Feeling incredibly inadequate lately
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I remember how depressed I was when I posted this. I'm almost at 5 1/2" now fully erect but haven't seen any girth gains. Still don't feel that it's quite where I want it to be but I'm definitely LESS insecure about it than before. Anyway, just felt like looking back lol.
Damn man great gains. Hopefully I'll make some gains like that.
I'll give you a bit of a different perspective, I am who I am and I pack what I pack. I'm not small and I'm not a porn star either.
I've been around the block more times that I care to talk about, I've slept with more women that I care to admit. I grew up in Canada as an up and coming junior hockey prospect (knee injury cut my career short at 17) so from 14 I was on the road getting paid to play hockey for travelling teams. Junior A being my highest level achieved, my only OHL experience was pre-season. The knee never recovered enough.
So as you can imagine there were "fuck bunnies" in every town, they called themselves "puck bunnies" and we just called them "dirties" but we took turns banging them non the less.
So in all of my experiences, I have run across a grand total of 1 woman that I just wasn't able to satisfy. The funny thing was that she was a long time friend who was overweight and always had a crush on me. So one night, I gave in. I tried everything I had in my bag of tricks, but I was young and only knew how to fuck. Now in my early 30's I know how to have sex, I know how to please a woman.
Don't let the world convince you that you're not a deserving person because the media has implanted the idea in your head that you have a small penis. Maybe you have the 2,233,527,844th largest penis in the world and you're only bigger than 1,172,632,622 people (pulled those numbers out of my ass
) but one thing I can tell you from all of my experience...the woman you fall in love with, get married to and decide to start a family with isn't going to care at all about how big your penis is. If it gets hard, can satisfy her and make babies you get a 3/3 from her. 2 inches or 10....still a 3/3
I was my wife's first boyfriend ever, so needless to say I was her first and only everything. At this point in my life, I wish that I had also only been with 1 person. All of my "conquests" in the past mean nothing to me now. I hurt a lot of girls, I messed a few up pretty bad.
So bro, don't let the false media of a company trying to sell you a placebo to make your penis grow convince you that you're small. Learn to listen to the women you're with, learn to read their bodies as you eat them out as you finger them and as you fuck them. In time you will master it all and become a machine at pleasing that girl. But be aware that if you switch girls, you have to learn it all over again...no two women are the same.
The odds of you dropping trow infront of a chick and having her laugh at it, 0.001% bro. It doesn't happen, that's the media getting to you. If it did happen, would you really want to fuck that chick anyways? Nahh...
I've been around the block more times that I care to talk about, I've slept with more women that I care to admit. I grew up in Canada as an up and coming junior hockey prospect (knee injury cut my career short at 17) so from 14 I was on the road getting paid to play hockey for travelling teams. Junior A being my highest level achieved, my only OHL experience was pre-season. The knee never recovered enough.
So as you can imagine there were "fuck bunnies" in every town, they called themselves "puck bunnies" and we just called them "dirties" but we took turns banging them non the less.
So in all of my experiences, I have run across a grand total of 1 woman that I just wasn't able to satisfy. The funny thing was that she was a long time friend who was overweight and always had a crush on me. So one night, I gave in. I tried everything I had in my bag of tricks, but I was young and only knew how to fuck. Now in my early 30's I know how to have sex, I know how to please a woman.
Don't let the world convince you that you're not a deserving person because the media has implanted the idea in your head that you have a small penis. Maybe you have the 2,233,527,844th largest penis in the world and you're only bigger than 1,172,632,622 people (pulled those numbers out of my ass
) but one thing I can tell you from all of my experience...the woman you fall in love with, get married to and decide to start a family with isn't going to care at all about how big your penis is. If it gets hard, can satisfy her and make babies you get a 3/3 from her. 2 inches or 10....still a 3/3I was my wife's first boyfriend ever, so needless to say I was her first and only everything. At this point in my life, I wish that I had also only been with 1 person. All of my "conquests" in the past mean nothing to me now. I hurt a lot of girls, I messed a few up pretty bad.
So bro, don't let the false media of a company trying to sell you a placebo to make your penis grow convince you that you're small. Learn to listen to the women you're with, learn to read their bodies as you eat them out as you finger them and as you fuck them. In time you will master it all and become a machine at pleasing that girl. But be aware that if you switch girls, you have to learn it all over again...no two women are the same.
The odds of you dropping trow infront of a chick and having her laugh at it, 0.001% bro. It doesn't happen, that's the media getting to you. If it did happen, would you really want to fuck that chick anyways? Nahh...
First I would like to say its beautiful to know that a man would think about pleasuring a woman so much before the first time, or any time. This site is so interesting because as a woman I get to see that men do have these thoughts, emotions that we do.
I think any woman would be lucky to have you as a lover.
