girlfriend problems that i cant talk to my guy friends about.

[bolkonsky]

Wow spanky your an awesome dude.... I'm so blown away at the caliber of guys on this site... I wish I had friends in my life that were as mature and sound minded as you guys.. I'd probably be a completly different man than I am today... ( not a huge d-bag)

So I did talk to her I told her, not as eliquatly as spanky did, that I thought is was bullshit that she would tell me that and that I don't want to have sex with her until I can get over the fact that she got dumped from wanting too much of this guys "huge" dick..... She cryed and cryed... And she tryed to fix it with words but I just made her stop and told her nothing is going to fix it....

And she is a very good,mature, outstandingly beautiful, and loyal girl....

Not sure how I'm going to get over this but I will give it time.. She is worth it...

And I do know who this guy is... I live in a small town remember and no I don't think I'll ask to see his cock. Lol

And I am quite an experienced bodybuilder so yes I do incorporate cypionate test in my backboned deca cycle but the deca I have is extreemly potent... It's not really going to matter how much test I throw at it my libito will decline drastically.. Yet do to the cypionate I will be able to perform with some cialis.... I'm getting ready for a show about 6 months out... Usa's to be precise.

 

[Small_Fry]

nice bro (about your bodybuilding). are you a member @ professional muscle?

 

[Praetorian]

LOL @ "Dude...show me your cock right now!"

 

[Nola-rise]

Sounds like to me she just counter attacked you with the same emotional distraught feelings you were having. Some women take just as much pride in tightness, as we do in our dick sizes. I'd say that conversation made you both out to be d-bags to each other.

 

[BigO]

THX guys. even everyone who called me a giant Dbag.. lol.. okay i'll talk to her about it tonight.. i'll give it to her straight that i dont want to have sex with her because her ex had a huge penis.. and if she doesnt like it she can hit the road. . I'll keep yall posted on how it goes....

and no i'm not going to tell her i cheated on her.... hate on me all you want for that but i dont think that will help the situation at all.... I'm a super alpha dog.. its just what i do..

Not being faithfull and the constant chase of poon does ot make you a alpah male. a real alpha male is confident and you are not. Just break up with her because nobody should be cheated on. Saying you care and caring are different things!

 

[Steve23]

So how would you feel if she was cheating on you this whole time with her 'huge' ex, will that help the situation or you don't think that matters either?
What gives you the right to cheat and not add that to the equation, maybe she doesn't want to be with you after that and you can 'hit the road'

Sorry an insecure guy that cheats on his girlfriend that shares a story with him about an ex is not an alpha male. Better luck next time.

 

[Glamissand1]

A size queen might have been a good pe trainer.

 

[BTBrian]

Not trying to be an ass here but...

I feel extremely sorry for this girl. First of all you called yourself a "huge d-bag" so you clearly already know that what you're doing is wrong. You sound really insecure, which is probably why you're doing this stuff and sharing it on here. So you told her about your exes and she countered with a bullshit story about her ex to try and get back at you (she is in the wrong here, not her fault). And then instead of talking to her about how insecure you are and trying to work things out you just instantly go and cheat on her (EXTREME overreaction, way way way worse than what she did to you). Then after doing that, you have the nerve to go and yell at her and boss her around, telling her you're not going to have sex with her anymore and that nothing is going to fix it? As if she is the one in the wrong here??? You should be grovelling at her feet begging her not to leave you and apologizing for cheating on her but instead you flip things around on her and making her think she's the bad guy in the whole situation. That's really appalling and sad poor girl.

Now, obviously you gotta live your own life but I REALLY hope you end up making the right choice and own up to your actions instead of continuing to manipulate her and ruin whatever self-confidence she has left. Good luck.

P.S. Like steve and bigo said, this story is definitely the opposite of alpha

 

[bahamaboner71]

(grabs microphone) dump her!! move on to the other girl, the second one! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

 

[camaro]

I suspect you are mistaken.You cheated on her because she said her ex had a bigger dick? Do you know how stupid that looks form where we are standing?

