Sustainable/Healthy amount of sex per day

[somebodyelse]

Asking the ladies what is the healthy and sustainable amount of sex that is possible that you can have with a guy, without being too sore?

I know size and technique makes a difference. But lets just say normal... Everything is Average. How many times could you go with him before you got too sore to do it anymore?

What's the amount of time and/or the number of times you can realistically have sex in a day and still be able to have sex every day or every other day without pain.

 

[mistydawn]

I'd say I couldn't even handle doing it daily. The thought of that scares me.

Recently, with my FWB, we did it for a long time pressed into a few days. That was because I only saw him only so often due to his living out of state. I suffered for that. Bruised and ripped up (literally). Sometimes I put ice up there cause I hurt so bad. I bet no mans dick hurt as bad as mine.

 

[someone_like_u]

I'd say I'm with Misty on this one. The idea of being able to have sex daily is great, but physically, I couldn't handle it

I think every 2-3 days is my ideal. BC(before children), my husband and I would have sex daily/multiple times a day, and I finally told him I couldn't handle it that often. It's not as pleasurable when things are swelled & numb, and it often takes a day of recovery for me I love to feel my husband inside me so I tend to want to wait until I have all those sensations back, or we do other things if we're in rabbit sex mode

 

[mrmark]

I. . Sometimes I put ice up there cause I hurt so bad. I bet no mans dick hurt as bad as mine.

You have a dick?

 

[somebodyelse]

Misty, that sounds about like what happened with me and my last partner.

A month or so ago, we got together for an amazing weekend. Passion and lust and all kinds of emotions flying everywhere, and we ended up having sex maybe 5 to 7 times a day for 4 days straight... Well on that 3rd night, she stopped me in the middle of the last time and told me she couldn't go anymore, she was in too much pain. the morning of the 4th day, i just wanted to be inside of her one more time while i kissed her not thrusting or anything just that intimate moment feeling her body with mine, but she said she ached too much LOL!

So I know for a fact that it was completely unsustainable the level of sex and passion that we were having. 3 days and she told me 2 weeks later she still was feeling my "ghost" and she was still a bit sore.

 

[somebodyelse]

I'd say I'm with Misty on this one. The idea of being able to have sex daily is great, but physically, I couldn't handle it
...we do other things if we're in rabbit sex mode

Rabbit Sex mode eh? what other things do you do? I am kinda self conscious about receiving oral. LOL!

 

[kingpole]

Well, i guess its up to each individual woman.

 

[somebodyelse]

Well, i guess its up to each individual woman.

That's why I'm asking. Two women so far have Responded in Like Kind. Looking for another couple of women to respond so I can see if there's a correlation!

Two have said daily is not ideal... batting 1000 right now LOL!

 

[Batwoman]

I am very happy with daily sex, twice day has never been a problem for me. However, I have had times when I got sore -- and once I reach that point, it takes 2-3 days off for the discomfort to go away.

Much depends on what sorts of activities I've been engaging in, how much passion, positions, etc. Changing things up a lot (different positions, mixing in some oral and anal, etc) seems to keep me from ever getting sore. Also, not engaging in penetration before I am nice and wet (or well lubed up) reduces the risk of soreness, I've found.

 

[Zman007]

For my current girlfriend we can manage every day if we keep it rather short, ~10 minutes. If its longer than that, ~30minutes, twice every 3 days is about max. We recently had sex 6 times in two days, 4 about 10-20minutes sessions and one ~2hr session. Needless to say its been three days she's been out of commission. I have found that this is rather typical for the women I've been with.

The best solution is to have a good conversation with your partner. Every woman is different.

 

[islander]

If it's a regular full time relationship, living together, I would not get sore with one session.
But if it's multiple times in a day I need recovery time. Usually two days.
If it's an ldr then you will go go go until you can't go anymore.

I hope all these replies confirmed your thoughts.

 

[KungFuJoe]

For me and my wife I would say we could go at least once a day with no problem. Start getting into two, three, or more over a several day period and she might need a day off to rest.

 

[somebodyelse]

Thanks BW and Islander as well. SLU, your contribution was much appreciated too!

Getting a picture that I came into this with an incorrect understanding!

I came in thinking "Times per day" but it really should be "Days Per Time"

I had no clue women could get so sore, so fast. My last partner and I had consistently long sex... Like each time was at least 30-45 minutes or more. I can see why she was super sore... I know she was sore, but dang, didn't know it was that sensitive!

we guys can be told "that's enough" but at what point does the soreness start is what i was wondering. My partner was sore after the first time we had sex, but she kept going for 2 more days before she couldn't take it anymore LOL! Trooper!

 

[KungFuJoe]

This is like asking how much longer can you keep playing on a twisted ankle. It all depends on your tolerance for pain, how important the game is, and how badly it's twisted.

 

[Steve23]

My current girlfriend we can have sex everyday just fine, but my last was every 2 days, sometimes 3.

 

[somebodyelse]

My current girlfriend we can have sex everyday just fine, but my last was every 2 days, sometimes 3.

that's what's crazy! she may say it's cool (like SLU said) but eventually she may want to slow it down! No telling.

it's all great information. Thanks ladies and gents for your input!

I just wanted to see what kind of sexual appetite might be normal. I am voracious, so it seems I'll be much more acclimated to my hand than my lady if she's the type who can only go once every few days. LOL!

 

[Steve23]

I'm sure they all slow down with age Everyday or every two days, doesn't matter to me.

 

[WalrusGumBoot]

A few times a week is fine for me, but that is a 50-year old talkin'. lol.

It's all about quality. Doing it two or three times a day sounds like you have something to prove. Two high quality, lusty sessions a week is perfect for me. Oh... and a BJ during the week she is on her period.

 

[sweetie52]

It all depends. When my pfl and I get away from the routine of everyday life we are together twice or more a day -usually over a long weekend. The atmosphere is different, the routine different, so we are different. As far as being sore-we change our routine up too-so that is a not.

 

[ColtAR-15]

I wonder how much of a factor penis girth plays. A month or so ago me and my wife were doing it everyday for about 2 weeks straight and on a few occassions a couple of times a day and she never complained of any soreness. If I was thicker I could see where it would be a problem.