Convince him to jelq/read PEGym?

[Hanma]

Why dont you get some other dude to bring it up to him instead of doing it yourself. Manipulative yes, but there is no way I can think of that you can bring this up without crushing a man lol. Get another guy to tell him about it, his natural desire to be bigger should take it from there. Just make sure the guy is specific and gives him the specific site so he knows where to go.

Bad, BAd, BAD idea.

I haven't read the whole thread so I don't know what his personality's like, but I am sure it will hurt him a lot. And when he finds out that his gf told someone else that his size wasn't big enough, well, the trust is gone too isn't it.

 

[All2Real]

and yes you can be too big..

TTBB, at what size do you consider someone to be too big? Just curious.

 

[schlittle]

Lovehimdown has already said she has already decided what to do. She took my advice and it's not as ridiculous as it seems.

After he ejaculates she can do some gentle stretches while he's flacid whilst maybe licking his balls. Then when she spots life she can do lots of jelqing (it looks like a massage anyway) so he wouldn't be any the wiser. She can become a domanatrix and say she is gonna torture his dick by not letting him cum (perfect opportunity for lots of edging) plus a few gentle squeezes.

My advice is great advice, she is not gonna hurt his feelings, plus her secret undercover PEing will spice up their love life too.

I don't give my advice because i'm looking for rep points (i got none for my earlier great advice) no i give my advice because i like helping people.

 

[phil88]

its all bad ideas. if she wants a bigger dick she should go find a bigger dick. If her partner is not satisfying her sexually she should let him go, then find a new partner instead of making him feel inadequate in any way.

That being said I am giving her what is in my opinion the best way to make the situation work so that she gets what she wants. There is no way she can bring it up, hearing anything about this from a girl would be hard for any guy.

Seriously if you want to introduce someone to PE you need a guy to do it, we all share a special bond which is the love of our penis. Hearing it from a guy isnt like hearing your dick is to small, its more like your buddy slipping you the answers to the test

 

[TTBB]

TTBB, at what size do you consider someone to be too big? Just curious.

Well i have never measured any of the penis i have encountered.
but i will say that one guy i was in a relationship was boarding on too big, to begin with it wasn't such and issue, but with time it became one

Going from conversations I have had with females over the years (in which many have complained about cock being to big) I would say once you start going over 8 by 5.5 then you can start running into difficulty the girth is more of a guess cuz I am not good with girth measurements lol.. I have even known of a girl who couldn't handle anything over 6.5
And the thing about girth is if its too big its too big .. length you can adjust depth of thrust, but sometimes with inches you lose certain elements, it can effect things like the girls ability to grind on the guy( some girls love grinding into the guy for clitoral stimulation) And when your cock starts getting to long you can't go balls deep(and some girls like having balls slapping on their asses oh and I imagine some guys do too ..hehe)

I would suggest that men who have partners and want to known what the limit for practical size, to invest in toys and explore that way and set your goals according to what your partner enjoys and what their limit is.. If you don't have a partner then remember that big is not better and by being huge you could lose out on a great relationship, because your perfect match in all other areas of life can't take your cock... woman will stay with men who's penis is on the small size, woman will not stay with men who's penis hurts or is uncomfortable.

 

[TTBB]

Why dont you get some other dude to bring it up to him instead of doing it yourself. Manipulative yes, but there is no way I can think of that you can bring this up without crushing a man lol. Get another guy to tell him about it, his natural desire to be bigger should take it from there. Just make sure the guy is specific and gives him the specific site so he knows where to go.

sorry phil I also think this is a bad idea.
People talk, people gossip unintentionally and intentionally... Women should not talk about their mans cocks with other people, just as men should not talk about their females vagina with other people.. its a private matter...If she confides in the wrong person its could cause huge problems.. how would you feel if your girl told one of your buddies your penis is to small and to hint to you that you need to work on it and he told his girlfriend and she told her friend who then told her boyfriend and then you all went out drinking and everyone sitting at the table now knows that your girl isn't satisfied with your penis..... and how uncomfortable would you feel being the buddy who has been asked to bring the topic up with one of your friends?

 

[schlittle]

Hi lovehimdown

If i was you i wouldn't bring up the subject with him.

Instead you should be his pe trainer without him knowing?

So when he cums you should grab his dick and start doing lots of pe stretching exercises and if he asks what are you doind say "i can't wait till i get you hard again". He won't suspect a thing i can promise you.

