I need help guys (ED getting worse)

[UKGuy]

Hi guys I have mentioned many times about my issue with ED (somewhat mild) I won't go through all of it again. I do agree that some of the ED is mental, I still rarely get morning wood anymore but recently I have been getting rock hard erections fine. Other times I can't seem to get hard or get a good erection that losts long (even when my mind is clear) but I can see some of my problem with getting an erection could be mental too.

Anyway I am wondering if my erections are less strong (throbbing) because of lack of sensitivity? Although I am uncircumsized my glands aren't very sensitive especially when I am erect the head almost feels numb (little to no sensitivety), there is very little sensitivity and it has greatly reduced of the last few years. Maybe this is normal I don't know.

Do you have any ideas to increase sensitivety especially to the glands? (apart from doing PE) Perhaps this will help my problem with erections.

Thank You.

 

[Ricky189]

I'd be interested in any suggestions as well.

 

[sEctor-D]

I read somewhere that stop touching yourself for a week will help. But doing PE is going against that.

You seem to agree PE increases sensitivity? But I doubt so. When I was doing PE on a regular basis, I get erected less often. When I stop for a week and resume, I was more sensitive to touch and achieve erections more easily, which means I have to stop and wait for erection to subside more often. Some other similar rules should apply, like no porn or masturbation. I am not so sure about edging though, I don't get the urge to cum sometimes so edging can be a chore.

Imho, mental is not linked to sensitivity. Sensitivity is touch, if you feel it, you feel it. Mental is more deep. It helps you get erected easier, maintain erections easier, your horniness etc. If there is any relationship, it'll not be significant.

I am also very curious on gaining this sensitivity as I have very much trouble ejaculating (not so on erection). I don't get the building feeling towards ejaculation when having sex, and it takes quite some time 30-45mins when I masturbate. I think the average for men during penetration is 5minutes to ejaculation, and I would love to have that. I've heard of some cream/lotions for extra sensation, but I don't think they are of any good aid.

 

[calixto]

UKGuy, hmm, I don't know why you would have a loss of sensitivity if you are not cut, but I do hear of many men that have used foreskin restoration devices to gain more skin, to get more coverage, so that ALL of their glans would always be covered unless while having sex. This makes for the highest level of sensitivity.

sEctor D- You might think about FR (Foreskin Restoration) too. It has helped me a great deal, and I am not NEAR finished. But many things are improved just by having more slack skin. It really has helped me when I wear my extender.

Check this out: DTR- Dual Tension Restorer

This is good too: TLC-Tugger

 

[sEctor-D]

Looks reasonable. But I think the pros and cons of circumcision weigh off quite fairly.

It is agreeable that sensitivity at the glans is reduced, but benefits of circumcision is mainly for health benefits such as, less supceptible to certain diseases like HIV, UTI.. I'd still look for other solutions than restoring foreskin, nice share.

 

[UKGuy]

I don't know why my glands sensitivity is reduced when I am flacid my penis head has some sensitivity but very little and much feeling at all when I have an erection.

Thanks for the suggestion about the foreskin device but that looks pretty painful, I don't think I would put my dick in that.

 

[UKGuy]

Interesting post on treating penile scar tissue

Interesting post on treating penile scar tissue

I don't want to get people's hopes up here but I have read some interesting posts about ED and perhaps MAYBE there is a way to fix it. One post sticks out in my mind about a guy who had ED claimed his uroligist said scar tissue in the penis can be treated if not cured completey it can be "broken down" or softened up. Now I am no expert here but I do believe I may have scar tissue in my penis because it feels slighty toughter and hard when flacid it used to be more spongy and I could stretch it now I can't. Anyway the guy on the forum said that the Uroligist gave him "Verapamil" cream which can apparently soften up scar tissue in the penis over the longterm perhaps completely supposedly it can take 6 months up to a whole year for it to take affect. The guy with ED claimed his erections and hardness improved upon using the cream. The question is if IF the cream does work would it be effective for those who have had penile scar tissue for years? Apparently as well the guy said it is possible to get a monthly shot in the penis that softens up any scar tissue in the penis (it's supposed to be quite painful though)

May I am fooling myself here but I still have a hope that this ED can be fixed somehow. It's a disturbing thought but at times I feel like in order to have sex I will need some sort of implant which I wouldn't want to have in a million years.

