How bigs too big ?

[mister]

Hey guys.

I was just reading someones post , forgotten their name sorry as wondered about afterward but he was saying that his girl now is tight and others have asked him to stop and one he couldn't even get into , which I had once myself .

Which got me thinking about the other side of our coin . What happens if after all our work we find it's too much cock and you can't enjoy yourselves anyway - oops !
So how much is too much ?

This depends on your girls, wives , whatever I spose ! But it reminded me that my girls only small - greedy but small . I've always loved small women , I just reckon they're hot . But some have needed rests and days off , which became a drag after awhile.
Or what if we were to split up, or you had an affair or something and the next one was too tight , hmm .
Or imagine if you do all this work and then meet someone that you want to settle down with but your too big for her !

I wonder whats a good size . You can't even ask women really because it depends on the female , her build and what she can handle . Yes I know they'll all say horse cock but , females eyes are usually bigger than their stomachs so to speak and if you end up waiting round 4 nights out of 5 just while she recovers !

Cheers

 

[Bigi]

In my opinion i don't want to get longer then 8 inch, 8.5 MAX. Girth around 6.7in

I think having too big dick is not needed unless you want to be porn actor or something.

 

[normalguy]

Just as you said, this is all individual-dependent and so there's no good response. Many however think that the perfect size in terms of girth is around 5.5. A lot of the guys who reached 6" in girth or bigger report that they were forced to give up anal and oral... The threshold for vaginal intercourse is certainly a bit bigger for most women but it doesn't mean that this will be pleasurable...
So yes, if you were already told to stop, you're right to ask this question, especially if this is from a person that you want to settle with. It's definitely a bad thing if she's so sore from sex that you have to wait 4 days to have sex again. You might have to reconsider your goal of whether you should really continue to PE at all...
Anyway, in cases like these, I would suggest lots of foreplay, use of lots of lubes, no hard thrusting and no endless intercourse...
https://www.pegym.com/forums/poll-forum/5887-whats-perfect-penis-size.html?highlight=perfect+size

 

[GTO]

The question, as well as the varied responses, are overblown. There is no good, definitive answer - as normalguy stated, it varies totally from person to person. Every woman on the planet is made and built differently - some can take it big, while others can't. It's as simple as that. Ultimately, if you are doing PE for you, get to whatever size YOU want to be; if you are doing it for your woman, then do it for her and when she says stop, then stop. Lots of guys think 8x6 is the 'ideal' size - maybe for them and maybe for the women they are with. And that's completely and totally cool. But there are some that may see it as too small or way too big - it's totally subjective.

 

[isambard]

The question, as well as the varied responses, are overblown. There is no good, definitive answer - as normalguy stated, it varies totally from person to person. Every woman on the planet is made and built differently - some can take it big, while others can't. It's as simple as that. Ultimately, if you are doing PE for you, get to whatever size YOU want to be; if you are doing it for your woman, then do it for her and when she says stop, then stop. Lots of guys think 8x6 is the 'ideal' size - maybe for them and maybe for the women they are with. And that's completely and totally cool. But there are some that may see it as too small or way too big - it's totally subjective.

Just as you said, this is all individual-dependent and so there's no good response. Many however think that the perfect size in terms of girth is around 5.5. A lot of the guys who reached 6" in girth or bigger report that they were forced to give up anal and oral... The threshold for vaginal intercourse is certainly a bit bigger for most women but it doesn't mean that this will be pleasurable...
So yes, if you were already told to stop, you're right to ask this question, especially if this is from a person that you want to settle with. It's definitely a bad thing if she's so sore from sex that you have to wait 4 days to have sex again. You might have to reconsider your goal of whether you should really continue to PE at all...
Anyway, in cases like these, I would suggest lots of foreplay, use of lots of lubes, no hard thrusting and no endless intercourse...
https://www.pegym.com/forums/poll-forum/5887-whats-perfect-penis-size.html?highlight=perfect+size

Great posts gents! I think you have hit the nail on the head with what you have both said. I'll be extremely surprised if there could possibly be a more sensible and clearer viewpoint than what you have both written. I know I'm a newbie in terms of this forum, and the world of PE but 'reps' to you both!! Just got to find out how I do the reps thing for you... haha

 

[wind chill]

In my opinion i don't want to get longer then 8 inch, 8.5 MAX. Girth around 6.7in

I think having too big dick is not needed unless you want to be porn actor or something.

