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Been posting before about feeling demotivated and not making any progress. I got pushed in the right direction and trusted that it would get better. So far I did edging (progessively) , stretches and some reverse kegels a couple of times a week. I was always busy focusing on arousal and keeping my PC muscles relaxed. I recently started byggds routine, although I cannot "workout" everyday.
My edging got better, arousal rating got better, when not super aroused I can somewhat keep pc muscles relaxed, butttt...
After 3 months.. whenever I have sex with my girl I get hard right away, I dont know how to "snap out" of my high arousal level and I sure cant relax my pelvis when do aroused. It tightens up so hard.
I dont know what to do anymore. I actually dont know what my problem really is. I guessed overarousal, tight pelvis and anxiety, but I cant seem to conquer it. I really feel down alot lately.. For me, my sex life is totally ruined, my girl says she is okay, but still. I cannot enjoy sex the way I want to and I really start to believe Im uncureable. Should I start over all again? And what should I do? Im about to just go to the doctor and pop some pills instead of doing it the natural way.
Please help me!
My edging got better, arousal rating got better, when not super aroused I can somewhat keep pc muscles relaxed, butttt...
After 3 months.. whenever I have sex with my girl I get hard right away, I dont know how to "snap out" of my high arousal level and I sure cant relax my pelvis when do aroused. It tightens up so hard.
I dont know what to do anymore. I actually dont know what my problem really is. I guessed overarousal, tight pelvis and anxiety, but I cant seem to conquer it. I really feel down alot lately.. For me, my sex life is totally ruined, my girl says she is okay, but still. I cannot enjoy sex the way I want to and I really start to believe Im uncureable. Should I start over all again? And what should I do? Im about to just go to the doctor and pop some pills instead of doing it the natural way.
Please help me!