Anal: it's all in the mood
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We were going for quite a while the other night which might have had something to do with the fact that my girlfriend had had a small dose of valium, which we both use occasionally to help get to sleep (we'd already had plenty of sex and had planned to sleep, but then got...frisky again). I guess this was both a help and a hindrance, because it made her take longer to come but on the other hand probably made penetration a little easier. So that could be something for newbies to consider, maybe - though it should always be a SMALL dose, otherwise you risk too much desensitization, which will make it both less pleasurable and potentially dangerous (since it'll be harder to tell if you're going too hard).
It's basically the same principle as loosening up with a couple of drinks. Slightly tipsy is fine, dead drunk is probably not a good idea.
It's basically the same principle as loosening up with a couple of drinks. Slightly tipsy is fine, dead drunk is probably not a good idea.
Wow, that has been one of my big walls in the past.
Are you saying that after you empty your bowels getting ready for Anal, when you are close to it you insert one of your fingers in your anus/rectum and help out anything that is there? Maybe you do it several times with soap?
Why NOBODY has dared explain the DETAILS of how to clean for anal? Is that shameful? more than explaining how to stick a cock or a dildo in there? everything is so assumed. Thanks for your great advices.
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Best way and you can do it at home. They also sell kits at the pharmacy too.
I'm convinced,... going to buy that.
Naw but seriously, I do agree with you. Mood plays a large factor and often does go unmentioned.
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Something I often notice with anal - noticed it just today, as it happens - is that while it's pretty much my favourite kind of sex, quite often I'm only at ~50% erection for most of the time I'm inside her. I think this comes from being super-conscious of not wanting to hurt my girlfriend and having to really hold back and avoid going too fast or too deep before she's ready for it. It works quite well actually because it still feels great for me and it allows her to go for longer than she would if I was at 100% EQ the whole time. Then I get really big and hard right at the end just before I come, and she's OK with that because I haven't worn her out too much by that point.
Anyone else find this?
Anyone else find this?
Hi,I understand in the mood like if you want or not depending the situation, is that right? If correct I think is the cleverst opinion I have never read about anal sex.Sometimes you want it some others dont.I have experienced that manytimes,and I have a lot of anal experience.
We did it that when when young not to get pregnated, and when you have done 3 or 4 times your ass get used and there is not pain at all.
I consider my ass as my vagina,they work the same, but to start with anal orgasms I need first 1 or 2 from my vagina, after that my ass get as soft and open as my vagina and I have exactly the same feeling in one or the other.Sometimes is hard to distingue where is it.
Against pain first timers some people say is only on their minds, I dont think so,there is a muscle and you have to learn to relax it and is best to train alone before getting a real cock.
About lidocaine,I dont recomend is not safe,if there is not feeling you can get hurt.There is a special thing very used in Argentina, they call it xilocodeina or similar, now is forbidden in spain,just few drops make posible total dilatation of the anus, more than you can imagine.I tried and was amazing, but no more in spain.
For me , just to feel my juice running down my ass while getting fucked in vagina,make me orgasm and my ass start to get hungry.About farting, depending on the cock, I fart the same anal or vaginal.
We did it that when when young not to get pregnated, and when you have done 3 or 4 times your ass get used and there is not pain at all.
I consider my ass as my vagina,they work the same, but to start with anal orgasms I need first 1 or 2 from my vagina, after that my ass get as soft and open as my vagina and I have exactly the same feeling in one or the other.Sometimes is hard to distingue where is it.
Against pain first timers some people say is only on their minds, I dont think so,there is a muscle and you have to learn to relax it and is best to train alone before getting a real cock.
About lidocaine,I dont recomend is not safe,if there is not feeling you can get hurt.There is a special thing very used in Argentina, they call it xilocodeina or similar, now is forbidden in spain,just few drops make posible total dilatation of the anus, more than you can imagine.I tried and was amazing, but no more in spain.
For me , just to feel my juice running down my ass while getting fucked in vagina,make me orgasm and my ass start to get hungry.About farting, depending on the cock, I fart the same anal or vaginal.
