Your penis vs. your wife/gf's dildos

[Going2Grow]

Recently while playing with two dildos both bigger than me my wife told me that she would rather have my cock in her more than either dildo. I believe her, it's happened more than once and she is more than happy to not even use them.

I was wondering how this is compared to other guys experiences?

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[DaddyDick]

I wish that I could vote twice. One vote for pre-PE and post-PE. Before PE she enjoyed the toys more, but now most of her toys are pretty close to the same size. One has a girth advantage on mine of a 1/2 inch, but it is much shorter. post-PE I do not see much of a difference between what myself and the toys.

 

[MrB8]

Of course she prefers your penis, first of all, its a real penis, and its YOURS.

Second of all you have a very decent sized penis and many women find it difficult to accommodate a larger size and enjoy it especially while lacking the intimacy of love making.

However I would like to know, what it is like for those of us who have not been naturally blessed like yourself

 

[bored]

My gf bought a vibrating gizmo. She said it was slightly smaller than me and she didn't enjoy it much.

 

[Looking4more]

We have toys both smaller and bigger. My Mrs by far would rather have me than any toy. Toys are good just to add a little spice to the mix but by no means are a replacement for the real thing. As she tells me, "Mine" which is the name she gave my penis, is attached to me and that is what makes all the difference. Size has no relevance whatsoever.

 

[aBone2pick]

I think 99% of women prefer their man to a piece of rubber.

Would you rather have intercourse with a really tight rubber Vagina that your wife is holding in her hand, or feel her breasts on your chest and her warm, smooth, sexy body underneath you? If you answered yes to the first one, I have no counter argument.

 

[Going2Grow]

Funny how many worry about size then isn't it?

 

[Realman]

Not really everyone has insecurities.

 

[rbi99]

Wife's favorite dildo is the same length as me, it has a little less girth. Bought her one that is actually my size almost exactly (insertable length not full length, and nearly the exact size girth), she doesn't use it because she says it is too big!!! I admit the full length is daunting in deed at nearly 10", but just a little over 7" is insertable.

 

[Going2Grow]

All I am saying is that there are many posts in so many forum threads about how people are concerned about their penis size, yet in this thread we all seem to know that our lady's prefer us to anything else, bigger or smaller. <STRANGE>

I started this thread because of the dude that complained (yes, complained) that his gf did what he asked her to and made a masturbation video and she used a cucumber..... this was point for him to consider.

 

[CaptainJohnson]

I started this thread because of the dude that complained (yes, complained) that his gf did what he asked her to and made a masturbation video and she used a cucumber..... this was point for him to consider.

So he's worried that she liked the cucumber more than his cock?

... I get this feeling she might prefer his penis to whatever she happens to find in her fridge.

 

[aboo]

My wife whould rather have me or my mouth. We do get to use the toys now and then and when we do she has the most wonderfull shaking orgasms. We do a rating after most of or incounters her response is the same. The first orgasm is the best weather it is with a toy or oral the first is always the best. That is why i like to use my shaft the sond. After her first orgasm she titens up times two. Toys make it tighter than oral sand dwhen she lets loose on my shaft for her first it is not as tight as a toy can do. Now the best toy for her is the rabbet it vibs and spins it makes her go nuts and tighten up like crazy. I only last 30 seconds after i get in. So my vote is for the rabbet vib.

 

[GoingForGold]

My gf doesn't have dildos and I'm the only cock she has ever taken so yeah...

 

[MrsLooking4more]

Recently while playing with two dildos both bigger than me my wife told me that she would rather have my cock in her more than either dildo. I believe her, it's happened more than once and she is more than happy to not even use them.

I was wondering how this is compared to other guys experiences?

*Poll will not post your results; please include any comments!

I feel the same as your wife! If the Mr doesn't use them on me, I could not care less for the darn things. My favorite toy is his, there is no comparison. Please don't tell me any man would rather do the Fleshlite or any artificial orifice rather than your partner. It will do if you have to go long without but it will NEVER replace the real thing.

 

[Brenok]

As far as I know, my girlfriend doesn't use a dildo, just a little pocket vibrator for her clit. She's probably got a 10" monster hidden somewhere...

