Just some random thoughts on penile size and confidence issues

[rbi99]

There are a lot of guys here who are convinced that if they have a large penis they will have more confidence in general and sexually in particular. While that can be true there are some other truths. If you are a flaming asshole with a pencil thin small dick, and you work PE till the point you are packing an 8x6 between your legs - you will still be a flaming asshole only with a large dick. If you have a small penis (whether small in your own mind or actually small), and know nothing about what really pleases a woman in bed, and you work PE till the point you are packing an 8x6 between your legs - you will still have no clue as to how to please a woman, regardless of what you now have hanging between your legs. If you always manage to say the wrong thing at the wrong time when you are around women, or do the wrong thing at the wrong time, having a large penis will be of absolutely no help to you once you have gotten your pride and joy to the size you want it. Having a big cock will not help you in the working world or the world of communication. If you think a large penis will give you tons of confidence to face life's trials and tribulations - guess again. A large cock for guys with multiple issues in their day-to-day life will do very little for those other issues. I have a ton of girth - I know it and I am proud of it - but it is absolutely of no value to me in my daily life. One can have a goal of fucking as many women as he can get his hands on, and banging the sh*t out of those broads with his horse cock - and that can be a goal - but what will that guy do for the rest of his day(s) with that new dick of his? Enlarging your penis to supplement your daily life is one thing, but to think it will turn you into a confident, manly kind of man, you will be bitterly disappointed. If you have issues in your daily life, having a large penis will do very little toward solving those issues. Keep PE and your larger penis in perspective, life goes on with or without an 8x6.

The sound you just heard was me getting off my soap box!!!

 

[Toadstool]

...So a penis isn't concentrated confidence? What if I made it 10x7?

 

[rbi99]

...So a penis isn't concentrated confidence? What if I made it 10x7?

You would be a particular kind of movie star!!!

 

[Padawan787]

TL ; DR: The penis is not the measure of a man

 

[kwacluver]

The above comment is so very true. The defining moment for me happened some 15 years ago when I met a guy who let it be known on a regular basis that he was extremely well endowed. I got the chance to see for myself and he was absolutely right. I spent enough years teaching maths to youngsters, I can estimate well and sure enough 8 1/2 honest inches and superb girth. Thats the end of the positives. the shame was that such a fine cock was attached to such an twat of a bloke. However the final testimony came from a mutual friend who once slept with him. Her summing up was that he relied upon the size of the cock to get by, in reality he was a very unskilled lover, lacking in warmth. If having a bigger cock boosts your confidence good on you. Being a decent guy and a loved person far outweighs every time for me.

 

[ColtAR-15]

Great motivational speech.

Question. If all other things were equal a bigger penis (within reason) is:
A) An advantage?
B) A disadvantage?

 

[MrsLooking4more]

TL ; DR: The penis is not the measure of a man

Amen to that!

 

[Glamissand1]

Well said, if only we could get all men on page with this. The world would be a truely wonderful place. I honestly can say I've run this gambit, as a young man I was only into girls for the sex. But as time passed I became lonely in my own mind. It was then that I realized that sex is great but to have someone to love and be loved by was the only way my heart could ever be satisfied. It took a change in the way I was looking at women to see which ones had a true life value. I looked and looked but failed to find a lover. So I gave up the chase, and became secure in myself to be alone, that's when my now wife pulled me from the bar. I tell you sex has never been better, the range of emotions and sexual pleasures statisfies every time. It is the love of this wonderful women that makes me the stand up man I am today.

 

[MrsLooking4more]

Well said, if only we could get all men on page with this. The world would be a truely wonderful place. I honestly can say I've run this gambit, as a young man I was only into girls for the sex. But as time passed I became lonely in my own mind. It was then that I realized that sex is great but to have someone to love and be loved by was the only way my heart could ever be satisfied. It took a change in the way I was looking at women to see which ones had a true life value. I looked and looked but failed to find a lover. So I gave up the chase, and became secure in myself to be alone, that's when my now wife pulled me from the bar. I tell you sex has never been better, the range of emotions and sexual pleasures statisfies every time. It is the love of this wonderful women that makes me the stand up man I am today.

Awesome!

 

[Pegasus]

Great motivational speech.

Question. If all other things were equal a bigger penis (within reason) is:
A) An advantage?
B) A disadvantage?

Depends it can be either a range of factors come into it.

 

[Aston Martini]

Great motivational speech.

Question. If all other things were equal a bigger penis (within reason) is:
A) An advantage?
B) A disadvantage?

It's an advantage. Greater stimulation visually, physically, and thus emotionally.

Anyone who says size doesn't matter is kidding themselves. How could it not? If there's such a thing as a penis that's too small, then size matters. If there's such a thing as too big, then size matters.

Hands down, I'd rather be too big than too small. Who wouldn't? You can always be careful to make sure you're not hurting her too much, but only size can make sure you're hurting her enough.

That said, every woman is different. Check out my sig and you'll see I'm no giant. But I've been with lots of girls who needed me to go easy or couldn't handle certain positions with me. I've also been with girls who I'm sure wished I was much bigger. That's just the way the ball bounces, amigo.