8.5 nbpel x 6.7 is bigger than almost every pornstar.You can count pornstar on fingers who have bigger stats than these.Talking cubic meters of course

 

[millia]

It varies from girl to girl. One girl said I was the biggest she's had, while another one said I was in the middle. Each one is different so it is up to you to decide what is going to be too big for you.

 

[mister]

Well another reason I asked is that after reading that other guys story , it also reminded me of a personal situation.

Now , your gonna laugh at this but eh , the mind is a strange creature . We have a family friend , she's one hot little mumma but she's tiny . Now I've always thought that if I ever got a divorce I'd be knocking on her door let me tell you but . Now that I'm doing this and with her being as small as she is - hey I might not even be able to get near her anyway - how would you feel ????????????????????
Hey , maybe on a just encase basis , I better take her out for a test drive before I go any further .

Cheers

PS , so you guys reckon 6 is plenty for girth ?

 

[Editor]

6 is plenty of girth.

 

[vulcan]

When it will not go in, it is too big.

 

[GTO]

When it will not go in, it is too big.

10 simple words. Nice.

 

[TTBB]

i have a question .. not sure how to phrase it,
but If you have been doing the work to make your penis bigger and then you stop doesn't it get smaller - if you don't do the maintenance program? Does there come a point where you don't need to do the maintenance to maintain the inches ? or is it always slightly reversible? (Meaning if you do get too big and your partner had too many problems or you were finding you can't live with out blowjobs ..wouldn't you be able to reduce size a little again??)
I have always been curious about it .. like if i was with a guy who wanted a ten inch dick, i would be like "ok" but would worry about him he actually achieving it, esp if i found it uncomfortable and un-enjoyable. Would I then be stuck (literally) with it? ..hehe

did that make any sense??

 

[DryJelq]

I'd imagine that as long as someone didn't keep their size for a very long time, they would be able to reverse most of their gains. It might take a while though.

My girth will fluctuate day to day by as much as 1/4". If I stop doing PE for a week, I usually am on the lower end of this 1/4". However it can come back very quickly from just sex or edging.

 

[mister]

10 simple words. Nice.

But eh , maybe not so nice.

Once in my 20's there was a girl , hottest little sh*t you have ever seen in your life I kid you not . Another tiny one . Every guy in the district was dreaming about this little beauty . She went out with a couple and had a few bf's and then one night , there was a few of us , we got to talking and it turned out she 'd liked me too all thsi time - hell I use to lay awake nights dreaming about her but I never thought I had a hope in hell.

Well , we started going out , lasted 4 mths , turns out we didn't have much in common apart from lust well I had plenty that was for sure but - never got in there once . Not once.
After lusting after her along with everyone else all those years here I am I have a dream come true and we can't f'k.
She was the tightest girl I've ever seen and we tried the lot , n0 go . NOT FUNNY !!!!!!!

Saw her about 10 yrs later and she had a hubby and 3 kids so someone got the job done in the end , lucky sh*t .

 

[rockwell]

Oh and LOLface. I do consider myself lucky. I'm usually somewhere around 5 5/8 inches EG. Its frustrating being with a girl and having her beg to stop having sex though because it hurts her. And on a few separate occasions I couldn't even get it in all the way because my partner was so tight and wouldn't let me. But usually when I'm done sexing up a chick she's soon begging for more because no one else feels as good

I think you were talking about me? I'm hovering around 6 3/8 x 5 5/8 and what I was saying in my post is that I have had a few experiences where 1) a girl is going down on me and is like UHH OKAY CAN I BE DONE NOW or like I'm feeling teeth (most uncomfortable experience I've ever had sexually) or they just start kissing me and saying their jaw hurts 2) I'll be hard and have sex for a solid 20 minutes, which I don't feel is THAT long but the chick enjoys it and I cum and then we take a nap or something and 20 minutes later I'm hard again and we start having sex again and like 37 seconds in shes like, baby it hurts, baby it hurts, baby it hurts so out of respect and everything I just stop 3) I'll be with a girl and shes so tight that I can't get anything in, even with plenty of lube; I just wouldn't fit. My ex wanted to hook-up a year or so after we dated and she was getting tired of her new boyfriend and we tried fucking and she couldn't get it in. She seriously said, "Did you get bigger? Why is your dick this big?" I was like UHH WHAT.