 

[CaptainJohnson]

We have toys both smaller and bigger. My Mrs by far would rather have me than any toy. Toys are good just to add a little spice to the mix but by no means are a replacement for the real thing. As she tells me, "Mine" which is the name she gave my penis, is attached to me and that is what makes all the difference. Size has no relevance whatsoever.

^^ This.

Although my girlfriend and I have yet to dive into dildo shopping. She primarily has vibrators, regular ones and cockring types... we have a collection of stuff. We also have handcuffs, sex tape, etc... you know, the spice.

Honestly though, 3/4ths of the time we forget we even have all this sh*t, because we are too busy making out or having sex.

 

[Gspot]

Although my girlfriend and I have yet to dive into dildo shopping. She primarily has vibrators, regular ones and cockring types... we have a collection of stuff. We also have handcuffs, sex tape, etc... you know, the spice.

Honestly though, 3/4ths of the time we forget we even have all this sh*t, because we are too busy making out or having sex.

Hahahah! Yet again you redden my face in the witching hour. Hum, are you trying to seduce me from afar?? I mean, I am a swinger but I do NOT swing with Captains or on Johnsons! :boom:

^^ Oh those you mean. You know we have the standard large box or three of dildos, vibrators, cuffs, whips, chains, and blow-up dolls, a travel swing, restraint table, porn library of just us (and the neighbors), etc. ... you know all standard fair really. We single handedly kept the store in business for a while there. And we have a hard time fitting most of it into one suitcase when we fly. Hey, TSA person, I do not know how that giant bottle of lube got in their. It should have all been used last night on the iron maiden. I apologize for the oversight. You can keep it if you want, it really works well for someone with your, umm, affliction. Pure hilarity!

Well, Gspot says now that I do not even remember using a sex toy? Long time ago if I did. I remember asking a couple of times but, as you say, we were always too busy gettin' busy. I guess I am all the toy the ladies want, oh yeah

EDIT: I am still laughing at your post CJ

 

[CaptainJohnson]

It's so true. They become an afterthought to spontaneity.

Also, we really want to buy a nice sex chair when we move to a new apartment.

Originally we were in the market for some Liberator furniture, but Mr. & Mrs. L4M turned us on to this amazing tantra chair. It is like a nice reading chaise, but naughty.

The Tantra Sex Chair - Sexual Positions of The Kama Sutra


EDIT: We have wanted a sex swing for a while. Woe is the financial life of a student...

 

[Gspot]

Oh yes, I love those. I want two just for the living area. Always fun when the family comes over and sits in the place you had to clean last night. Couple of those, a swing or two, nice table for discipline. That is decor I can appreciate! You are almost as classy as me. That reminds me, I need to touch-up on Tantra practices, you know, so I am not too potent. I like the please the girls with my overhelmings, not hurt them.

Ohh, hello. They have nice videos! But stylish sex furniture ain't cheep is it.

EDIT: Try grad school drop out. I miss my lavish student lifestyle :/

 

[CaptainJohnson]

Oh yes, I love those. I want two just for the living area. Always fun when the family comes over and sits in the place you had to clean last night. Couple of those, a swing or two, nice table for discipline. That is decor I can appreciate! You are almost as classy as me. That reminds me, I need to touch-up on Tantra practices, you know, so I am not too potent. I like the please the girls with my overhelmings, not hurt them.

Yea, it's all about the collection you can show off as if it were tame. I once found this perfect coffee table that was all cushioned and stuff... one day...

Actually, I have this funny story about this one time my girlfriend decided to clean one of my ties. She put it in the regular washing machine and dryer. To say the least, the tie was destroyed, so I called her over to look at it. She apologized for ruining it, but I told her she wasn't getting off that easy. As "punishment" I blindfolded her with it and restrained her to the bed with tape and the cuffs. It was a fun night. We still have the tie in our "special box". We use it for all sorts of lurid things.

Funnily enough, the box was a container for a Christmas gift from her mom. The top of it reads "Dreams and Wishes", so when we got home, we filled it with just that.