 

[bolkonsky]

OKay first of all i am most definitely an alpha male. since when do alpha males have to be the nice guy?...
Secondly i didnt yell at her. i simply told her......
third she wasnt lieing about what she told me. trust me....
Forth, i am somewhat of a ladies man. and i get any girl i go after... i know this sounds extremely arrogant but its the truth.
fifth, no sh*t i'm insecure about my dick thats why i'm stroking it 200 times a day to try and make it bigger....lol

 

[bolkonsky]

Let me clarify... i cheated on her because when she told me about her ex's "huge cock" that she couldn't get enough of. i mentally blocked her out as an option to have sex with.... because if i cant plz her more than she has been pleased in the past then why the fuck should i even bother with sex with her.... i dont take second place.

so i went to one of my ex's that i know i please more than any other guy has pleased her....... If you guys had pussy chasing you the way i have pussy chasing me i dont think all of you "nice guys" would turn it down all the time.....

 

[epoch]

Bolkonski - If you like this girl, you gotta talk to her. I think Spanky gave some of the best advice I've ever heard about how to handle it. Tell her about your cheating or not, that's up to you. But clear the air with her about her feelings and your own. You now know why discussing intimate details about past sexual experiences is a very dangerous game for any man (or woman, for that matter).

FWIW, I think she felt insecure and just said what she did to try to feel better about herself and take you down a peg or two. No one, not you and not her, wants to feel inferior or at a disadvantage at the start of a relationship. Talk and gwet things on an even honest keel, and give things a chance to work out if you want that from her. If not, just tell her you think she's great but not what you want in a relationship and let her go.

You have a chance to undouche yourself, so go for it!

 

[lil-crazy]

Well if I look at just your question..." Did I over react" my answer would be you didn't over react mentally much different then any other man that wants to please his partner. So maybe there is a ounce inside you that cared about her or maybe a evil part of you that just needs to feel you can please every female you touch.

But cheating is bad and your big fish in a small pond outlook is a non- alpha man characteristic.. but if I wrong and you truley do care for her and want to be her best your in right place to make the gains you need

 

[keepwinning]

So if youre such a ladies man and what she said was a deal breaker, why do you even care? Why not just end it and go have sex with all the women who are begging to be with you since you are so awesome?

 

[Ivor]

So let's get this straight: you brought up the fact that you liked a previous girlfriend's vagina better than your current girlfriend's, despite knowing that she's insecure in matters like this.

Then she told you the truth about an ex of hers.

You couldn't handle that truth, so you got 'revenge' by cheating on her.

I think you should go away and think about what you've done.

If you think your relationship is salvageable and worth salvaging, make up to your girlfriend and make a pact with her not to talk about things like this ever again. If not, find a new girlfriend and promise yourself you will never ask her a question if you won't be able to cope with an honest answer.

 

[clarkstr]

Why in the hell do couples talk about the details of old lovers? Does anything good come out of those discussions. Somebody always gets hurt at some level.

 

[Padawan787]

OKay first of all i am most definitely an alpha male.

because if i cant plz her more than she has been pleased in the past then why the fuck should i even bother with sex with her.... i dont take second place.

You don't take second place, huh? So you just give up when the going gets tough


Yeah, we got ourselves a real Alpha here :lol:

 

[Upandup]

Why in the hell do couples talk about the details of old lovers? Does anything good come out of those discussions. Somebody always gets hurt at some level.

Truth. The only times I've brought up other lovers is when asked and I then downplay them completely. Thankfully my wife has done the same (though wasn't shy in our early relationship about talking about them).

 

[keepwinning]

So let's get this straight: you brought up the fact that you liked a previous girlfriend's vagina better than your current girlfriend's, despite knowing that she's insecure in matters like this.

Then she told you the truth about an ex of hers.

You couldn't handle that truth, so you got 'revenge' by cheating on her.

I think you should go away and think about what you've done.

If you think your relationship is salvageable and worth salvaging, make up to your girlfriend and make a pact with her not to talk about things like this ever again. If not, find a new girlfriend and promise yourself you will never ask her a question if you won't be able to cope with an honest answer.

I think he mentioned she brought it up and that he was the one that didn't wanna talk about it. If she's the one asking these types of questions, then the fault is on her, not the OP. In a sense I can understand where he's coming from. I actually don't blame him too much for doing what he did. Not only saying she had a huge ex but that she was begging for it so he broke up with her? Big turnoff. It shows lack of tact. I wouldn't want to put my dick near her either if she said that. You're probably better off without her