Here are some of the following posts:

I have similar issues. See my posts for my story if your interested. It sounds to me like it could be scar tissue. If your experiencing hardened areas on your penis, this is most likely scar tissue. My specialist has given me Verapamil to rub on the hardened areas. This cream is supposed to soften up the scar tissue and allow for more expansion when erect. He has also put me on a new once a day cialus.​

I have seen a few Urologists since my injury... With the exception of my current specialist, they have all been very short with me and less than understanding. I live in Canada so our health care system is different. It took me around 5 months to get in with my latest Dr. His name is Dr. Jay Lee. He is supposed to be one of the best ED doctors in the Country. I told him about my jelqing and everything that I experienced. He was really understanding and knew about the effects of jelqing. He said that scar tissue is one of the most common injury in PEing. When you stretch out or over work the tissue, the cologen can repair itself improperly. Anyways he said there were a few methods to reverse or soften up the scar tissue, one being the cream im using. The other method is a once a month injection straight into the scar tissue. He said this method hurts like hell, but people have seen results in just 3 treatments. This is my plan B right now.

Ive only been on the once a day cialus and the cream for a week. Dr. Lee said it takes about 5 days for the body to build up enough cialus for it to be completely effective. Remember, im on a smaller 5mg once a cialus. Dr. Lee said that once a day cialus wont reverse scar tissue, but it can help with permenant blood flow over time. This cream is a long term treatment, 6-12 months he said. I have noticed increased rigidity for erections and more spontanius + morning erections.

Source:

http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?17189-Erection-problems-from-PE-%28I-think%29/page6

What do you guys think? Has anyone here tied this Verapamil cream? It doesn't seem like it is something you can just buy over the counter. Does anyone else have a hard, rubbery feeling to their penis?

 

[magnusb]

Uk guy.. your ed has become so bad you feel as though you need an implant to have sex? i thought you just a had mild case of weak erections?

 

[UKGuy]

Uk guy.. your ed has become so bad you feel as though you need an implant to have sex? i thought you just a had mild case of weak erections?

Man I don't want to sound like a broken record but this really gets to me at times and if anyone thinks "just get over it" it's easy for them to say that if they have never had erection problems. I thought I had mild ED but perhaps I have just been fooling myself. The reality is I can't keep an erection for even a minute as soon as I get an erection (which are usually farily weak) my erection deflates instantly. I have read that if you damage the entire penile tissue and it atrophies you are screwed and the only way you can have sex is by an penile implant. My concern is my penis feelnig slighty harder when flacid and less elastic (can't stretch it out) means I have scar tissue in the penis and the post I mentioned gave me hope the scar tissue in the penis can be treated.

I do remember so years ago I think I streched my penis a bit too far (although I never felt any pain) my penis immediately turtled up and went hard and was a small as a peanut. This scared the absolute crap out of me but some hours later it went back to normal. I was shortly after this time I started to notice my erections were harder to sustain and I would loose them more quickly. Unfortunately this issue has seem to of got worse as the years have gone on. Yes I was stupid and dumb and I probably pulled my penis too hard but the result of the impotence can be still be devasting I feel pathetic at times because I can't even hold a weak erection, dating for me no go zone. Seriously how many women out there want a guy (young guy) with impotence or who would take seriously and I don't blame them but let's be real here. I guess I still hold onto the hope that I can fix the problem even after 6 years since my injuries it still gets to me and try and find ways to cope. Even masturbating these days feels like a chore and the ejaculation is pretty weak it's not really that enjoyable. I guess getting an erection and losing it almost instantly is more than mild.

 

[fatalbazuka]

Do you watch lots of porn, if so; how often do you masturbate ?

