NP97
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Cunnilingus
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Would receiving fellatio from a woman or having anal sex with one cause a guy to become gay?
Fact 1. Despite the stories you hear on forums like this one, written by guys who claim that every single woman they every laid had multiple orgasms every time he screwed them, most women either do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or do so infrequently.
Fact 2. Women typically take considerably longer than men to become aroused and build up to orgasm. This poses a dilemma for guys who hope to give women orgasms through vaginal intercourse only, because they often don't have the control and stamina to hold off climaxing long enough for their partner to come (and some women just can't no matter how long they can last).
Fact 3. There are some women who enjoy being digitally masturbated and fingered, or have their partner stimulate them with a vibrator to orgasm, but there are plenty who do not.
Fact 4. Most women enjoy intercourse even if they don't orgasm, and I think overall women are more inclined than men to be satisfied with a sexual encounter that ends without them having an orgasm. But women like orgasms as much as men do, and I believe that if they consistently do not orgasm, they are going to be inclined to have less interest in having sex, or inclined to have sex less frequently, than if they usually do.
The solution: cunnilingus! As I said, there are exceptions and there is an occasional woman who really doesn't care for it. There are others who have become frustrated with it because they have experienced guys who are too rough or impatient to get them anywhere. And there are others who are shy about it because they are concerned the guy will object to the way they look, smell, or taste (they can get over this if a guy is patient and obviously enthusiastic). But, on the whole ...
Fact 5. Women love to be eaten. And most can orgasm this way, although what works for one might not work for another, and sometimes it takes a while to figure out what is most effective for a particular girl. So a guy who is patient can usually bring his partner to orgasm one or more times this way without fear of ejaculating too soon.
In my experience, most women become too sensitive right after orgasm to tolerate any more oral stimulation of their clit. But most I have been with really seem to want you inside at that point, and are inclined to fuck like rattlesnakes.
Fact 1. Despite the stories you hear on forums like this one, written by guys who claim that every single woman they every laid had multiple orgasms every time he screwed them, most women either do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or do so infrequently.
Fact 2. Women typically take considerably longer than men to become aroused and build up to orgasm. This poses a dilemma for guys who hope to give women orgasms through vaginal intercourse only, because they often don't have the control and stamina to hold off climaxing long enough for their partner to come (and some women just can't no matter how long they can last).
Fact 3. There are some women who enjoy being digitally masturbated and fingered, or have their partner stimulate them with a vibrator to orgasm, but there are plenty who do not.
Fact 4. Most women enjoy intercourse even if they don't orgasm, and I think overall women are more inclined than men to be satisfied with a sexual encounter that ends without them having an orgasm. But women like orgasms as much as men do, and I believe that if they consistently do not orgasm, they are going to be inclined to have less interest in having sex, or inclined to have sex less frequently, than if they usually do.
The solution: cunnilingus! As I said, there are exceptions and there is an occasional woman who really doesn't care for it. There are others who have become frustrated with it because they have experienced guys who are too rough or impatient to get them anywhere. And there are others who are shy about it because they are concerned the guy will object to the way they look, smell, or taste (they can get over this if a guy is patient and obviously enthusiastic). But, on the whole ...
Fact 5. Women love to be eaten. And most can orgasm this way, although what works for one might not work for another, and sometimes it takes a while to figure out what is most effective for a particular girl. So a guy who is patient can usually bring his partner to orgasm one or more times this way without fear of ejaculating too soon.
In my experience, most women become too sensitive right after orgasm to tolerate any more oral stimulation of their clit. But most I have been with really seem to want you inside at that point, and are inclined to fuck like rattlesnakes.
GTO
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Well said and I agree. One lover I had couldn't come through straight vaginal intercourse no matter what we tried - eating her was the only option. At the other end of the spectrum, one was so orgasmic that she came like a volcano after only a few of strokes (and I remember she was like a vice grip). There were some that really got off with toys and others that couldn't even at the highest of speeds. Women truly run the gamut when it comes to stimulation and how it affects their bodies.
It's odd how it takes women so long to orgasm during sex but when they masturbate it's pretty quick. I guess sometimes it's just getting lucky hitting their spot right away.