That said, the first time is usually done in the dark. If you are with someone that has had multiple partners or not hopefully its with someone you have feelings for. Someone you have worked up to the point where you both are ready for sex. The minds of females are fan freaking tastic. We get so worked up, so lubricated, so hot if you will that if you were to touch us the way you are saying we would cum before you ever got inside. Mind blowing sex, making love, is so much more than penetration. I am much older than you but I remember being your age. I wish my lover when i was young was 1/2 the lover you desire to be. Our love making would have lasted a lot longer and I would have been much more attached to him.
As women age, and after vaginal child birth, yes our vagina's stretch. Our muscles are stretched and loose. Unless we know about kegals and other excerises then we are larger down there. So yes a penis will get lost in there if its not wide. The more lubricated we get the more lost it will get. Seems unfair I know. The better you make us feel the less we will feel you.
That said I am fortunate to have had sex/made love with men I love or care about and that love or care about me. So you see, it doesn't really matter about the size. If you have lips, hands, fingers, dick and the mind/desire you claim you do, you are one hell of a catch and she will want you and want more.
I think any woman would be lucky to have you as a lover.
That said, the first time is usually done in the dark. If you are with someone that has had multiple partners or not hopefully its with someone you have feelings for. Someone you have worked up to the point where you both are ready for sex. The minds of females are fan freaking tastic. We get so worked up, so lubricated, so hot if you will that if you were to touch us the way you are saying we would cum before you ever got inside. Mind blowing sex, making love, is so much more than penetration. I am much older than you but I remember being your age. I wish my lover when i was young was 1/2 the lover you desire to be. Our love making would have lasted a lot longer and I would have been much more attached to him.
As women age, and after vaginal child birth, yes our vagina's stretch. Our muscles are stretched and loose. Unless we know about kegals and other excerises then we are larger down there. So yes a penis will get lost in there if its not wide. The more lubricated we get the more lost it will get. Seems unfair I know. The better you make us feel the less we will feel you.
That said I am fortunate to have had sex/made love with men I love or care about and that love or care about me. So you see, it doesn't really matter about the size. If you have lips, hands, fingers, dick and the mind/desire you claim you do, you are one hell of a catch and she will want you and want more.
Oh wow we actually have females posting here? Real ones not guys pretending to be women?
I tend to agree with a lot of what was said. My first time I was a champ, I rocked it for a good 90 minutes. I'm sure I did a really shitty job of it though, it was just mechanical thrusting and moaning. My second time was when I had the oopsie, pulled out after 30 seconds dumped one on the floor and then went back in and kept going
Now I'm much older and in my early to mid 30's, I'm married with a family.
Sex is more of an advanture, it happens daily in my household...sometimes twice. But I take care of my wife very well, which makes her want it. Sometimes she even needs it. What an experience it is for a muscular 250 pound Boxing and Jiu Jitsu expert to be thrown down on the floor, a couch, a bed by his 120 pound wife and have her just take over. It's fun
Normally for us sex starts way before the little guy goes to bed, way before we get naked.
It starts in the morning when we're getting ready. I built her a nice bathroom on the main floor by combining 2 rooms into one. It has a huge counter and a huge mirror that doubles as a cabinet. There's a nice big tub if she wants to soak for a bit and a stand up shower stall so that on other days we can alternate bathing the little man and showering. It's a nice system. I'm not saying you have to have a 13x10 foot bathroom to get laid, but it makes her life easier and makes her more comfortable in her own home. These things are key. Women need to be mentally stimulated before they can be physically stimulated.
It's as simple as walking up behind her after she's curled her hair, wrapping the pipes around her and kissing her while telling her "I love it when you curl your hair, it looks so good". It's as simple as setting up a load of laundry in the washer and setting a timer to have it start an hour or two before you get home, so you can transfer them right to the dryer and start another load. It's as easy as maybe throwing a bunch of ingredients into a crock pot before you go to work and leaving it on low so that you can come home to dinner.
Remember the less she has to do when she gets home, the more time she has for you.
The sex part, that's the easy part. She's very orgasmic with clitoral stimulation so I'll get her off that way first. Remember a satisfied woman is much more fun to be in bed with than one that just wants you to get it over and done with If she's already up 1-0 before you penetrate her for the first time, even if you don't have your best night...she's going to be satisfied. Which means you're going to get called into action the next time
*Always, always ask her how her day was. Always participate in conversations. Watch TV together, even if her shows make you want to throw sh*t at your beautiful flatscreen Pretend.
Women who cheat on or leave their men all say the same thing, lack of communication. We never talk, etc...
Don't be that guy.
Be the guy that gets it every day It's a much better life, trust me.
I tend to agree with a lot of what was said. My first time I was a champ, I rocked it for a good 90 minutes. I'm sure I did a really shitty job of it though, it was just mechanical thrusting and moaning. My second time was when I had the oopsie, pulled out after 30 seconds dumped one on the floor and then went back in and kept going
Now I'm much older and in my early to mid 30's, I'm married with a family.