 

[Bomber44]

Hey would you guys consider this an erectiyle dysfunction. I can get a good erection in any postion but standing. I can in standing but its usually not as hard and harder to maintain. Would this affect sex at all. I dont think this would be a venous leak since i can get erection without touching my dick laying down but idk.

 

[UKGuy]

I probably won't be posting here anymore or very much anyway. Reading posts and topics about others guys with similar erectile dysfunction issues, even though it's reassuring I am not alone it isn't helping anything either. I have come to accept that I likely have permanent ED at times it has been hard to come to terms with it. The reality is I probably won't be able to have sex normally like I once could. To be honest in a way I just don't care anymore. I have never had sex now I can't properly have sex funny isn't it?

Do you watch lots of porn, if so; how often do you masturbate ?

I used to, I used to watch quite a lot now though I can take it or leave it infact I don't care to watch it these days. Even masturbation is starting to feel like a chore partly because it doesn't feel that pleasurable anymore. Mainly due to the fact I get a weak erection which I can barely hold. My libido is almost none existant these days as well. Perhaps I have something wrong as well as the physical ED because I seem to have barely any sex drive or libido I rarely ever feel horny now or anything and I just turned 26 years old which is still young in my book.

Trying to enjoying life and finding things to experience has helped through my ED even though I have a disabled dick it doesn't stop me from enjoying my life, sex and relationships for me aren't on the top of my list understandabley.

Cheers I'm out.

 

[bboy80]

Have you been to see a specialist about the problem, if you have scar tissue there is surgical ways of removing the scar tissue.

 

[flex]

I probably won't be posting here anymore or very much anyway. Reading posts and topics about others guys with similar erectile dysfunction issues, even though it's reassuring I am not alone it isn't helping anything either. I have come to accept that I likely have permanent ED at times it has been hard to come to terms with it. The reality is I probably won't be able to have sex normally like I once could. To be honest in a way I just don't care anymore. I have never had sex now I can't properly have sex funny isn't it?



I used to, I used to watch quite a lot now though I can take it or leave it infact I don't care to watch it these days. Even masturbation is starting to feel like a chore partly because it doesn't feel that pleasurable anymore. Mainly due to the fact I get a weak erection which I can barely hold. My libido is almost none existant these days as well. Perhaps I have something wrong as well as the physical ED because I seem to have barely any sex drive or libido I rarely ever feel horny now or anything and I just turned 26 years old which is still young in my book.

Trying to enjoying life and finding things to experience has helped through my ED even though I have a disabled dick it doesn't stop me from enjoying my life, sex and relationships for me aren't on the top of my list understandabley.
Cheers I'm out.

You keep posting the same thing, but not answering a basic question--one I asked you a while ago:

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penile...d-trouble-maybe-venous-leak-8.html#post184252

Anyway, you should get your information straight. The guy who made the post you first referred to did NOT find relief from creme. Anyone interested can search his posts on Thunders, under the same username as he used in the thread you posted. Did you read the whole thread? Or did you post it for other reasons?

 

[dsfan]

Another thing that doesn't seem to be very well known, is cialis once a day for a year. It promotes good blood flow, thus giving the scar a chance to heal. The urologist who specializes in male disorders (peyronies, etc) that I've been seeing suggested this before surgery. After 6 months, it apparantly had worked very well (could have fooled me, I havent noticed much of a difference at the time), but I am starting to see a difference. Surprising how this isn't very well known, I'm guessing doctors in other countries are more interested in performing surgery for a quick cash grab (personally I'm in Canada). It's worth a shot, UKGuy, and trust me I know how you feel, I just turned 27 myself and am starting to feel like a miserable 85 year old man.

 

[moxsum]

Castor oil will soften/relax scar tissue, and you can take specific enzyme supplements that eat away scar tissue. Look it up. Your body has enzymes in it that eat scar tissue.. your body KNOWS that scar tissue is not desirable but its not its number one priority and if your in ill health in other ways your body does not dedicate its energies to repair crappy scar tissue. Look up Systemic Enzymes.