I personally want to get to a consistent, solid 7x6 BPELxEG. I have close to no fat pad and so I don't care about NBPEL because its virtually the same for me. I personally don't feel like that is too big, I think for me being a 5'8" tall, 120 pound (currently trying to get back to around 135 after a medical problem, long story) guy a 7x6 would be kinda huge on me especially considering all the women I have sex with are small/slender/my size=curves. I just hooked up with this girl again today and shes extremely attractive, and always parties, is always around a lot of guys, but still doesn't touch anyone. We had sex for the first time like 2 weeks ago, and we had a latenight conversation on Thursday and it went like this, pulling the texts straight from my phone;

Me; *naughty stuff* just so you know, you felt really fucking good *naughty stuff*
Her; Its my job to feel good lol
Me; you did a greatttttttt job
Me; I hope I did too. :3
Her; MMHM otherwise I wouldn't be wanting more.

So I KNOW that apparently I'm pretty damn thick. Its funny because ever since I have started PE and seeing the numbers around here I have gained a lot of confidence with myself and my size and I've been approaching a lot more women and making a whole lot of people including myself feel really good, which is quite a drastic change compared to not too long ago thinking I had a small dick because I lost a phone and someone found it and nude pictures of myself circulated around the area and people were saying my dick was small but I have come to realize that my dick does infact look "stubby" in photos because if the dimensions and angle the pictures were taken, I mean, my girth is almost equal to my length. After that incident there was a girl that criticized me for having a small looking dick and I have recently swooned her and fucked her brains out cause I'm undeniably suave when I want to be and made sure to make it hurt for her and since then she vouches that my dick is in fact way thicker than anything in this area that I'm around.

SOOO to bring this back to the topic at hand instead of spewing out my "success story", I think that it IS infact a matter of what type of women you're around and their preference, but I'd say that 6" EG is, no matter what, going to satisfy a lady if you use it right, as long as they are infact "ladies" and not skanky conceited girls that want to get stuffed and filled up or porn stars.

PS this is my 100th post, I feel like such a constructive and supportive member of the gym now.

 

[mister]

Eh Rock , congrats on 100.

Thanks for talking more, great stuff .Yeah I think it was one of yours. Hey now I'm getting technical here but what nationality are your girls anyway ?
The little one I had trouble with was Maltese, I don't know if that had anything to do with it.
One thing I have learnt over the years is that a chicks eyes are usually bigger than her stomach to start as I was saying but where are they after a solid week of sex , if she's still able by then , most seem to need a rest .

I was about 7x6 when I was younger but it seemed smaller lately that's why I started PE . What a difference already , this stuff's the real deal if you ask me.


Cheers

 

[rockwell]

I wish I could swoon some really exotic beautiful girls but I'm not really exposed to those types of women let alone consider myself able/patient enough to get them to hook up with me. The girls I've been with have mostly been just white girls (mixed european decent you know?) And the ones that I had issues with fitting in or wearing out were more my sized versus girls smaller than me.

I agree with what you're saying about women wanting more than they can handle. Its all based on misconceptions from society and lies of others. Like. Dick size shouldn't matter. When people said those things about me, it sucked cause I was comfortable with myself. Then a guy that had a problem with me harassed me about it saying I was small, so I beat the crap out of him, and fucked someone so hard that everyone just kinda backed off me. I don't like being judged by others, I stay out of any type of "scene" or social clique. I just wanna enjoy myself, safely, with beautiful women. haha.

 

[martint]

i have a question .. not sure how to phrase it,
but If you have been doing the work to make your penis bigger and then you stop doesn't it get smaller - if you don't do the maintenance program? Does there come a point where you don't need to do the maintenance to maintain the inches ? or is it always slightly reversible? (Meaning if you do get too big and your partner had too many problems or you were finding you can't live with out blowjobs ..wouldn't you be able to reduce size a little again??)
I have always been curious about it .. like if i was with a guy who wanted a ten inch dick, i would be like "ok" but would worry about him he actually achieving it, esp if i found it uncomfortable and un-enjoyable. Would I then be stuck (literally) with it? ..hehe

did that make any sense??

I had some experience with this. I started a pe'ing about 5-6 years ago, for about 4 months or so. I made some gains and kept the length i gained up until about a year ago or so, girth went a lot faster and i only kept a small amount of the girth gains i made.

 

[Pegasus]

Well ttbb this varies so much that you can't count on anything.

 

[sotorp]

I cannot believe stories of guys that could not put it in at all. I have put it in in about 35 women in my life and I am 6+ EG and none had serious problems. For sure when I was younger and inexperienced it may have been harder in a couple of cases BUT only because the girls were not well lubricated beforehand. I cannot stress how important the role of plenty of saliva is when you find yourself in this situation- it is the perfect natural lubricant. If it is not "possible" to lick or suck her vagina to prepare it just coat your dick with plenty of spit and go. With condoms as well even though they have some lubricant it is often not enough.