This is for the smaller guys or the guys that was just insecure about their penis size. I was wondering what event or situation that happened to make you realize this is my penis and I need to be proud of it ? What actually made this click in your mind for this to happen ? Im just curious to find out of how that happened or came about. Unfortunately Im not proud of my size but one day hopefully I can.
For the guys that was insecure about their size
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When the wife said I am the only one who's ever made her orgasm. That was it for me. It is and always will be just about the penis health for me. Any type of gains are welcome, but I'm confident enough with what I've got.
When you realize that women don't really care. They care about kindness, fun, compassion, intelligent, hard working, you know all that stuff that really isn't as important as your dick!
I felt insecure after experiencing not getting it up and having a tiny flaccid the same time. But now I am comfortable/happy with it when my EQ is good.
When I knew my gf at the time had an ex that was huge, one night after an intense session she just laid there staring at the ceiling and said "i've never cum that many times in my entire life".
That was pretty sweet.
That was pretty sweet.
1) When I realized mainstream porn was a gross misconception of reality and scientific study of actual penis size and averages.
2) When I realized that women lack spatial estimation skills and almost always overestimate the size of their partners.
Those were the two main factors. For some reason, I was never convinced (and am still not really convinced) that penis size didn't matter to women.
2) When I realized that women lack spatial estimation skills and almost always overestimate the size of their partners.
Those were the two main factors. For some reason, I was never convinced (and am still not really convinced) that penis size didn't matter to women.
An interesting thread on Measurection.com regarding a women's view on penis size:
07-26-04 01:19 PM - Post#138490
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Some things men may not know about women's bodies and female sexuality:
First off, less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. A few women can't orgasm at all, but the majority of women can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. This means they can only orgasm from manual stimulation of their clitoris or oral sex. They don't orgasm during penetration. For more than half of all women, their orgasmic ability has absolutely nothing to do with a man's penis size. (As an aside, there is one position, the coital alignment technique, that may work for a clitorally orgasmic woman to orgasm during sex by grinding her clit into the man's pubic bone).
Of the women who can have vaginal orgasms, these women can generally have two kinds--the cul de sac orgasm or the g-spot orgasm. The cul de sac is up behind the cervix. In some women this can be reached with a five-inch penis. Others due to simple genetics may have a deeper vagina and it may take more length to reach the same spot. Because the cul de sac is up behind the cervix, the cervix will be rubbed by the penis if a man is stimulating that spot. Many, many women find cervical bumping painful and something to be avoided. For these women men with a shorter length are in high demand.
Most women who are able to have cul de sac orgasms are also able to have g-spot orgasms. The g-spot is typically only a couple inches in on the front wall of the vagina, easily reachable by most penises. One drawback to g-spot stimulation--women rarely complain of pain but they do feel uncomfortable because oftentimes stimulation of this spot makes a woman feel like she has to urinate. This is because g-spot stimulation can produce female ejaculation, which comes out of the urethra. Here's a link to more information on female ejaculation and the g-spot:
Female Ejaculation, The G-Spot, & Female Prostate Glands | The-Clitoris.com
In other words, when it comes to length, almost all men on this site can give a vaginally orgasmic woman a vaginal orgasm.
Regarding girth, while some women enjoy the "stretched like a water balloon" feeling, this is not the general case. If anything, a large girth can cause problems during sex, causing painful friction. Men with a small girth may be concerned because they do not feel the vagina around their penis; it feels too loose. While men cannot increase their girth, it is relatively easy for women to make themselves much tighter by exercising their PC muscles. Kegels may help initially, but to get really strong PC muscle tone, a woman needs a resistance exercise device of some kind. I recommend a product called Gyneflex. The stronger the PC muscles, the stronger the vaginal orgasms (and the tighter the sex). The strong vaginal orgasms are not caused simply because the muscle tone makes it a tight fit--instead having strong muscle tone all alone helps women to have stronger vaginal orgasms--some women with very strong PC muscles can easily have vaginal orgasms by flexing their muscles, with nothing inside their vaginas at all.
So again, girth is not a prerequisite to give a woman vaginal orgasms. It's the tapping sensation, not the stretched to bursting sensation that triggers vaginal orgasms. If you hit the right spot you will be successful.
Men sometimes find these facts hard to believe. Sexual reality is not portrayed in porn and in male-oriented sex shops. In porn you almost never see women having typical clitoral orgasms. Women generally need at least five to ten minutes of direct and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the typical woman is shown having multiple vaginal orgasms solely from penetration that take mere seconds. While it is true such rare women do exist, their abilities are innate and have very, very little to do with the size of their partner's penis. As mentioned above, such women who can vaginally orgasm in seconds can usually do so simply by flexing their muscles. The typical woman reacts sexually very differently than the women in porn movies pretend to act. Because almost all men in porn are enormous, this can make men think, "My woman is not having fast multiple vaginal orgasms--this must be because I'm not big enough to give them to her."
