PE means different things to different people...what does it mean to you?

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For some its about getting rid of a life-long sense of inadequacy, embarrassment and shame. To others its about making gains and but they're by no means ashamed by their 'starting size'. Some just want to be average and feel 'normal'. Some want the satisfaction of knowing they're above average. Other's do it because they want to be a lot bigger than average and hopefully be the biggest their lovers/future lovers have experienced.

What does PE mean to you? What camp are you in and are what other categories might there be that I've missed out?
 

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You should maybe make a poll about this, because it would be interesting to collect some people's reasons behind it.

For me, that's for sure a hope to get rid of feeling inferior. Actually being 6.1" BPEL and 4.9 EG I realized that - as far as I read - I am mostly average.

In fact, I also think that a psychologist help can be the best solution for what matters accepting yourself and your body, thus making the most out of what you have and being happy with it.

But it's so fuckin' expensive! :(
 

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I'm in this group :(
'getting rid of a life-long sense of inadequacy, embarrassment and shame'
 

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Nice thread mate. Definitely think you should make a poll also.

To me, it's probably a mixture of insecurity and fascination/ a search of the ideal body.. I had a bad first-time..really bad.
I'm one of those people who likes to you know feel good about themselves through their body :)

So ti me, PE is in improvement towards myself; It's a remedy to obtain something I long for ! :) Self-confidence.
Self-confidence is something you can get by during many, many different things..to me, one of those things is to have a body i'm happy with :) !

- Ill
 

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Want the penis of my adult dreams
Harder, longer, and shoots farther.
 

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For me it is to be a little bit bigger than average, primarily an up-tick in girth. No girl has ever said anything negative about my size but then they have never said " HOLY CRAP" either. :eek:
 

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I just want to make my body as good as it can be with as little work as possible. If PE took 4 hours a day, I wouldn't be bothering, but if I can pump or do exercises for 20-30 minutes a day and get bigger over time, why not?
 

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'getting rid of a life-long sense of inadequacy, embarrassment and shame'
 

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I am just trying to make myself average and getting rid of a life-long feeling of inadequacy and embarrassment. I also have ED so I am trying to improve that as well. Think about going to the Uro to discuss your ED and then have him pull on your small limp dick.

My goal is to be big enough by the time I am ready to die that I don't have to worry about the undertaker making fun of my small dick, though I guess it will be stiff enough by then.
 

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My goal is to be big enough by the time I am ready to die that I don't have to worry about the undertaker making fun of my small dick, though I guess it will be stiff enough by then.


your Right... thats my goal too!!
 

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Although my penis is a bit larger than average, I too fall into the category of doing PE to ease my sense of inadequacy. My exgf had been with several guys that were well hung and it just killed my confidence. Also, hearing and reading the way women talk about bigger dicks made me realize how much I wanted a bigger one. I'm pretty much convinced now that most women prefer larger units and generally have a lot more fun with them. I know I'm pretty great in bed, but that's not enough for me.

I have self-confidence issues. I just want to do everything I can for myself that'll bring me closer to being perfect for women. The sad part is I've given up on love quite some time ago and I plan on living the shallow, man-slut life from now on until God knows when. I don't even know why I'm trying to better myself for them, but I guess at the same time it's mostly for me. There's a lot of things I don't like about myself, and while I am grateful that I have a decent dick already, I am really trying to just be more satisfied with who I am.

Also, for once I'd like to see a girl's jaw drop when I take off my pants.
 

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So... as i've told i'm from Brazil, a country with a lot of mixed races and consequently people appears to have bigger dicks than mine, at least flaccid. I have to say that i didn't have many problems with my penis until i've lost some weight and after that, i've noticed that the girls started looking at me and consequently looking to my bulge. The worst of that ''experience'' happened when i went to Rio de Janeiro, where the girls have a pro-active position with the mans that they think is pretty, and I have to say that lots of then looked to my face with a positive reaction but after that, they've looked to my bulge with not the same faces, and more than one time i've listened very sad things that i just couldn't take of my head, almost every day this year i was thinking about this sh*t and PE helped me a lot, the reactions started getting better with the time, and i think this is very good, despite i've still hating the fact that all of your body-heart-brain becoming switched by your fucking flaccid penis.
 
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Started out above average/large, But still wanted more. I guess I fall into the "...because they want to be a lot bigger than average and hopefully be the biggest their lovers/future lovers have experienced." category. Nothing too huge though.

Just want to go from eye-popping to jaw-dropping. lol
 

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I want to change my penis shape.
 

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I think everyone under 5" is in the 'getting rid of a life-long sense of inadequacy, embarrassment and shame' category :(
 

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I was longer than average in size, but decided to try PE for the challenge of it. I haven't gained nearly as much as most, but I like the challenge. If I gained or not won't affect my life at all. I can totally understand how this is extremely important to many, but I don't fall into that category. That being said, I attack PE like I approach my lifting routine - full bore and max effort.