Hypersensitivity, involuntary spasms/kegels and the Death Grip

[JamesMonroe]

Could hypersensitivity, involuntary spasms/kegels and prem ejac be caused by touching yourself too lightly for many, many years? I have a theory that if we carefully use the famous Death Grip(looking out for negative signs like loss of EQ, etc....) We can fix the problem. My theory is that when you touch yourself lightly for many years, you tesón your penis and body to react to that light level of stimulation, therefore allowing/training the penis ejaculate at that level so that the baby making cycle of life process continues without a problem. this is just a theory, and because I have cured my premium ejac using MANY different techniques, most importantly hard training with real sex, it is hard for me to say of THIS is a big part of my cure. But I can tell u for sure... I pretty much now have no spasms/involuntary kegels anymore and I'm not hypersensitive like I used to be. Read up on the Death Grip. It has been proven by doctors that it makes men ejaculate way later and sometimes not at all. It is a big problem for some, giving them "Deleyed Ejaculation", but if used right and carefully, I think we are on to something really big here guys. Of you are interested in the Death Grip and my theory and journey, please find my Death Grip post, but please, please be careful. Thanx. PLEASE TRY NOT TO POST HERE ABOUT IT. Look for the DEATH GRIP post and place your comments over there. THANX AGAIN and GOOD LUCK!!!!

 

[JamesMonroe]

Btw.... Not only do i grip harder now And without lube, but i have found my spot that causes the most sensitivity and spasms/kegels and I consentrate on rubbing that spot too to get used to that stimulation and build a bit of resistance to it. It is on the top dead center of my penis head right behind my penis hole, INCLUDING the penis hole área.
I suggest you all look for it there or other parts. Good luck. Remember to always start off slow and build it up gradually, during edging AND sex.
Also, I don't masturbate much at all now. I suggest people don't over do that either. It's all about moderation, right? I feel like it can give a negative effect, plus, you could do more homework or go outside and get some more fresh air.

 

[JamesMonroe]

I forgot: So to finish explaining my theory and characteristics of te already famous death grip, if we stop touching ourselves lightly and eventually work our tolerance up to a high level of stimulation and tightness, once we have sex with girls, our penis will be used to a way tighter and rougher feeling(depending on the girls vagina) that a woman's vagina will not be able to stimulate us so easily and we won't be so hypersensitive to that normal vagina feeling. That is why some men become not able to get so arroused and sometime not even be able to ejaculate or keep a hard enough penis available. That a why it can help some men last longer if done carefully. If there are bad signs later, all you have to do is start loosening up the grip a bit and kick the regular kegels exercises up a bit.

 

[Minuteman]

While I respect the fact that people managed to decrease their sensitivity using the death grip, I personaly think that in the long run it might just complicate things, I am probably wrong but desentitising your penis and provokiing delayed ejaculation should not be the way to fix this, but then again I might be wrong. I chose to not comment on the death grip topic since I didn't want it to look like I'm bashing down the potentialy sound theory...

I think that saying stuff like "the already famous death grip" is something you should avoid, for many reasons.

Also this:

It has been proven by doctors that it makes men ejaculate way later and sometimes not at all

should either be backed by a reference or not used at all. I mean you have to understand that people actually listen to you, and when that happens you have a responsibility.

I mean death grip as a medical term is not what you refer to be here.

High pressures on your penis while mastubating or edging can also serve as a trauma and cause erectile disfunction problems if used in long terms. I experienced this a few times even before your topic of the death grip and noticed a decrease in erection quality to downright erectional disfunction. Now I might be a lone case of course.

Please don't see this as me unedermining your knowledge or experience but rather as a word of caution.

 

[Pegasus]

Some of this goes to how hard is "death grip",

 

[JamesMonroe]

I completely understand and respect your view. That's why I always state that this is just a theory and that people should do it carefully and to look for negative signs and back off if there are any and to do regular kegels to counter act this problem. And I also state that abuse of this type of masterbation is a bad thing and leads to a problem called Delayed Ejaculation. How about this:
I suggest for people start using a slightly tighter grip and masturbating dry sometimes. most people masturbate dry anyways. I just think I'm in to something in the super- hypersensitivity side of things, not necessarily pure and harsh desensitization. idk.
Here is the Doctor's link btw:

Death Grip During Masturbation - Will It Translate To Sex? | Kinsey Confidential

 

[JamesMonroe]

Also, I've had many people try it for the first time for a while and say that it has helped them and i have also heard from people that can vouch for the death grip saying that it must have been what made them last long because that is how they masturbate. It just seems to me that once again it's coming down to the fact that's view that hard training is the best training. it happens in everything I've tried. Hard, intense progressive training in rev kegels, regular kegels, intense real sex, ballooning and now mastirbation style is what has made the difference for me.
I believe if we train hard and intense, the penis will toughen up and be ready for battle. Then again, it's just my opinion. But going from 1 minute to sometimes 1 hour, I'd say I'm doing something right.

