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This may sound absolutely disgusting but I was just thinking - if women like their 'deep spot' being stimulated and like large penises reaching their deep spots, would they actually like fisting? I know it is very 'porn-like' but do women actually enjoy it and can it actually get your aroused and 'get you off'?
 

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Totally depends on the woman.
Some will like it, others wont.
This is only speculation, but many who might possibly enjoy it would not admit (even to themselves) that they would because of social stigma. Even if the social stigma was completely removed I think the majority of women would not seek it out, but who knows.
Fisting is typically done because the man wants to, not because the woman. That doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy it, it just means that the original desire came from the man in most cases.
 

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This may sound absolutely disgusting but I was just thinking - if women like their 'deep spot' being stimulated and like large penises reaching their deep spots, would they actually like fisting? I know it is very 'porn-like' but do women actually enjoy it and can it actually get your aroused and 'get you off'?

I am not a woman, so I cannot tell you if they like it or not. I would guess an astounding "NO" they don't like it. But with all that aside, I would never ever fist my wife, even if she begged for it. I like her pussy little and tight. I also like to feel her stretch when I enter her. Why would I want to turn her pussy into a "wizard's sleeve"? No thanks. I personally feel fisting is just another example of how porn fucks-up guy's minds as to what sex is and what women like.
 
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Zero desire for fisting. Absolutely none! No way in hell!

I agree with draggin... just another example of how the porn industry has corrupted the mindset of society about sexual desires.
 

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You bet they would all love it, women all want their lover to be their own little superheroes.

And tonight babe, I'm gonna be your... SUPERMAAAN!

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Damn it! I should have tried this on 1 of those ho's before I got married.
 

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The act of “fisting” either the vagina or the anus is classified as kink and more specifically, “Edge Play”. As I do not watch porn, the first time I heard about “fisting” was from a group of lesbians I know. Some admitted to enjoying their partner’s fist inside their vagina – but that kind of fisting was being done by women to women and most women have significantly smaller fists than men. Let’s be honest, a fist the size of a man’s could take a potentially pleasurable experience and turn it into something like childbirth in reverse...OUCHY!!

Fisting is certainly not for everyone - in fact, it’s not even possible for everyone. There is so much preparation required that there are entire "how-to" books dedicated to it. In other words, you really, really, really need to know what the heck you’re doing to avoid injury.

I enjoy a little pain with my pleasure on occasion but this sex act is well beyond my comfort zone…no thank you.
 

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The answer from me Hell No! I am into KINK but that's not on my repertoire to even try but as other have pointed out there are women that do like it ad actually seek it not because of their man but because they really enjoy it. For me is not something I ever want to even try, I like my Vaj Jay Jay just the way it is.
 

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But darling, I will not hurt you like all those other men ... My hands are really, really small, see.

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And besides, I am not a man at all but your Supremely Exalted Leader and now Ascended Love God!

EDIT: why did the picture of the Great Love God leave our presence! I am distraught!
 
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So I think the general consensus is that while some might like it, the majority of women would not be into it.

A very common misconception is that sticking something large in a vagina will make it loose.
People have babies and are still able to please and be pleased by a normal dick.
Fisting does not make a vagina loose. Poor muscle tone makes a vagina loose.
 

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WantGirths, while I agree with you about the muscle tone on some aspects, you've got to understand that childbirth is a remarkable act that transforms a woman's body over the course of her labor and for the most part, her body returns to normal state.

I haven't done the fisting thing, not interested in it at all, but my thinking is, you have to work up to it and for a fist to fit into a vagina, the vagina has to over time, loosen up to accommodate. Maybe I'm wrong in my logic with the looseness thing, but it's not one I'm going to experiment with and verify my thinking. Hell, I'm crossing my legs right now just thinking about it....ouch!
 

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I am not a woman, so I cannot tell you if they like it or not. I would guess an astounding "NO" they don't like it. But with all that aside, I would never ever fist my wife, even if she begged for it. I like her pussy little and tight. I also like to feel her stretch when I enter her. Why would I want to turn her pussy into a "wizard's sleeve"? No thanks. I personally feel fisting is just another example of how porn fucks-up guy's minds as to what sex is and what women like.

"wizard's sleeve"...........now THAT is an image..............

Personally, I think it's a vile part of sex and I don't understand the passion behind it. I also thought fisting was done up the ass and not the vagina??? Maybe I'm wrong in this.
 

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I have to apologize in advance to the feint of heart. If you get offended easily, now is the best time to move on and accept that ignorance might be your personal bliss...

Fisting in a nutshell
 

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"wizard's sleeve"...........now THAT is an image..............
:eek:
Personally, I think it's a vile part of sex and I don't understand the passion behind it. I also thought fisting was done up the ass and not the vagina??? Maybe I'm wrong in this.
I have no idea why you would assume it would only be done anally...
Obviously it could be done vaginally or anally, just like normal sex.

Every sexual act that turns someone on is vile to someone else. Including regular old sex :eek:

@someone like u-while I cannot speak from personal experience the way I understand it is your vagina (or anus) does have to become more flexible (not loose) to be able to handle fisting, but the vagina is a muscle just like any other muscle. People who are very fit and very flexible don't have loose saggy muscles, quite the opposite actually. They are able to stretch more due to their flexibility, but they are not loose.

If that makes sense.

Loose is lack of muscle tone and lack of ability to grip. Flexibility is ability to stretch.
 

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I have no idea why you would assume it would only be done anally...
Obviously it could be done vaginally or anally, just like normal sex.

Every sexual act that turns someone on is vile to someone else. Including regular old sex :eek:

@someone like u-while I cannot speak from personal experience the way I understand it is your vagina (or anus) does have to become more flexible (not loose) to be able to handle fisting, but the vagina is a muscle just like any other muscle. People who are very fit and very flexible don't have loose saggy muscles, quite the opposite actually. They are able to stretch more due to their flexibility, but they are not loose.

If that makes sense.

Loose is lack of muscle tone and lack of ability to grip. Flexibility is ability to stretch.

Not entirely true. High muscle tone, while not necessarily meaning low flexibility, can limit flexibility. You see this all the time in gymnasts. The splits, and other acts of high flexibility are easier to achieve for those who do not have as much muscle in their pelvic floor and thighs; however, this doesn't mean it cannot be achieved. Flexibility must be built, just like anything else.

Building muscle and building flexibility are mostly two different things.

Fisting is pretty uncommon, but hey, if it tickles your fancy, fancy a fist, I guess.
 
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While I don't fist my wife, when she is extremely aroused I can slide most of my hand inside her vagina. Not as a fist but flat. I then curl my fingers upwards to hit her G-spot, while she uses her vibrator on her clitoris. Nothing kinky or dirty about our act. My wife does have to be really turned on for this to happen, more times then not I simply insert a couple of fingers.
 

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On a similar note, I feel like I'm going TOO FAR if I use two fingers versus just one when something involves a 'fingering". It just seems that it's either too much, painful, or porny,,,,,,or sometimes all of them. I try to keep it too one finger, a tongue and my dorkenheimer! :)