I totally get what you and Frog are saying and I really appreciate that you are trying like hell to lessen guys' penis size concerns, but here is the problem from the male perspective: society, women at the forefront, send out a lot of mixed signals and guys don't look past the first layer on things a lot of times...I have been hearing about dick size from women since high school til now. Celebrities with big dicks are idolized, men that are assholes must have small penises, blah, blah.. And with all due respect, your username and presence here(totally VALUED) send mixed messages. I believe that it is not that important to you but by now guys have been programmed...the fix is in. We hear what you saying but having the big dick eliminates any doubt.
I hope this came off respectful and I want to make sure you understand I am not attacking you, just trying to let you see it from the male's view.
I see what you are saying but seriously I don't know what demographic you hang out with but I am with students from High school to college day in and day out and that's not the buzz from the girls. Actually more are concerned with not getting a player for a partner and in the big cities like where I live that means a man or woman since there are more BI than straights in that generation, which compounds the anxiety issue for the males.
Any who my username was not my choice, I simply added MRS to my husband's username he joined the Gym 2 yrs before me, however you are assuming that we were looking4more size, when he joined the site he was looking for more help with ED and EQ since both were not working so size at that moment did not matter since his unit did not work. I have posted many times about this and even mentioned many times that even though he had this issue for a long time, he still satisfied me sexually without intercourse. So to me the size debacle is a bunch of hoopla that just perpetuates the PORN BS. I liked my husband size fine just the way it was and yes, I had had one bigger (my late husband) but guess what. The Mr.L4M rocked my world from day one with his smaller unit. I was one of those women that had never had an orgasm until he came along. I just meant that everyone needs to keep perspective. Yes, women are more liberated and know what they want now and that causes anxiety, well guess what, we assimilated to a male world, and now males have to assimilate to the changes. Once men realize is not a threat just a change of paradigm and that PORN is not real then things will normalize. You do realize that just like sports have women as their primary purchasers now, PORN is about even for women too and so is erotica, these are billion dollar industries. Why? We have a different view, we watch porn with our significant others to increase foreplay. Same stuff different mentality. Hell we have entire porn sites dedicated for Females such as Porn For Her.
So the thing is still the same is all in the head whether is important or not. I am not against porn, in my culture it is something to be enjoyed by husbands and wives. So no biggie, I have never fretted that my boobs were not as big as the girls, or that I could take as much as they can in any of my orifices and that I don't look skinny like them. Good thing for guys women are not as neurotic about porn. They are neurotic about regular media but that is a topic for another thread.
