to fill and it becomes harder to keep it 'hard'?

I want to reply to that really quickly even though it has been responded to you already. It can happen from overdoing PE which more deals with PI but also when some type of edging or ballooning routine is not incorporated because essentially when you expand your penis length or girth wise it doesn't mean the body is supplying more blood but deforming the penis due to strain and pressure. So edging is highly important so that your body gets used to filling those areas as well via heightened arouse. Both exercises and edging need to work together.

 

[Orome]

I want to reply to that really quickly even though it has been responded to you already. It can happen from overdoing PE which more deals with PI but also when some type of edging or ballooning routine is not incorporated because essentially when you expand your penis length or girth wise it doesn't mean the body is supplying more blood but deforming the penis due to strain and pressure. So edging is highly important so that your body gets used to filling those areas as well via heightened arouse. Both exercises and edging need to work together.

I never edged or balooned, not even sure what balooning is. Though I may have edged unintentionally just by having long erections. Thinking back, the last time I pumped I way over did it, and I noticed the base expanded a lot from what was normal. I don't think it's shrunk down much since then so I guess that means it's cemented?

I noticed your signature, you and I are pretty much the same size, you're really going for more?
One thing about having a base that's even more girthy than the shaft is it makes condoms a pain in the ass. I'm glad my girthiest part is only at the very base, though. I took a pick to prove I'm not making it up, but I don't know if they are allowed here.

Just came across this thread:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlargement-forum/23103-5-75-inch-girth-bit-much-most-women.html
Man, these are making me depressed and feel even more self conscious.

 

[Thick_Unit]

I have always struggled with body image, funny looking, lack of confidence etc. Haven't has a whole lot of luck with women. Anyways I always knew I was on the larger side, but I didn't realize how much thicker than normal I was until recently. I (stupidly) dabbled with pumping and jelquing off and on for a few years without much precaution or routine or even checking measurements.

As it stands now I am ~7.75 in length and 6.25+ in girth mid shaft (and more at base). Magnum XLs fit me tightly. I thought this would be a positive thing, but the more I read online, the more it seems that I am too girthy for a lot of women.
I don't have much sexual experience, but is this true? I'm just really depressed to find this out, to think that I may have severely limited my potential partners by making myself a little bit larger. I don't know what my starting girth was, but I'm sure pumping had added some. I have since thrown my pump in the trash (did so after injuring myself) and have stopped all PE except for kegels.
Is it possible for my girth to go down some over time without any PE? Have I severely limited the number of women that I would be able to pleasure?

I know this is a strange thing to ask here, and some may accuse me of trolling, but honestly this is the only place I can think of to ask and be taken somewhat seriously. It's really been eating me up the past few days.

I can;t really help you since I don't have a whole lot of experience my self. I'm 6.5" MS girth, over 7" base girth.
I ironically I find Magnum thins don't feel as tight compared to the regular or xl Magnums. They seem to stretch more with less resistance then the regular and xl's.

XL's feel like a plastic trash bag


other wise it's like the blind trying to help the blind cross the street.

 

[Orome]

Hmm thanks, I'll have to try the Magnum thins. With the thinner material being stretched more I assume they would be more likely to break, though.
That's the bad part about being thicker at the base, condoms are a pain in the ass as most taper off at the base. The stretch is ok, although a little tight around the shaft, but the base gives you the inevitable ring of death.

I can;t really help you since I don't have a whole lot of experience my self. I'm 6.5" MS girth, over 7" base girth.
I ironically I find Magnum thins don't feel as tight compared to the regular or xl Magnums. They seem to stretch more with less resistance then the regular and xl's.

XL's feel like a plastic trash bag


other wise it's like the blind trying to help the blind cross the street.