Sex is more of an advanture, it happens daily in my household...sometimes twice. But I take care of my wife very well, which makes her want it. Sometimes she even needs it. What an experience it is for a muscular 250 pound Boxing and Jiu Jitsu expert to be thrown down on the floor, a couch, a bed by his 120 pound wife and have her just take over. It's fun
Normally for us sex starts way before the little guy goes to bed, way before we get naked.
It starts in the morning when we're getting ready. I built her a nice bathroom on the main floor by combining 2 rooms into one. It has a huge counter and a huge mirror that doubles as a cabinet. There's a nice big tub if she wants to soak for a bit and a stand up shower stall so that on other days we can alternate bathing the little man and showering. It's a nice system. I'm not saying you have to have a 13x10 foot bathroom to get laid, but it makes her life easier and makes her more comfortable in her own home. These things are key. Women need to be mentally stimulated before they can be physically stimulated.
It's as simple as walking up behind her after she's curled her hair, wrapping the pipes around her and kissing her while telling her "I love it when you curl your hair, it looks so good". It's as simple as setting up a load of laundry in the washer and setting a timer to have it start an hour or two before you get home, so you can transfer them right to the dryer and start another load. It's as easy as maybe throwing a bunch of ingredients into a crock pot before you go to work and leaving it on low so that you can come home to dinner.
Remember the less she has to do when she gets home, the more time she has for you.
The sex part, that's the easy part. She's very orgasmic with clitoral stimulation so I'll get her off that way first. Remember a satisfied woman is much more fun to be in bed with than one that just wants you to get it over and done with
If she's already up 1-0 before you penetrate her for the first time, even if you don't have your best night...she's going to be satisfied. Which means you're going to get called into action the next time *Always, always ask her how her day was. Always participate in conversations. Watch TV together, even if her shows make you want to throw sh*t at your beautiful flatscreen
Pretend.Women who cheat on or leave their men all say the same thing, lack of communication. We never talk, etc...
Don't be that guy.
Be the guy that gets it every day
It's a much better life, trust me.Real women hereI agree with paradoxfix.. you should totally listen to TTBB
Keep up the great work, borderline!! The great news about your current situation is that you are still so very young and have your entire adult life to enjoy the healthier, larger penis you're working on! I wish I had found the gym when I was just starting college...who knows how much I would have gained in those 9 or so years!! Although you may be unsatisfied now, by the time you're in your mid-twenties, you're going to be packing some serious heat. Keep that chin up, brother....The future looks promising!!
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it takes a right size queen to google, and discuss on forums the size of a mans penis. its only size queens that google and respond to those things. the girls that dont think about size dont google it, therefore dont comment on those sites.
Trust me, a woman is going to be FAR more self conscious than you. All the porn, magazines, TV, movies have us women total wrecks over our looks. Not to mention porn has us women all trying to please the man like a porn star.
Two, sometimes even 1, finger can bring a woman to orgasm, so think about that when worried about size.
For over 15 years my best sex was with a guy that was 4 inches.
Oh yeah, and we women just ruin every thing fun. <rolling eyes>
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To the OP,*
Wait until you fall in love..true love, a deep connection that both you and your partner share for and with each other will take over and my man, things like penis size, pussy size, boob size nose size, ear size etc will not matter at all. It is probably hard to believe but some of the most amazing moments that happen when you are truly in love happen WHEN YOU ARE NOT HAVING SEX.*
Love is the most powerful drug of all, and it is the happiest as well. Loving someone, knowing they receive all your love, feeling their love, seeing how happy it makes them when they see how much they light up your world..those are the things that spark the most passionate, and amazing love making.
And IMHO the most amazing experiences and feelings are generated not only when making love, but also in the simple moments such as holding your loved one close, and knowing that there is nothing else in the world that matters more than the two of you and the beauty of the love you share for each other.*
Make a girl feel that way, and brother, the pleasure will be in every single moment you share together.*
All the best * *
Wait until you fall in love..true love, a deep connection that both you and your partner share for and with each other will take over and my man, things like penis size, pussy size, boob size nose size, ear size etc will not matter at all. It is probably hard to believe but some of the most amazing moments that happen when you are truly in love happen WHEN YOU ARE NOT HAVING SEX.*
Love is the most powerful drug of all, and it is the happiest as well. Loving someone, knowing they receive all your love, feeling their love, seeing how happy it makes them when they see how much they light up your world..those are the things that spark the most passionate, and amazing love making.
And IMHO the most amazing experiences and feelings are generated not only when making love, but also in the simple moments such as holding your loved one close, and knowing that there is nothing else in the world that matters more than the two of you and the beauty of the love you share for each other.*
Make a girl feel that way, and brother, the pleasure will be in every single moment you share together.*
All the best * *