Next when you start to see life in his dick grab the oil and start to jelq him in the perfect low erection level and if he asks what are you doing say "i'm fancy wanking you". He won't suspect a thing i promise you.

End result in a few months he will have a bigger dick and you will be happy.

I'm pleased i could help.

good luck:thumb:

Hi everyone.. thanks for all the advice so far. I haven't been able to read and respond to but I wanted to say that I really appreciate everyone here taking some time to respond to my thread. With some of the advice from this thread and private messages from amazing forum members-- I am thinking of incorporating some PE stuff in the bedroom (things to make him harder, edging for a more pleasureable orgasm, etc) and maybe if he's curious where I learned this stuff I could find a way to direct information to him?? In any case, I am definitely not going to bring up the obvious and hurt him indefinitely...

Phil if you look above you can see she has already decided what to do.

 

[DemOne]

Lovehimdown has already said she has already decided what to do. She took my advice and it's not as ridiculous as it seems.

After he ejaculates she can do some gentle stretches while he's flacid whilst maybe licking his balls. Then when she spots life she can do lots of jelqing (it looks like a massage anyway) so he wouldn't be any the wiser. She can become a domanatrix and say she is gonna torture his dick by not letting him cum (perfect opportunity for lots of edging) plus a few gentle squeezes.

My advice is great advice, she is not gonna hurt his feelings, plus her secret undercover PEing will spice up their love life too.

I don't give my advice because i'm looking for rep points (i got none for my earlier great advice) no i give my advice because i like helping people.

No offense, but I honestly think that is a horrible idea. New guys to PE can injure themselves easily if they don't know what they're doing, and they're in control and can actually feel what is going on. Having a new person attempt to do exercises on someone else who doesn't know what is really going on, can be disastrous with both parties not really knowing what to do.

She may not hurt his feelings, but she may hurt something else.

Seriously if you want to introduce someone to PE you need a guy to do it, we all share a special bond which is the love of our penis. Hearing it from a guy isnt like hearing your dick is to small, its more like your buddy slipping you the answers to the test

Except with a buddy slipping you the answers to a test, you don't have a guys girlfriend confronting one of his friends with mentions of not enough size. How anyone could expect the boyfriend to not figure things out from a guy friend bringing that up to him, or a guys friend not keeping that information as some really good blackmail.



A real simple way to get him to learn about PE would just involve creating him an account on this website, if she has access to his email to delete the registration emails, and if this site has one of those "we miss you" emails forums and other websites typically send out after 30 days of account inactivity.
The guy gets an email from PEGym, and who's he to suspect anyone but himself made the account in the past?

 

[schlittle]

No offense, but I honestly think that is a horrible idea. New guys to PE can injure themselves easily if they don't know what they're doing, and they're in control and can actually feel what is going on. Having a new person attempt to do exercises on someone else who doesn't know what is really going on, can be disastrous with both parties not really knowing what to do.

She may not hurt his feelings, but she may hurt something else.



I think it's great advice, lovehimdown thinks it's great advice, lots of people probably think it's bad advice. Everybody has different opinions.

Btw, Lovehimdown says she guesses her boyfriend is 5" by 4". She maybe a terrible guesser and he's actually 7" by 5". Then what?

 

[DemOne]

I think it's great advice, lovehimdown thinks it's great advice, lots of people probably think it's bad advice. Everybody has different opinions.

Btw, Lovehimdown says she guesses her boyfriend is 5" by 4". She maybe a terrible guesser and he's actually 7" by 5". Then what?

Then you have an inexperienced person, who can't estimate size properly, doing exercises which can injure her boyfriend, who is also inexperienced in PE.

 

[schlittle]

Then you have an inexperienced person, who can't estimate size properly, doing exercises which can injure her boyfriend, who is also inexperienced in PE.

Btw dem one when you voted on my poll the other day "ideally. where would you like your cock on your body", did you eventually decide "palm"?

 

[DemOne]

Btw dem one when you voted on my poll the other day "ideally. where would you like your cock on your body", did you eventually decide "palm"?

Nope. I'd be in a world of pain if my penis was anywhere but where it currently is.

 

[schlittle]

Nope. I'd be in a world of pain if my penis was anywhere but where it currently is.

Well i did try. Although i'm sure if you had read the heartbreaking story i wrote on my poll page you would've changed your mind. Look for the story about Albert on my poll thread.

