There are a lot of excellent and effective online courses now on how to attract women at a basic emotional/sexual level.
The key starting point seems to be cocky-funny and it absolutely works. Search this on google and you will see lots of info.
The next part is to simply NOT CARE. If you dont care about a particular girl....that is a total turn on for her. If you act interested too soon, act clingy etc...well that is a total turn off....
Dont talk about emotional issues when you are first dating...!! Give her crap.....NOT RUDE...but cocky.....
If you are out together....act so confident it seems crazy....BUT NOT RUDE>>!!!
Rude is "that dress makes you look fat.".......cocky is "gee you didnt need to get dressed up for this...you were not thinking that this was a DATE were you?"/... say it in a funny way....not when you first see her....but later in the night after you have been getting along...you know....not when you first walk up to her door....that would be rude....
Make sure that she thinks that the "date" or whatever....better if its NOT an arranged date by the way...but if it is...make sure that SHE has to adjust her schedule to meet your schedule...not the other way around....
THE WORST THING YOU CAN POSSIBLY DO IS TO ACT NEEDY OR WEAK OR DESPERATE. This results in failure almost all the time. Trust me, when I was your age, this was what I was like and I was a failure at attracting women for sex. Lots of friends...but no one was attracted....and was perfectly normal looking, smart, and had money to spend.
I acted like a complete needy wimp (and I was)....that is a sure fire way to get the "lets be friends" response....or the "its me not you" bs come at you....you lose all attraction....
You must be in control at all times. Never let HER have to decide where you go or what you will do....(but you have to make sure you figure out what she wants to do but dont let on that you actually know that....)..obviously you dont want to drag her somewhere that she hates.....or that bores her.
You MUST act like you could care less, you must tactfully "bust on her" and you must not come across like you are interested in her....but be available....but not too available.
You sound like you DONT want a relationship....that is an excellent start. If you dont care, dont want a relationship, are cocky-funny person, have lots of self-confidence, and simply act like you could care less....BUT hang around hot women....you will get laid. Guaranteed.
If you go out with a woman, dont act interested right away...give it several days...give her time to ruminate about you......if you dont call she will wonder why and start to think about it. She will think about you....
Act like you are busy all the time....act like its tough to fit her into your schedule. Like you are doing her a favor....of course without being a jerk...just be funny, but also cocky/confident....but not RUDE. There is a difference.
Do not go around telling them you are a virgin...do not talk about wanting or not wanting a relationship.....all those things can be saved for WAY WAY later...
You should have more girls coming to you this way vs the other way around.
Take one of the excellent internet courses on this topic. Learn for others who are experts.
I have even practiced these techniques on my wife of 20 years and if done correctly it really gets her going....