Manipulate crying is the turn off. As it seem very immature to us.
Because that is what kids do to parents, to get them into buying them something.
Because that is what kids do to parents, to get them into buying them something.
Does crying turn you off
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Crying isn't a turn off unless I know she's trying to manipulate me. Then it just makes me really mad.
Crying before sex would be a turn off for me, and it would feel really weird after an orgasm.
If she would cry to me on a phone, saying she misses me, well, to be honest I wouldnt like it, I would take it as too clingy.
Otherwise crying is fine, it's alright to show emotions in their strongest forms. Unless you want to kill people, then it's not.
If she would cry to me on a phone, saying she misses me, well, to be honest I wouldnt like it, I would take it as too clingy.
Otherwise crying is fine, it's alright to show emotions in their strongest forms. Unless you want to kill people, then it's not.
One girl I think almost cried from pain. She was an Asian with a very tight pussy, and I have above-average girth. We went at it about five minutes missionary before she orgasmed (lol), pushed me off, and laid there with her legs shaking like crazy, telling me to "give her a minute" and that "it hurts". It was OK though cause she orally aided me in finishing myself off. 
Only one other girl has ever cried after sex, but this was after we'd fucked several times over the course of a month. At the time, I was actually in a long-distance relationship with another girl (we're broken up now), and though we loved each other dearly, it had been six months since I'd had any, and as a bit of an addict, I couldn't keep going on like that. I ultimatum'd my GF into a PHYSICALLY open relationship (with some caveats, like not with anyone we spend considerable time with, no multiple dates, etc.).
Any way, this other girl I'd been intimate with had known from the very first time we slept together that I have a girlfriend whom I love with all my heart and am going to be with in the end. Of course, I was being a bit consciously ignorant of how a girl's heart works, and she quickly grew attached. I spent too much time with her, partying probably three or four times a month and then heading back to her place. I should have cut it off when she sideways mentioned, "I like you." The last time we had sex she laid there quiet afterwards, in thought kind of. I asked what she was thinking about and she said "sex with you." I didn't get what she meant in that moment, but shortly thereafter she left for the bathroom and spent a good deal of time in there. When she came back, I had a feeling she'd been crying. That was a turnoff simply because I started to feel bad, realizing I was toying with this girl's heart. After that, we went out a few times, but she continually denied letting me sleep over. When I questioned what was up, she said, "What am I going to get out of it?" I ceased contact completely, and a few weeks later, she unfriended me on Facebook.
My GF only ever cried when on her period and having a college exam in the following days. Nothing about any of that turned me on, that's for sure. lol
Only one other girl has ever cried after sex, but this was after we'd fucked several times over the course of a month. At the time, I was actually in a long-distance relationship with another girl (we're broken up now), and though we loved each other dearly, it had been six months since I'd had any, and as a bit of an addict, I couldn't keep going on like that. I ultimatum'd my GF into a PHYSICALLY open relationship (with some caveats, like not with anyone we spend considerable time with, no multiple dates, etc.).
Any way, this other girl I'd been intimate with had known from the very first time we slept together that I have a girlfriend whom I love with all my heart and am going to be with in the end. Of course, I was being a bit consciously ignorant of how a girl's heart works, and she quickly grew attached. I spent too much time with her, partying probably three or four times a month and then heading back to her place. I should have cut it off when she sideways mentioned, "I like you." The last time we had sex she laid there quiet afterwards, in thought kind of. I asked what she was thinking about and she said "sex with you." I didn't get what she meant in that moment, but shortly thereafter she left for the bathroom and spent a good deal of time in there. When she came back, I had a feeling she'd been crying. That was a turnoff simply because I started to feel bad, realizing I was toying with this girl's heart. After that, we went out a few times, but she continually denied letting me sleep over. When I questioned what was up, she said, "What am I going to get out of it?" I ceased contact completely, and a few weeks later, she unfriended me on Facebook.
My GF only ever cried when on her period and having a college exam in the following days. Nothing about any of that turned me on, that's for sure. lol
No real problem with it. If it's a friend, male or female, I support them by giving them a hug and reassuring them. My friends rarely cry so it is never frivolous; there are generally very serious issues behind it.
Men crying makes me choke up a bit more than female crying...maybe I can just relate to their pain more (this is in Movies etc.)
I haven't cried since 1999. Went through too much sh*t for so long I am probably emotionally numb to a lot of suffering in my own life. I tend to just feel sad if I see instances of other people suffering these days.
Men crying makes me choke up a bit more than female crying...maybe I can just relate to their pain more (this is in Movies etc.)
I haven't cried since 1999. Went through too much sh*t for so long I am probably emotionally numb to a lot of suffering in my own life. I tend to just feel sad if I see instances of other people suffering these days.
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