Also women may have low desire and orgasmic response because of a chemical imbalance in testosterone and/or dopamine levels. For some reason instead of looking for a physiological cause, many men attribute their partner's lack of interest in sex to their own feelings of size inadequacy. Two excellent websites on treating female sexual dysfunction (FSD) are
newshe.com
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Also most men's sex shops sell sex toys that while ostensibly for women are really all about men's tastes. This is easily seen by comparing the sorts of products available at typical online sex toy stores and popular online sex toy stores that actually do sell their product to women. Almost every sex toy site says it's all about women and their pleasure, but usually it's obvious by the product who is doing the actual buying. When men buy sex toys for their wives and girlfriends, they go for the anatomically correct and enormous. Women buying for themselves have a very different approach. The average size for dildos on female-friendly sites like goodvibes, babeland, and womynsware is six inches and between an inch and a quarter and an inch and a half in diameter. When you consider that the tendency is to overbuy on dildo size, since it doesn't matter if all the length goes in, this number is even a little high. Most tellingly, the Rabbit Pearl, one of the most popular sex toys among women, which requires the entire length to be inserted so that full clitoral contact is made, is only five inches along the part of the shaft that penetrates. Women buying for themselves buy much smaller and shorter than men buying for them.
07-26-04 01:19 PM - Post#138490
Post Rank: 60%
Some things men may not know about women's bodies and female sexuality:
First off, less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. A few women can't orgasm at all, but the majority of women can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. This means they can only orgasm from manual stimulation of their clitoris or oral sex. They don't orgasm during penetration. For more than half of all women, their orgasmic ability has absolutely nothing to do with a man's penis size. (As an aside, there is one position, the coital alignment technique, that may work for a clitorally orgasmic woman to orgasm during sex by grinding her clit into the man's pubic bone).
Of the women who can have vaginal orgasms, these women can generally have two kinds--the cul de sac orgasm or the g-spot orgasm. The cul de sac is up behind the cervix. In some women this can be reached with a five-inch penis. Others due to simple genetics may have a deeper vagina and it may take more length to reach the same spot. Because the cul de sac is up behind the cervix, the cervix will be rubbed by the penis if a man is stimulating that spot. Many, many women find cervical bumping painful and something to be avoided. For these women men with a shorter length are in high demand.
Most women who are able to have cul de sac orgasms are also able to have g-spot orgasms. The g-spot is typically only a couple inches in on the front wall of the vagina, easily reachable by most penises. One drawback to g-spot stimulation--women rarely complain of pain but they do feel uncomfortable because oftentimes stimulation of this spot makes a woman feel like she has to urinate. This is because g-spot stimulation can produce female ejaculation, which comes out of the urethra. Here's a link to more information on female ejaculation and the g-spot:
Female Ejaculation, The G-Spot, & Female Prostate Glands | The-Clitoris.com
In other words, when it comes to length, almost all men on this site can give a vaginally orgasmic woman a vaginal orgasm.
Regarding girth, while some women enjoy the "stretched like a water balloon" feeling, this is not the general case. If anything, a large girth can cause problems during sex, causing painful friction. Men with a small girth may be concerned because they do not feel the vagina around their penis; it feels too loose. While men cannot increase their girth, it is relatively easy for women to make themselves much tighter by exercising their PC muscles. Kegels may help initially, but to get really strong PC muscle tone, a woman needs a resistance exercise device of some kind. I recommend a product called Gyneflex. The stronger the PC muscles, the stronger the vaginal orgasms (and the tighter the sex). The strong vaginal orgasms are not caused simply because the muscle tone makes it a tight fit--instead having strong muscle tone all alone helps women to have stronger vaginal orgasms--some women with very strong PC muscles can easily have vaginal orgasms by flexing their muscles, with nothing inside their vaginas at all.
So again, girth is not a prerequisite to give a woman vaginal orgasms. It's the tapping sensation, not the stretched to bursting sensation that triggers vaginal orgasms. If you hit the right spot you will be successful.
Men sometimes find these facts hard to believe. Sexual reality is not portrayed in porn and in male-oriented sex shops. In porn you almost never see women having typical clitoral orgasms. Women generally need at least five to ten minutes of direct and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the typical woman is shown having multiple vaginal orgasms solely from penetration that take mere seconds. While it is true such rare women do exist, their abilities are innate and have very, very little to do with the size of their partner's penis. As mentioned above, such women who can vaginally orgasm in seconds can usually do so simply by flexing their muscles. The typical woman reacts sexually very differently than the women in porn movies pretend to act. Because almost all men in porn are enormous, this can make men think, "My woman is not having fast multiple vaginal orgasms--this must be because I'm not big enough to give them to her."
Also women may have low desire and orgasmic response because of a chemical imbalance in testosterone and/or dopamine levels. For some reason instead of looking for a physiological cause, many men attribute their partner's lack of interest in sex to their own feelings of size inadequacy. Two excellent websites on treating female sexual dysfunction (FSD) are
newshe.com
?????????????????????????????
Also most men's sex shops sell sex toys that while ostensibly for women are really all about men's tastes. This is easily seen by comparing the sorts of products available at typical online sex toy stores and popular online sex toy stores that actually do sell their product to women. Almost every sex toy site says it's all about women and their pleasure, but usually it's obvious by the product who is doing the actual buying. When men buy sex toys for their wives and girlfriends, they go for the anatomically correct and enormous. Women buying for themselves have a very different approach. The average size for dildos on female-friendly sites like goodvibes, babeland, and womynsware is six inches and between an inch and a quarter and an inch and a half in diameter. When you consider that the tendency is to overbuy on dildo size, since it doesn't matter if all the length goes in, this number is even a little high. Most tellingly, the Rabbit Pearl, one of the most popular sex toys among women, which requires the entire length to be inserted so that full clitoral contact is made, is only five inches along the part of the shaft that penetrates. Women buying for themselves buy much smaller and shorter than men buying for them.
