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Not really true doup, the clit likes direct stimulation to come into play. That doesn't mean it has to be stimulated for a lady to reach orgasm, but trust me, if he is thrusting into my pussy but not touching my clit, my clit is not getting stimulated enough to matter.

Would that mean the indirect techniques in this video wouldn't stimulate you?
 

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Sounds like doup is using outdated info from a study I remember, "all orgasms are clit orgasms". Yes I can remember that one and yes I am showing my age.
 

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Would that mean the indirect techniques in this video wouldn't stimulate you?

I need a bit more privacy than I have right now to watch it, but my guess is that yes, of course they would stimulate me. Lots of things indirectly stimulate me and add to the overall experience of sex! I was just pointing out that the the clit does not really get involved in things if it is not directly stimulated. This doesn't mean that it cannot be hugely arousing (orgasmic, even) to do other things....it's just that what the clit loves is very direct stimulation.
 

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That very much makes sense, Batwoman. The clit should first be swelling, before it would be able to feel be tense enough or anchored into the fascia to feel indirect stimulation. That is why I think best penetration happens after foreplay, whatever that may be. 80% clitoral arousal on most women would probably be ideal, before penetration, because if the clit is too swollen or ready to blow, then it's not as pleasurable. It is my belief that if penetration starts on 80% clitoral arousal, there is no decline in arousal.

If a woman is talented enough for achieving orgasm she could get her self off just by doing the right things and simply gyrating her hips once the right amount of swelling is achieved, even without any manual or other direct stimulation. If she trained with jade eggs before, it would probably help her achieve this task.

Also, the clit is not just what we see, it is inside, as well, and that swelling inside, is what leads to a more expansive sensation. But I love tasting clit, so I'm not going to complain about direct stimulation.
 

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That's a great video.
 

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I'm bumping this and giving it a sticky since I keep getting lots of questions about G-spots.....
 

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its very hard to find the g spot and it can only be achieved through the experience and rabbit vibrator is really helpful in that...
 

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I agree about the rabbit. I learned a lot about my G-spot playing with one!
 

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It's not hard to find at all. The thing is knowing what you're looking for and where to look.
 

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Well, I was never sure that G-spots were really real when I was younger, which made it hard to be inspired about looking for it. But once I discovered mine and KNEW it was real, well, that changed everything! Suddenly I was much more interested in exploration and investigation of what my G-spot could do.....
 

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Wow! What I am becoming aware of in recent weeks.
My thanks to PEGym and helpful contributers.

Being a newbie to exercises and these forums (greatly different from my
being "numero uno" in a usenet newsgroup some years ago). Tonight I was
trying to relocate the over 40 forum where I was lurking on the weekend.
Came in here because "A Woman's Perspective" adds warmth and enlightenment
to PEGym, IMHO (in my humble opinion).

I had seen your Avatar in over 40 and again here. Thanks for your comment,
it is incredibly enjoyable from my perspective also. Another thanks for
your link to Female Sexual arousal and Orgasm.
I have chosen to quote the closing remarks because I think it may be help
to men as well as women.

"In the past we ignored female orgasm, today we perhaps place too much
emphasis on it. It is important for women to realize this is a social
problem, not a personal one. No woman is going to have an orgasm every time
she engages in partner sex or masturbation. This is just the way it is.
Making orgasm the sole goal of sex can actually make sex less enjoyable,
and possibly boring, if not extremely frustrating. If you want to
experience intense and prolonged sexual pleasure, try not having an
orgasm".

Thanks to Glamour Magazine and the-clitoris.com.
It is great to be alive and learning things that were unspoken in my
younger years.

Holy Smokes, there are far too many threads for me to understand where I am
posting a message.
Please bear with me. I am "old school", a well veresed veteran of usenet.
My regrets Batwoman, I did not realize that there are an additional seven
pages of posts within this thread.
Your replies and comments are numerous and informative.
Although I have not a clue what "bump to sticky" encompasses, I do
recognize the amount of inter-activity may have prompted you to take a step
back from the involvement.

I am in accordance with "Older Guy" and greatly appreciate his links to
informative videos.

With regard to a female's feeling the "need to piss" when she is sexually
aroused, near the point of climax:
Perhaps she may "let the waters flow" by pushing outward.
Two reasonably priced books I acquired from Amazon:
"Make Her Squirt" ("down and dirty")
"Female Ejaculation" (rather refined)
address this exquisite phenomena.

In the 1980's and 1990's I enjoyed an out of state lover who was always
wet, if not very wet in my company. I regarded this as physical chemistry.
She is a squirter. We never spoke of this :(
I did not know of this term at that time.
I know of it now, and look forward to new adventures :)

I know not if this context is inappropriate for these forums.
I do regard that your status as Super Moderator, time permitting,
you may inform me.

Best regards to all,
Thin Man

Now back to my search for "The Well Experienced Geezers" forum.
 
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Welcome to the board, Thin Man! This is the fun kind of research.
 

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Gspots are real, so are clits, boobs, balls, and penises, etc. What is a myth is that people have sex at all! Sex is just our imagination, so all the times you thought you had sex, you were just dreaming! :crazy:

Hahaha, give me a break narcissism. Just because a bunch of snobby British scientist can't find a G-spot only means they do not know what they are looking for, so how could they find it. Scientists make lots of mistakes. Since I learned about Gspots years ago, I have not had sex with a woman who did not have a Gspot and who did not turn into a raving mad sexual animal once her Gspot was properly stimulated."Oh God that feels so good," "What are you doing to me," "I have never felt this way," are common responses when you introduce a woman to her Gspot.

Master the Gspot, you master sex. And mastering the Gspot is easy, just touch it and play with it in your fingers, then find it with you dick head during intercourse. Shower it with attention and she will love you for it!!
 

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Science tells you its 2-3 inches into the vagina on the upper wall, but easier said then done. Just feel around, I guarantee you'll know when you've found it!
 

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Its true, its real, and wow does it give a man brownie points with his lady if and when he "finds" it!
 

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^^ oh yes it does... haha
 

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Has anyone ever given a woman an full body orgasm? You know, the involuntary muscle spasms all over the body?

I've been reading a bit about it on some Tantric sites and it sounds pretty cool. Apparently there's a lot of prep work concerned with lowering stress levels, involving massaging etc. All sounds pretty good.