Hey everyone,
I used to have an account here (mike cares) but asked them to close it because this forum was causing me a lot of stress. But I wanted to make this account to shed some light and hope for everyone. However, over the last week and few days, I've come to a big realization that hard flaccid (this is assuming you only have hard flaccid) is not as bad or tragic as we all make it to seem.
I broke it down all logically and realized we can all have healthy sex lives despite what we think. After resting with hard flaccid 6-7 full weeks in an attempt to get better, I found my arousal with girls was coming a lot easier and that my erections were actually quite rock hard and strong (yes, the shaft feels weird, but it still works). Why was this happening? Probably because I haven't ejaculated in weeks and because I stopped watching porn --> all my sexual energy was going into real life women. My erections with girls were super strong but I abstained from sex just to see if I would get better. Finally, after 6-7 weeks, I said fuck it and started having sex. The first two times, I cummed in under a minute. However, the 3rd time, I lasted 4 minutes and then the 2nd time I went again and lasted 20 minutes! I even made her cum. Yeah, my dick shrivelled up into HF after, but so what? It pretty much loosened up 2 days and went back to what it was before that. So, i decided, I can either sit around and be depressed for months and years, or I can have sex with women the best I can and cut out all porn and masturbation so that all my sexual energy goes into a real life women (hence why my erections have been so strong). Yes, sometimes the head doesn't fill up in my nocturnal and morning erections, but with girls, its pretty much 100% erect (THIS IS ALL THAT MATTERS AT THE END OF THE DAY!) On top of that, I got a low dose 2.5 mg cialis that I tried 1-2 times last week and it worked great as well. I'm going to use this as an adjunctive, which I see no problems with. We all drink caffeine everyday, so its no difference in terms of a drug. Just don't abuse it like crazy.
So I'm having a normal sex life, doing all the normal sex positions (except girl on top of me yet because I think that would be weirder on my dick), lasting a good amount of time in bed....why then do so many people with HF panic like crazy? IMO its because many of them cannot get a great erection manually or for porn/masturbation purposes, and thus they go ape-sh*t thinking there dick is fucked. But porn/consistent mastubation is not the same as having sex with girls. If many of you relaxed and only had sex instead of mastubating/watching porn, you would have great erections and would able to have sex.
Anyways, after coming to this realizing and seeing that a small low-dose cialis can be helpful in times where you are freaking out, my anxiety about my HF has gone from 8-9/10 to a 2/10. Yes, its not 100% the same, but I see it as a new way of living and I can still enjoy women and have sex all the time (maybe not 2-3 times a day, but I'm not that horny anyways - 3-4 times a week is more then enough for me). I honestly have stopped giving a sh*t about my HF and if its there my whole life - who cares because I know I can still have quality sex. Once, everyone realizes this, I think they will live life in much greater peace. And if I have to take some small low-dose cialias a few times a week, who cares? Because in actuality, if you cut out all the internet porn and constant masturbation, the only difference between a hard flaccid dick and a normal dick is one feels tough at rest and morning/night erections may not fill up to 100%. But in terms of girls, it should be 100% erect.
Peace fellas
PS. your hands and mouth will make a women cum much easier then your dick
I used to have an account here (mike cares) but asked them to close it because this forum was causing me a lot of stress. But I wanted to make this account to shed some light and hope for everyone. However, over the last week and few days, I've come to a big realization that hard flaccid (this is assuming you only have hard flaccid) is not as bad or tragic as we all make it to seem.
I broke it down all logically and realized we can all have healthy sex lives despite what we think. After resting with hard flaccid 6-7 full weeks in an attempt to get better, I found my arousal with girls was coming a lot easier and that my erections were actually quite rock hard and strong (yes, the shaft feels weird, but it still works). Why was this happening? Probably because I haven't ejaculated in weeks and because I stopped watching porn --> all my sexual energy was going into real life women. My erections with girls were super strong but I abstained from sex just to see if I would get better. Finally, after 6-7 weeks, I said fuck it and started having sex. The first two times, I cummed in under a minute. However, the 3rd time, I lasted 4 minutes and then the 2nd time I went again and lasted 20 minutes! I even made her cum. Yeah, my dick shrivelled up into HF after, but so what? It pretty much loosened up 2 days and went back to what it was before that. So, i decided, I can either sit around and be depressed for months and years, or I can have sex with women the best I can and cut out all porn and masturbation so that all my sexual energy goes into a real life women (hence why my erections have been so strong). Yes, sometimes the head doesn't fill up in my nocturnal and morning erections, but with girls, its pretty much 100% erect (THIS IS ALL THAT MATTERS AT THE END OF THE DAY!) On top of that, I got a low dose 2.5 mg cialis that I tried 1-2 times last week and it worked great as well. I'm going to use this as an adjunctive, which I see no problems with. We all drink caffeine everyday, so its no difference in terms of a drug. Just don't abuse it like crazy.
So I'm having a normal sex life, doing all the normal sex positions (except girl on top of me yet because I think that would be weirder on my dick), lasting a good amount of time in bed....why then do so many people with HF panic like crazy? IMO its because many of them cannot get a great erection manually or for porn/masturbation purposes, and thus they go ape-sh*t thinking there dick is fucked. But porn/consistent mastubation is not the same as having sex with girls. If many of you relaxed and only had sex instead of mastubating/watching porn, you would have great erections and would able to have sex.
Anyways, after coming to this realizing and seeing that a small low-dose cialis can be helpful in times where you are freaking out, my anxiety about my HF has gone from 8-9/10 to a 2/10. Yes, its not 100% the same, but I see it as a new way of living and I can still enjoy women and have sex all the time (maybe not 2-3 times a day, but I'm not that horny anyways - 3-4 times a week is more then enough for me). I honestly have stopped giving a sh*t about my HF and if its there my whole life - who cares because I know I can still have quality sex. Once, everyone realizes this, I think they will live life in much greater peace. And if I have to take some small low-dose cialias a few times a week, who cares? Because in actuality, if you cut out all the internet porn and constant masturbation, the only difference between a hard flaccid dick and a normal dick is one feels tough at rest and morning/night erections may not fill up to 100%. But in terms of girls, it should be 100% erect.
Peace fellas
PS. your hands and mouth will make a women cum much easier then your dick
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