You get too excited and then POOF!; this happens to me when I watch porn. I've switched to ebony lesbian porn, because you don't run into the psychology of penis envy or penis something(I forget the term) lol. I hope this helps!
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You get too excited and then POOF!; this happens to me when I watch porn. I've switched to ebony lesbian porn, because you don't run into the psychology of penis envy or penis something(I forget the term) lol. I hope this helps!
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If you are squeezing the base of your penis to stifle ejaculation this is very bad.
You could rupture your Vas Deferns tubes, or some other part of your reproductive system.
Listen to MrB8.
You could rupture your Vas Deferns tubes, or some other part of your reproductive system.
Listen to MrB8.
Hi, I just started edging 2 days ago.
First day I managed to edge for 15min watching Nat Geo and reading this thread. The PONR came but was manageable.
Today I was edging purely just reading forums and aft 6min the PONR kept coming back even with rest. A few strokes will make me reach PONR. I had to stop edging.
Should I continue tomorrow or making the rest interval longer? I'm planning to ejaculate on 3rd day.
First day I managed to edge for 15min watching Nat Geo and reading this thread. The PONR came but was manageable.
Today I was edging purely just reading forums and aft 6min the PONR kept coming back even with rest. A few strokes will make me reach PONR. I had to stop edging.
Should I continue tomorrow or making the rest interval longer? I'm planning to ejaculate on 3rd day.
I have a couple questions about edging that i've been wanting to ask for a while.
1. How quickly should i stroke when edging, as in how many strokes per second?
2. When should i start stroking the whole shaft, once i have a dry orgasm or when i can keep stroking slowly for 20 minutes without reaching the PONR?
3. Should i use my whole fist or should i use less (like a 2 or 3 finger grip), because i feel like i can't stroke very far without reaching the frenulum, and i'm not getting much stimulation from this.
1. How quickly should i stroke when edging, as in how many strokes per second?
2. When should i start stroking the whole shaft, once i have a dry orgasm or when i can keep stroking slowly for 20 minutes without reaching the PONR?
3. Should i use my whole fist or should i use less (like a 2 or 3 finger grip), because i feel like i can't stroke very far without reaching the frenulum, and i'm not getting much stimulation from this.
I just tried this. Was able to base edge for more than 20 minutes, but my EQ was only 6/10 most of the time.
I'd start to lose the erection if I didn't occasionally touch the glans/frenulum.
How can I do this to combat ED?
I'd start to lose the erection if I didn't occasionally touch the glans/frenulum.
How can I do this to combat ED?
i have a doubt regarding edging.
In endging we need to stop right before we cum.m doin it n then i stop for 10-20 sec but wen i start again the cuming stage comes very fast that is in few sec.so i do it for 5 sec wait for 15 sec then repeat. is this normal?
In endging we need to stop right before we cum.m doin it n then i stop for 10-20 sec but wen i start again the cuming stage comes very fast that is in few sec.so i do it for 5 sec wait for 15 sec then repeat. is this normal?
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It takes practice and time to retrain your brain, keep exercising, you don't need to stop stimulation, maybe just move to the shaft instead of just the glans.
Reverse kegels, deep squats and https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/45181-pelvic-floor-yoga.html would also help.
And you may find the following thread informative.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/68863-edging-premature-ejaculation.html
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Listen to B8! A good trick is definitely to edge a different part of your penis I have found. I used to edge years ago but am a newbie to it again and there is a definite case of trial-and-error with it. Just keep practice practice practice! Stop-and-start technique is incredibly challenging but you will get better at it with time. When you feel like you are going to cum, stop and let it subside for a while and start again. You will build up a tolerance and experience with it the more you do it
It takes practice and time to retrain your brain, keep exercising, you don't need to stop stimulation, maybe just move to the shaft instead of just the glans.
Reverse kegels, deep squats and https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/45181-pelvic-floor-yoga.html would also help.
And you may find the following thread informative.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/68863-edging-premature-ejaculation.html
Thanks n how often do i need to do it?
So m starting with kegel,reverse kegel and edging.
am i good ?
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Yes.
If you can edge two to three times a week, maybe increase that as your training progresses, and don't get discouraged if you don't excel from the beginning.
Ok! So I didn't quite some scanning through this massive thread and came to a conclusion for myself.
- Start at your base and make strokes up on the shaft but do not go for the frenulum.
- When you are a newbie use the stop and go technique, Go, PONR stop. Go, PONR stop.
- When advanced or conditioned u can start using kegels or reversed kegels or… to get back from PONR.
- When advanced you want to stay as close as possible near PONR.
- With enough practice your PONR become dry ejaculations and you don't need to stop stimulation (perhaps slow it down)
So… is this the proper understanding or did I get things twisted? Thanks!
- Start at your base and make strokes up on the shaft but do not go for the frenulum.
- When you are a newbie use the stop and go technique, Go, PONR stop. Go, PONR stop.
- When advanced or conditioned u can start using kegels or reversed kegels or… to get back from PONR.
- When advanced you want to stay as close as possible near PONR.
- With enough practice your PONR become dry ejaculations and you don't need to stop stimulation (perhaps slow it down)
So… is this the proper understanding or did I get things twisted? Thanks!
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So wait, edging is different from masturbating? You say, like if I feel emission coming from my testicles to the shaft, I should stop from reaching the shaft or?
How do you exactly edge? And is the G spot the spot on your balls that is filled with cum?
How do you exactly edge? And is the G spot the spot on your balls that is filled with cum?
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The basic form of edging is that you stimulate your penis until you are close to the PONR, then stop stimulation or switch focus to the shaft until the urge subsides then you resume then repeat.
With practice you will be able to gauge your arousal levels and how close you are to ejaculate, so you will be able to time a reverse kegel long before the ponr to avoid it, and with more practice you can learn more advanced techniques, but first you must familiarize yourself with the basic start/stop technique.
When is the best time to do Edging? Should I do it at the end of jelqing session or do it at a separate time?
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After jelqing and before warmdown as Big Al recommends, two to three times a week is enough.
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Thank you so much MrB8.
By the way you worded it, Edging is like 'feigning cumming' Should I would usually stroke my penis, like I would do in masturbation, but if I feel I am about to cum, I just stop the stimulation. Then when I am back to normal level, I would do it again? I am still just a little confused. What is PONR? And when you mention "switch focus to the shaft," what would I do exactly?
By the way you worded it, Edging is like 'feigning cumming' Should I would usually stroke my penis, like I would do in masturbation, but if I feel I am about to cum, I just stop the stimulation. Then when I am back to normal level, I would do it again? I am still just a little confused. What is PONR? And when you mention "switch focus to the shaft," what would I do exactly?