 

[phil88]

Its all bad advice. This is not a good situation. The only way it can end is in the guy getting hurt. Either now or in 5 more years when she finally gives in and goes to find satisfaction somewhere else. The only way it goes good is by pure luck and I just do not see it happening.

I doubt hes stupid enough to think he signed up for the forum before, having her do it for him will be way to inconsistent and it wont be able to be done properly if he is unaware. No matter how well you think you have it worded, coming out of the womens mouth, in this situation, the only thing a guy will hear is "your dick is to small"

People do gossip, but if a guy knows another guy has a small dick he will not spread that around unless he himself is trying to make up for, or cover up one of his own inadequacies, I mean thats really low. Besides she does not even have to say he has a small dick, just she heard about PE and can not think of a way to bring it up to him. Then second guy goes and talks to guy with small dick, during conversation says "you should check out this new workout Im trying out". At most he thinks the second guy is gay and hitting on him.

Honestly though I do not see this working out in any way.

 

[DemOne]

Well i did try. Although i'm sure if you had read the heartbreaking story i wrote on my poll page you would've changed your mind. Look for the story about Albert on my poll thread.

Read it, and didn't change my mind.

If I wasn't in a position where I had to fit a tight fitting helmet on my head, tight fitting leather gloves on my hands, and have to cope with holding my body weight up with my palms at g loads of up to 1g...then maybe elsewhere would be fine.

 

[schlittle]

Read it, and didn't change my mind.

If I wasn't in a position where I had to fit a tight fitting helmet on my head, tight fitting leather gloves on my hands, and have to cope with holding my body weight up with my palms at g loads of up to 1g...then maybe elsewhere would be fine.

Your loss.

 

[TTBB]

People do gossip, but if a guy knows another guy has a small dick he will not spread that around unless he himself is trying to make up for, or cover up one of his own inadequacies

Phil how many men do you know who are confident about their penis size, shape, color, taste, balls size, ball hang, cum load.. and how many do you know who wouldn't then worry about what women are saying about their own penis behind their back after hearing a girl say her partners penis needs work?

 

[phil88]

Phil how many men do you know who are confident about their penis size, shape, color, taste, balls size, ball hang, cum load.. and how many do you know who wouldn't then worry about what women are saying about their own penis behind their back after hearing a girl say her partners penis needs work?

Lol I know, I understand what everyone is saying. Thats why the only way it would work is if the guy involved was not an idiot and able to play it off as completely casual. It would require someone close to both of them, maybe she has a brother or something, someone who can be trusted. Really it would rely on the guy being able to pull it off and remaining trustworthy. Honestly though, how do you think this is going to play out?

 

[TTBB]

Its not worth taking the risk and gambling on someone else bringing the topic up.
I am not willing to say how i think this will end, its not my place to..
but i will say there is no good way to bring up penis size with out hurting and the reality is the size of his penis is not the issue..its the way they fit together . and if its coming down to the finger being pointed at the size of his penis being too small then something else isn't working in the bedroom. cock size is not be all and end all in relationships, and she has enjoyed sex up until this point or did at some point in the relationship..so i really don't think its the penis.

 

[Pirate]

I don't know how I missed this yesterday, but anyway..... here are my thoughts.

DO NOT bring up anything having to do with penis size with your man, ever. I have read literally hundreds of stories here from guys who could never forget just one casual mention of their size by a girlfriend or wife or lover. Often what seemed like no big deal to the girl ended up crushing the man and destroying whatever relationship they had. And guys never seem to forget conversations about size, even decades later.

I really don't think women can ever understand how tightly the male ego is tied to his cock. If your man is small, he knows he's small, but he probably feels fine about himself since he's in a loving relationship and having regular sex. Unless you want to send him spinning into depression and anxiety, DON'T BRING UP PENIS SIZE AT ALL.

However, there are lots of ways you can nudge him to discovering this site or other similar information. I think the best is to stay as far away from cock size/hardness as possible. How about raising the possibility that he might become multiorgasmic? A lot of guys here are experimenting with DOs (dry orgasms) and working to become MMO (Male Multi-Orgasmic) using kegels and edging and other PE techniques. There is a whole group here (search under "Groups") on the topic, plus many threads. If you could get him interested in looking into DO/MMO, then he would also come across all the size-enhancing material that is here as well. Anyway, that might be a safe way to introduce him to the PE world.

Lovehimdown,
Read this one again.
I don't think you are going to get better advice on the subject.
-Pirate