GTO
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That's another benefit of eating her - you actually get to see her spots. As you use your fingers and tongue to pleasure her, you're also 'taking notes' - at least I do anyway. I'm learnin what works, what doesn't, how a movement here or there can translate to vaginal intercourse, if I press 'here' what sort of reaction does her body give, etc. I make it a game just to see how crazy I can make her before she has orgasm(s).
Not really odd, since vaginal intercourse seldom results in direct clitoral stimulation for most women.
So you spread the lips apart and play around with it and sh*t like that? Jeez dude what kind of girls are you dating? The only GF I had that I went down on consistently would never let me do sh*t like that. I think you're like a porn star in hiding or something.
Of course I was dating an Indian chick and they're pretty strict about stuff.
Well yeah but what I was getting at was how women complain about not getting an internal orgasm (which takes the extended time) but seem to have no problems with quick orgasms when masturbating. Maybe I've just got it all wrong.
One thing I have noticed though, is that if you spoon a girl and lightly squeeze the whole clit area they hit the roof.
Pirate
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A woman playing with herself is in complete control of the stimulation that she is receiving and also, usually, has no motive to hold off cumming. This sets her up for her fastest orgasm.
If her partner is in charge of the stimulation then the feedback loop is much less direct. If you are touching her, you are, at best, trying hard to read the signs and guess what is working and what she wants next. While this can be extremely fun, it is not a very efficient flow of information:
Him: Lick
Her: Moan, Wiggle
Him: Maybe I'll try a little more to the left
Her: Wiggle +1, Moan -2
Him: Okaaay...Perhaps a bit less lick and a bit more suck
Her: Squeal +2, Wiggle -1, Grind
and so on
If she doesn't have much time or is in some sort of race, she is probably better off on her own.
If her partner is in charge of the stimulation then the feedback loop is much less direct. If you are touching her, you are, at best, trying hard to read the signs and guess what is working and what she wants next. While this can be extremely fun, it is not a very efficient flow of information:
Him: Lick
Her: Moan, Wiggle
Him: Maybe I'll try a little more to the left
Her: Wiggle +1, Moan -2
Him: Okaaay...Perhaps a bit less lick and a bit more suck
Her: Squeal +2, Wiggle -1, Grind
and so on
If she doesn't have much time or is in some sort of race, she is probably better off on her own.
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GTO
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LOL! I know that feeling!! But call me a glutton for punishment or something ... I just really, really, really like it :becky: As the 'return the favor' blowjob is mind-blowing!
Mah tung? Isn't that a district in Bangkok? - pa ching!
I keep hearing about these 'return the favor' bjs. I'm gonna have to get me one of these. Can you email me a girl or somethin?
I keep hearing about these 'return the favor' bjs. I'm gonna have to get me one of these. Can you email me a girl or somethin?
Pirate
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Yes, well, just make sure that she isn't in the habit of clinching her teeth when she cums.
I'm gettin kind of frustrated because I hear all this talk of good blowjobs. Oh wait I just remembered I did cum once from a blowjob. Yeah one time only, she was pretty good. Guess I can't complain after all. But usually I don't even ask for them I just like them to kiss it and rub their face all around or rub it on their tits.
Pirate
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No one has ever found it easy to make me cum from a blow job.
I still enjoy the effort very, very much even though it can be hard to convince her that she didn't "fail" just because I didn't cum.
I still enjoy the effort very, very much even though it can be hard to convince her that she didn't "fail" just because I didn't cum.
vulcan
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vulcan
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No. Sometimes wonder why women want a big dick if most of them cannot get off through penetration alone.
- What are your limitations for doing this?
- Do you prefer small or large lips / clit?
- Would you go down on a stranger?
I love eating pussy it just has to be shaved or waxed and I will inspect the terrain before diving in, gotta be careful especially since I am a college student.
I dont really care if the lips r big or small same with the clit aslong as the pussy looks nice that is what matters to me.
I would not go down on a stranger if I was sober but when drunk it has happened.
- Do you prefer small or large lips / clit?
- Would you go down on a stranger?
I love eating pussy it just has to be shaved or waxed and I will inspect the terrain before diving in, gotta be careful especially since I am a college student.
I dont really care if the lips r big or small same with the clit aslong as the pussy looks nice that is what matters to me.
I would not go down on a stranger if I was sober but when drunk it has happened.
