Trouble making my gf cum

[Pegasus]

It can be anyway Bw, I have been lucky in recent times, but some of our members haven't.
I understand their pain ,I just don't feel qualifed to give them advice.

 

[NP97]

I know what you're saying BW. I may have posted this before, but my ex never came before me. She tried masturbating while with me and couldn't cum. I could make her fairly easily. Not that it didn't take work, but I had that down to a science.
Best tip I can give... ask what feels right. Make sure she isn't afraid to tell you if it's working or not. Once me and her got by that... well... I began to change my bedsheets pretty much daily.

 

[Radiohead]

Learn pussy eating and pussy fucking skills. Nail her G spot and devour her clit, know what I'm saying. Google it.

 

[Batwoman]

No need to Google G-spot, we have our very own very useful thread right here: https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-perspective/8843-g-spot.html

 

[He_man]

What ive noticed is if I focus on a certain area of my girls clit, and she's getting close and I move like a milimeter, it is enough to cause the sensation to pass and I have to spend more time getting here near again. Once she's close I will usually keep a constantly tempo and this sends her over the edge and she has the orgasm.

Im not sure how to give girls multiple orgasms?

After my girlfriend has cum, she is unbelievably sensitive and cannot be touched again until the sensation has passed.

thanks

 

[Batwoman]

If anyone knows how to give ladies multiple orgasms (I mean ladies that don't ordinarily have them) I'd LOVE to hear about it, too!!!
Alas, I am as you describe, He_man -- once I cum, my clit usually becomes extremely sensitive and it takes a while before I want more.

 

[DRXXXTASY]

The clit will become overly sensitive after her orgasm. All you have to do is move your foreplay to different erogenous zones of her body and stimulate then until her down phase passes, then you can return to oral pleasure to her vagina if you like. Another thing you can do is go from her clit to her G spot and perineum from inside her vagina and she'll be orgasmic again in no time. Variation brings on multiple orgasms. Hope this helps

 

[Mars81]

I would be able to give my ex girlfriend multiple orgasms by clitoral stimulation. I would alternate by rubbing hard and rubbing light. Even when I rubbed hard it wasn't hard, but firm. Make sure your hands aren't too dry and when she is cumming don't stop rubbing, instead rub even faster and alternate from having a firm touch on her clit to having a light feather touch. Clits will get bigger too, my ex's would get the size of a marble after I would rub her with a few fingers. You will be able to keep her in an orgasmic state once you get the hang of it.

 

[NP97]

That would happen to my ex as well. She would get sensitive down there. I would stop for a second, act like I'm coming up for a kiss, then go right back down. She said it was like bliss, even though it made her a bit sore afterwords. I could never keep going. Strong legs would crush my face.

 

[Mars81]

Hey Marj I just had an idea for next time you go down on her. See if she likes being tied up! Tie her up and tease her man, go down on her and make her cum how you please. Hopefully it's not because she is getting sore down there easily, I think time and more sex will eventually help with the soreness, but short term solutions can be switching to different body parts and also different forms of stimulation during your sex sessions.

 

[Batwoman]

Guys, when a lady's clit gets oversensitive after an orgasm, it HURTS big time if you keep stimulating it. It is not fun -- agony is more like it. If your lady says "stop" you should listen, and move on to something else for a while. I am not sure if there is a solution to the overstimulation problem, it may be that it takes the woman learning how to orgasm from less clit stimulation in the first place (more G-spot or something else). I'm experimenting with this myself. But the bottom line is that once she gets to the point where she can't take more stimulation, you need to back off her clit. If you are in the middle of sex and don't want to stop, just change your position a bit. I think ladies probably vary a lot in how long they need to recover before the clit is OK for fun again. I know that it varies a lot for me depending on activities -- sometimes I can go again right away, sometimes I am sensitive for half a hour. Just be attuned to your lady on this one, the pain is pretty intense if you overdo it.

 

[NP97]

Yeah, if she says stop, then stop. My ex had this spasm that would crush my face or she would push me away involuntary. You stop if she tells you to. Sorry if I was a bit unclear on that BW.

 

[baybabe]

Guys, when a lady's clit gets oversensitive after an orgasm, it HURTS big time if you keep stimulating it. It is not fun -- agony is more like it. If your lady says "stop" you should listen, and move on to something else for a while.

