She doesn't want me to PE
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She is probably just playing but I wasn't there so maybe she really is worried. Either way, if you haven't stuck it in, she doesn't know how big it is.
I wouldn't take what she says about PE too seriously.
I wouldn't take what she says about PE too seriously.
Everyone is saying its your body, you can do what you want with it etc, but I'm going to have to disagree with most folks here.
I just think, she isn't telling you, she's asking you, she'd probably worried herself silly over pain and not being able to have sex, not being able to please you through sex etc. Its not as if she's saying you need her permission, which most replies here sound like she has.
Further, people are saying to keep going without telling her, I personally don't agree with lying to her, I just don't think thats good stuff for a relationship. If its a long term thing you have time to stop PE now, wait til you've had sex with her, and see if she becomes more agreeable to the idea of you making yoruself bigger. There's nothing wrong with waiting.
I know if my girlfriend asked me to stop, I'd stop. I'd cement, keep things healthy, work on flaccid stuff, and miss PE and wish I could keep going a little bit, but I'd stop because the increases in size would just be for my ego.
If you're not going to take this advice I'd ask you to work on length work alone, going from 6.5" to 7" length isn't likely to cause any difficulties, but increasing girth is what is going to cause her pain and require slower and more lubricated entrances.
I just think, she isn't telling you, she's asking you, she'd probably worried herself silly over pain and not being able to have sex, not being able to please you through sex etc. Its not as if she's saying you need her permission, which most replies here sound like she has.
Further, people are saying to keep going without telling her, I personally don't agree with lying to her, I just don't think thats good stuff for a relationship. If its a long term thing you have time to stop PE now, wait til you've had sex with her, and see if she becomes more agreeable to the idea of you making yoruself bigger. There's nothing wrong with waiting.
I know if my girlfriend asked me to stop, I'd stop. I'd cement, keep things healthy, work on flaccid stuff, and miss PE and wish I could keep going a little bit, but I'd stop because the increases in size would just be for my ego.
If you're not going to take this advice I'd ask you to work on length work alone, going from 6.5" to 7" length isn't likely to cause any difficulties, but increasing girth is what is going to cause her pain and require slower and more lubricated entrances.
Oh sh*t I thought you said you was LDS and had no sex yet....oops now I see it says "LDR so we haven't had sex yet". in your first post. What is LDR??
I thought you was LDS LMAO My bad bro. (..you're still a lucky SOB though)
i would keep it to myself and continue, if i didn't stop because of girlfriends worrying they cant take it if i grow anymore "naturally". I can only imagine where i would be now, don't break your rhythm it is a difficult thing to find back. Its better to be bigger and do shorter strokes, the same girls i stopped PEing for, i have had sex with them since the break up and since i became larger and they LOVED IT.
Most women don't know what they want or what penis size really is.
Most women don't know what they want or what penis size really is.
If you're a virgin, then I assume you have a moral character instilled by your parents, religion, etc... ? Hardly anyone will tell you this on this site, but virginity (or very little sexual past) and a functioning conscience are two really solid things you can take into a marriage someday. Find a woman who is crazy enthusiastic about you, wants to build a solid family with you, and really goes out of her way to make you happy (and all without sex involved in your relationship... unless you screw up, but then you just try to do it the clean living way with her all over again). In the end you'll have a wife who really loves you (sacrifices for your well being), and who is sexually all over you day one of your marriage and forever on, and who will definitely support you in your PE. Just my, probably, very minority suggestion on this. Worked for me in my own life experience (down to a T of what I just described). The girl you just described (sorry if this pisses you off) sounds like someone who could easily put your balls (and your cock, apparently) in a lock box in a she's-in-charge-relationship that would be hard for you to break away from once your brain rationally realizes that it is time, but your dick says stay because sex has you whipped for more.
The problem is I love her (or am at least in love with her).
I look at sex as simply a physical manifestation of that love. I don't think her response has anything to do with being a control freak or wanting to be in charge. I think she is honestly simply worried about it fitting and being unable to have enjoyable sex. I'm not huge by any means, but just fat loss alone will get me to 7x5.75 at this point which is well above average size.
I think she has some basis for her fears. When she asked why I wanted to do it, I said I wanted it to be the perfect size. She asked for who and I was about to say for "most women." She caught me there.
By trying to achieve the perfect size for "most women", she feels like I am not serious about her and already thinking about things after this relationship.
I look at sex as simply a physical manifestation of that love. I don't think her response has anything to do with being a control freak or wanting to be in charge. I think she is honestly simply worried about it fitting and being unable to have enjoyable sex. I'm not huge by any means, but just fat loss alone will get me to 7x5.75 at this point which is well above average size.
