Hey, New Guy. Seriously. What Mike said. I'm not sure what you are trying to say. But,
1) 8x6 is not as common as you think.
2) 8x6 is NOT as SMALL as you think it is.
3) Based on personal experience, every PERSON, I have been with, was surprised at how big I was at my natural 6.5 BPEL. I'm no "stud" by no means, but I have been with my fair share. Which leads me to believe, most women have NOT been with someone that big. The average, depending on what study you read, falls from 5.5 to 6.5 BPEL.
I don't mean to be rude or insensitive, but your perspective, as is most guy's, is seriously skewed. This site is filled with a plethora of knowledge and experience. You need to do some more reading. I think you it will open your eyes. I thought I was below average when I first joined. I soon discovered I was on the HIGH end of average. My, now, wife was really surprised by my size the first time I entered her.
I might be presumptuous here, but, before you ask, "Ok, then why are you here?" Call it the little man syndrome. I'm short. I know it. But, I have found it necessary to stand out more than the average, as a result, to garner the same attention as someone of average height. In all things. I also have an innate need to prove people wrong, when told, "You can't do that, it's simply not possible?" Me, "Why not?". Combine that with an overactive sense of curiosity well here I am.
But, the point being, I am way over the "wish I was a least average" misconception. More guys are more average than they believe.
Do this, look directly at your erection and fix that image in your head. Now find a camera and from the same angle and distance as your eyes view, take a picture and view it. Chances are the picture will make you look bigger than directly look at it. Same goes for TV and Film. The TV/screen image creates an image, as if the person were 5-10 lbs heavier than they really are. I think I look bigger in the mirror than direct look.
Food for thought. You need to change your internal perspective of things.