 

[Minuteman]

Thank you for providing the link for reference I look forward to how will this develop, just wanted to urge more caution for the new (and sometimes desperate) members not to take the death grip to literally.

 

[Smu]

I'm pretty sure that if you have used a light grip your entire life while masturbating, then it's highly likely that you will orgasm faster with a tighter grip/tight vagina.

I would never try to achieve death grip myself, but what I would do instead is use a firm grip, but not what would be called a death grip and involve your glans and foreskin more while masturbating, as they are the two most sensitive things on a penis. Get all the areas of your penis used to stimulation.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Thank you for providing the link for reference I look forward to how will this develop, just wanted to urge more caution for the new (and sometimes desperate) members not to take the death grip to literally.

No problem and very true. Thanx.

 

[JamesMonroe]

I'm pretty sure that if you have used a light grip your entire life while masturbating, then it's highly likely that you will orgasm faster with a tighter grip/tight vagina.

I would never try to achieve death grip myself, but what I would do instead is use a firm grip, but not what would be called a death grip and involve your glans and foreskin more while masturbating, as they are the two most sensitive things on a penis. Get all the areas of your penis used to stimulation.

Absolutely agree.... my point exactly but maybe I came across too crazy. No, I don't mean a DEATH grip, crazy style.... I just assumed people wouldn't take it so literal either, although I do believe and have seen all my results from progressive hard/intense training of everything.

 

[Smu]

I know you didn't mean DG. Excellent thread by the way.
So, don't touch it too lightly, that will cause you to be too sensitive and don't grip too hard, that will take off the pleasure. Find the golden middle.

 

[JamesMonroe]

I know you didn't mean DG. Excellent thread by the way.
So, don't touch it too lightly, that will cause you to be too sensitive and don't grip too hard, that will take off the pleasure. Find the golden middle.

Sounds like a good plan. What have me prem ejac was not having sex for a whole year while doing all of the following pretty much everyday:
Masturbating with a very light/soft grip while watching porn, sitting an a hard chair(puts pressure on prostrate), while doing regular kegels only and using lube and no lube. When I started having regular constant progressive intense sex in the most arousing positions and doing the exact opposite of everything I stated above, that is when I went from 1 minute to 1 hour. Is there a cure to prem ejac? Yes, above is one of the ways.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Edging, ballooning, jelqing, stretching and death grip also helped.... but like I tell everyone, it wasn't till I started having constant sex with my caring and patient gf that I really saw a change. I tell guys not to overdo edging and other exercises and not to dispair until they find a patient regular sex partner. Yes, I know it's close to impossible to find for most, but that is where the ultimate cure is and when the anxiety goes way down and the confidence and stamina goes way up, unless they have a very bad case, medical or not. Try the death grip people! I think it gets rid of involuntary spasms!!!!!!

 

[Pegasus]

We are still working on the clone of your gf.

 

[lop123123]

Talking about hypersensitive spots, my whole penis is actually fine with stimulation but the ONE part that kills me is the area under my penis, i guess you could say around the frenulum (banjo string). whats the best way to desensitize myself, tempted to use numbing gels for the mean time while training it better. Someone even mentioned pinching that part to desensitize the nerves O_O

 

[Smu]

I wouldn't suggest going for numbing sprays or gels or whatever. I think that with time you would grow dependant on them and would make your PE without desensitizingproducst maybe even worse.
And, those things could kill your erection.

Those are the worst case scenarios, but in the best case, it could help you with your anxiety, thus helping with preE.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Talking about hypersensitive spots, my whole penis is actually fine with stimulation but the ONE part that kills me is the area under my penis, i guess you could say around the frenulum (banjo string). whats the best way to desensitize myself, tempted to use numbing gels for the mean time while training it better. Someone even mentioned pinching that part to desensitize the nerves O_O

Yeah, never use creams and any other junk. that's cheating, and you can numb your girl and she will hate you. Haha. I guess if i were u I would actually try and rub my frenulum often without lube to desensitize it a bit over time. It's more like "getting used to the feeling" or "getting rid of hypersensitivity". I don't like the word desensitize cuz it is not liked very much in this website.

 

[JamesMonroe]

Just met another guy on here that has prem ejac and admits that he too always masturbated slow with a loose grip and light touches. Prob trained his penis to be hypersensitive.

 

[JamesMonroe]

....and also, just incase I haven't mentioned it, I strongly believe that one of the strongest reasons I have myself prem ejac was because I always masturbated with a very loose grip and light touches. As soon as I started having lots of sex with a tight vagina and jelqing, I started to see a difference. Soon after that I tried more and more sex positions that created lots of friction and started experimenting with the Death Grip. I pretty much have no involuntary spasms/kegels anymore.