Edging 101

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Just came here to get a possible answer. Recently i made a thread on my edging difficulties on the ED forums saying that i can edge for a long amount of time (35min to 1h without getting to the ponr not even once), and from the comments that i read saying that i dont have premature ejaculation, although when i mastubate, i ejaculate really quickly. It's not that i want pre-e, i'm just confused of all this. Any ideas?
 

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Is there a significant difference between what you do when you edge vs when you simply masturbate?
 

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Work on edging stimulating the entire penis, just as if you were masturbating then. Use the start and stop method to bring your physical arousal level down after getting close to PONR.

I've been trying to increase edging time (using that method) and to also extend the time I'm erect without stimulation, so I've started to edge until I'm completely hard and fairly aroused and then (before getting to PONR) stop until my erection level lowers.
 

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Nice! will do the next time i edge. but do you think it's a case that i have premature ejaculation?
 

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It's possible if you can't hold off ejaculation while masturbating, as your frenulum and glans are stimulated during sex.
 

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Great post!
I have edged before and I do so with lube. Is it ok to edge for 20+ minutes without lube? Isn't the lube just to make your strokes smoother? The point of edging(I believe) is to reach ponr stop and continue to increase stamima. What does lube have anything to do with increasing stamina? I dont have a lot of privacy my room is in between my sisters and the living room so family comes in n out and at night everything seems to be louder even my strokes and the sound of the lube lol. Serious question though is it ok or not ok to edge without lube. Thanks
 

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No lube is ok.
 

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Personally, I find lubes to be over-stimulating, so I don't use lube when I'm edging... But, if I precum a lot, I make use of it.
 

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why isn´t recommended edging watching porn??
ty guys!
 

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Great post!
I have edged before and I do so with lube. Is it ok to edge for 20+ minutes without lube? Isn't the lube just to make your strokes smoother? The point of edging(I believe) is to reach ponr stop and continue to increase stamima. What does lube have anything to do with increasing stamina? I dont have a lot of privacy my room is in between my sisters and the living room so family comes in n out and at night everything seems to be louder even my strokes and the sound of the lube lol. Serious question though is it ok or not ok to edge without lube. Thanks

No, the point of edging is to NOT reach PONR, it is to approach PONR gradually, and to hover near it for as long as you are able without going over the edge, using arousal control techniques, regular and reverse kegels at the appropriate times, changing of your grip and method ie. moving from frenulum to shaft, ballooning on the glans at your specific trigger sites, etc etc etc
 

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just had 1 big orgasm and then 2 mini ones afterwards, still hard, i think this means progress thanks to the guide.
 

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could not read the whole thread, I have a simple question, I manage to cut away from the ponr holding the base of my shaft, is this technique ok?
thanks!
 

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could not read the whole thread, I have a simple question, I manage to cut away from the ponr holding the base of my shaft, is this technique ok?
thanks!

No you are not supposed to squeeze with your hands. :)
 

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ok, I must do it with my pc muscles. Will try it!!! :p
 

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