I think she has some basis for her fears. When she asked why I wanted to do it, I said I wanted it to be the perfect size. She asked for who and I was about to say for "most women." She caught me there.
By trying to achieve the perfect size for "most women", she feels like I am not serious about her and already thinking about things after this relationship.
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Saying a women can have a baby is even more ridiculous, so many changes in the body take place for that to happen that the two can not be compared.
I would say do not lie to her, that is a bad start for any relationship, just let her in on the facts. PE is a slow process so as you grow she will easily become able to take it and if at any point it is hard for her and you want to be with her then do a routine for overall health. Her worries may be very real and maybe she has already had painful sex and does not enjoy it.
I nailed an Asian lady in Thailand and when we were done she grabbed her phoof and ran for the shower, she was in severe distress and I was a drunk sailor, I jumped up on my bed and did the tarzan chest beating yell. I was a bit foolish when I was younger. I tell the story because at that time I was 6 x 5.5 and I damn near killed her. She may have chose the wrong profession for herself.
she s bing selfish, it's the same answer for guys loosing their hair,
youve got their GF talking them into not trying to fight hairloss,
and that they would love them for what they are or would be ...
just to leave them after couple of years of relationship...
leaving them bald and too late to fight the hair-loss
she is trying to keep you to her that's an okey concept but overly romantic thus unrealistic,
first she is stopping you from achieving a greater level of selfesteem
and second she can't really know if you are going to be a couple for life ...
What annoys me is that she talked about the last two guys she was with as if they were so big and until I voiced my own concerns didn't say anything about it hurting. It sounded like she was reminiscing on how she enjoyed it almost.
I didn't really think about penis size much until this. I thought I was about average or slightly above average and didn't really care much. Now I feel like I have these expectations to live up to and I'm getting conflicting messages from her.
I didn't really think about penis size much until this. I thought I was about average or slightly above average and didn't really care much. Now I feel like I have these expectations to live up to and I'm getting conflicting messages from her.
Maybe I'm wrong for saying this but I would continue my PE and keep it from her. If you're looking to spend the rest of your life with her, then I'm sure that PE will be beneficial for the both of you. If not, do it for yourself. You can be a little selfish. It's "long distance" anyway right? What she don't know won't hurt her.
You are quite a bit above average. I think you need to stop worrying about the size of your dick, and slap your gf in the face with it it's too big for her.
Look man, i work out because i want to be strong.I do PE cause i want a big dick.I do whatever i want without worrying about what anyone else says because what i do is right.Is it too big for her? Well, stick it in her mouth and fuck her with it.After that, shove it up her ass and let her know what big things in small places feel like.Then let her know what big things in elastic spaces feel like.
For what it's worth, my suggestion would be to hold off on PE for now.
Sex should be wonderful and enjoyable for both of you. Compatibilty is one key factor. If she is concerned that you getting bigger would compromise her experience then I think you should respect that and do everything you can to make the experience mutually satisfying. I think you should consider her needs above yours especially since you mentioned your size was an obsession and not a physically limiting factor.
in the future, if she changes her mind or you move on to a relationship with another woman you can start PE then if you choose to.
Sex should be wonderful and enjoyable for both of you. Compatibilty is one key factor. If she is concerned that you getting bigger would compromise her experience then I think you should respect that and do everything you can to make the experience mutually satisfying. I think you should consider her needs above yours especially since you mentioned your size was an obsession and not a physically limiting factor.
in the future, if she changes her mind or you move on to a relationship with another woman you can start PE then if you choose to.
Even with those chemical changes in the body, the woman's ability to pass something 7lbs proves that the human vagina can be very elastic. Your Asian chick example isn't even necessary because any guy who has ever nailed a virgin, even with an average sized cock, already knows how much pain a woman can have when she's too small (to start with) for what she is getting penetrated by. Stuffing your junk through an unbroken hymen takes serious work! She's very sore after the first time, sore each subsequent time for a couple weeks, and then her vagina opens up enough over time to where there is no more problem. If you day after day ram a 9 inch length 7 inch girth dick into a woman (who has already had sex dozens of times before), her box will stretch out over time and eventually be able to take a monster cock like that without any problem.
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Did you ever hear a woman pass a 7lb baby? Didn't sound like fun when I was there.
As long as we love each other, start slowly, pay attention to the other person's needs, and use plenty of lubricant, I really don't see how another .5" in length and .25" in girth is going to make much of a difference.
It's not like I'm shooting for 9x7 (at least not yet)
It's not like I'm shooting for 9x7 (at least not yet)