GOD I KNOW IT! My BF thinks its some great idea to go from giving me an orgasm with his penis to ravaging my pussy with his mouth while lingering at the end of my orgasm! Right when I start having an orgasm he pulls out and goes down on me, like really recklessly and hard tongue action. I said "Baby what was up with that? It makes me spasm and its too intense" he said that I just need to relax and let it happen. I was thinking wtf I am relaxed, its a S-P-A-S-M not cool. idk what girl friend made him think she was achieving multiples from that erratic behavior but wut-ev lol. At first when he quickly went for my pussy after I had the orgasm, I thought he wanted to taste me, like taste my juices type thing. But then he told me why and I though "Geez dude, just save it then lol, if you wanted to taste me, thats sexy & a turn on but if you thought I liked the way it feels....nope."

My thoughts on given your girl friend an orgasm... along with what I and everyone else has said before, I want to add...
Try to tighten your core slightly and really make sure your not just slopping it in her, give it direction and make sure its sliding in up at the top of her opening. Have her tighten up and lift her pelvis up to yours as well. When Im not into it I WONT have an orgasm and its probably because Im not tensing up around him as well as Im not raising my pelvis up to meet his...in other words thrusting into each other like when you really want him inside you, you'll push back. Get it? There is definitely a way that I angle my pelvis that gets it every time. So if shes laying on her back she would be raising her ass up at lets say 2 O'clock if the ceiling is 12. or raising up the equivalent to the effect of having a towel doubled over about 2-3 inches. I dont know everyone is different, maybe thats just my thing.

 

[bgstick18]

Damn baybabe your post was kinda makin me horny ha ha! Isnt it true that SOME women just CANT orgasm period? I heard its around 33%?

 

[Batwoman]

Some women may not have learned how -- yet. I think there is always hope for anyone.
That 33% is an overestimation, but clearly there are ladies out there who do not orgasm. I suspect it may be in part due to their never having learned how to encourage an orgasm along. Masturbation is a fabulous and perhaps critical part of this -- if a girl never masturbates, she may not know how to move and relax and tighten at the right times to get herself off. Baybabe is right on with pointing out that a lady has to know how to put herself in the right mood and position(s) to cum -- it doesn't just happen. A helpful partner can really help it along, though.

 

[bgstick18]

Yaaaa I know my gf masterbates but she never cums. All kind of perplexing to me. I cant make her cum through vaginal OR clitoral stimulation. Im not like an EXPERT pussy licker but, I do a good job and the sex is superb BUT, no orgasm for her. Maybe it just takes her a REALLY long time? Could it be just a question of duration, not stimulation?

 

[baybabe]

Damn baybabe your post was kinda makin me horny ha ha! Isnt it true that SOME women just CANT orgasm period? I heard its around 33%?

Yeah? Really? lol thats why I cant just sit around typing and reading posts all day...seriously! I cant afford to be any hornier it would cut into normal activities lmao no joke. Ok back to topic...
I GUESS there are some women that cant orgasm, I REALLY REALLY cant fathom that though! For the sake of being appropriate I wont say at what age I started masturbating but it was really young, well before puberty young. Probably at the age they say boys start. So anyway, I cant remember not achieving orgasm. However I will say that when my boyfriend gets sloppy I cant have one. Sometimes he kinda lays his upper half on me and sloppily pounds his dick in & out rapidly I cant get off...no way no how, in fact I feel like telling him to get the fuck off me and try some other time gawd.
It's allot of pressure for girls because you guys are so fast. I can see why after so much time has passed why a girl would fake it, you guys can be relentless lol.

 

[bgstick18]

hahahahah you make me laugh! Totally with ya on the "cant get any hornier" thing. My god its exhausting getting 100 boners a day! Your style of writing is very imaginative, funny stuff! You sound very..frusterated with your man ha ha, im sensing aaaaa love hate relationship! Funny girl you!

Anyway, ya I usually dont POUND my gfs pussy a whole hell of a lot. She is TINY and my weenie hurts her sometimes! So, we go at meduim pace for maximum statisfaction BUT, still doesnt cum...sh*t! What to do ya know!

 

[baybabe]

hahahahah you make me laugh!

Glad to hear it Good luck with your girlfriend. Actually good luck TO your girlfriend, shes the one missing out.

 

[bgstick18]

I knnnooowww but thanks!