Heres a quote;

"Systemic Enzymes for Anti Fibrosis

Enzymes eat scar tissue and fibrosis. (7). Fibrosis is scar tissue and most doctors learn in anatomy that it is fibrosis that eventually kills us all. Let me explain. As we age, which starts at 27, we have a diminishing of the body's output of enzymes. This is because we make a finite amount of enzymes in a lifetime and we use up a good deal of them by the time we reach our 40's (Cystic Fibrosis patients who have virtually no enzyme production to speak of, even as children usually don't make it past their 20's before they die of the restriction and shrinkage in the lungs from the formation of fibrosis or scar tissue).

So our body begins to dole out our enzymes with an eyedropper instead of with a tablespoon. Result: the repair mechanism of the body goes off balance and has nothing to reduce the over abundance of fibrin it deposits in nearly everything from simple cuts, to the inside of our internal organs and blood vessels. It is then when most women begin to develop things like fibrocystic breast disease, uterine fibroids, and endometriosis. We all grow arterial sclerotic (meaning scar tissue) plaque, and have fibrin begin to spider web its way inside of our internal organs, reducing their size and function over time. This is why as we age our wounds heal with thicker, less pliable, weaker and very visible scars.

If we replace the lost enzymes, we can control and reduce the amount of scar tissue and fibrosis our bodies have. As physicians in the US are now discovering, even old scar tissue can be "eaten away" from surgical wounds, pulmonary fibrosis, and kidney fibrosis even keloid years after their formation. Medical doctors in Europe and Asia have known this and used orally administered enzymes for such for over 40 years!"

 

[fatalbazuka]

But we need to find what these enzymes actually are, are they vitamins ? injections ? prescription meds ?

 

[DiMarco]

I think being circ'd makes a difference on overall sensitivity due to the wear and tear/keratinization that the years bring.

I have been using daily (liberal) application of vitamin e oil (3x per day - kind sold in cvs) with solid increase in tactile sensitivity to glans and underside. I have also heard that Evening Primrose Oil could also make a difference, although I have not tried that yet (plan to pick some up this week).

I would be curious of methods/applications other user have used to increase sensitivity.

 

[moxsum]

I feel like my sensitivity fluctuates sometimes.. does anyone else feel a temp. reduction in sensitivy after wacking it a lot?

 

[UKGuy]

I saw a new doctor about my ED need advice

I saw a new doctor about my ED need advice

Hi everyone I have been on these forums now for quite sometime (although I rarely post that much now) anyway I am sure some of you are aware I have been having mild - moderate erectile dysfunction for sometime now (6 years) at least. I am not here to complain about my situation or moan how unfair it is I know I'm positive, I probably did cause self injury to my penis in my attempts to apply penis enarlgement exercises to my penis which I obviously did wrong and/or probably too forcefully. Since then I have had to live with the consesquences. I know I was stupid and I wish I could turn back the clock but of course I can't so I just want to TRY and stay positive and recover from my erection problems as much as I can.

Okay so, so far I have seen 3 doctors and 1 uroligist and I saw another new doctor today. I wasn't left satisfied or pleased. I told him pretty much everything, like how I don't get full erections (the glands not expanding completely), losing my erection within seconds and only being able to sustain it with constant physical stimulation. I even told him how if I wake up with an erection (again not completely full) it will die instantly the minute I move or get out of bed, i've lost it. Yet the doctor said it's "completely normal" lot's of men have that how on earth can losing morning wood instantly or losing an erection instantly (not minutes) be normal? I told him I want psyhcial tests done for him to refer me to another uroglist and he said there is no point because the tests I had before (for blood, hormones etc) came up completely normal. He said because there was no abnormal results before the uroglist wouldn't do any phsyical tests unless there was. I have never heard about this has anyone else? So basically I got "it's all in your head" talk again I just don't see how it can be I'm frustrated I have seen quite a few doctors now and I haven't been able to get any actual phsyical tests done also he said "you're too young for Viagra" (I am 26) etc.

Now what should I do?