Girl invites guy to her place . . . does that usually mean one thing?
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lol, just a few hours to go!
We both like each other, this is likely the last time we will see each other in person, and if we are alone over there, I think there's a good chance stuff could happen. I'm woefully inexperienced at this stuff though. Maybe this is my night to get lucky. *shrug* Even if there is no sex, I love spending time with her, and that's already reason enough to hang out with her.
We both like each other, this is likely the last time we will see each other in person, and if we are alone over there, I think there's a good chance stuff could happen. I'm woefully inexperienced at this stuff though. Maybe this is my night to get lucky. *shrug* Even if there is no sex, I love spending time with her, and that's already reason enough to hang out with her.
Sitting in the Barnes and Noble Cafe. Got here at 6:00. Is currently 6:45. Need to leave at 8:55. Don't know where she's at. -_- Going to keep waiting.
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Seven 'o clock. No chick. :-(
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Seven fifteen. Still no chick. Even if she does show, if she doesn't get here soon, there will be no time to see her place!
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And now it's FUCKING RAINING!!! She usually walks over here because it's such a short distance from her apartment. I'm not even sure if she currently owns a car. It's unlikely she's going to show now. Due to circumstances, I don't know if there will be another chance for us to meet up this week (I'm supposed to leave on Friday) unless things work out to where I can get another week here. FUCK MY LIFE!!!
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Seven 'o clock. No chick. :-(
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Seven fifteen. Still no chick. Even if she does show, if she doesn't get here soon, there will be no time to see her place!
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And now it's FUCKING RAINING!!! She usually walks over here because it's such a short distance from her apartment. I'm not even sure if she currently owns a car. It's unlikely she's going to show now. Due to circumstances, I don't know if there will be another chance for us to meet up this week (I'm supposed to leave on Friday) unless things work out to where I can get another week here. FUCK MY LIFE!!!
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Yeah, she ain't coming tonight. This is SO fucking stupid!!! It hasn't rained for weeks! It almost hasn't rained for months! Then, the ONE FUCKING NIGHT I might be getting some action, it doesn't just rain, it FUCKING POURS!!! That's right. There's a torrential downpour happening right now. Not even joking!
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Rain or not that is one cold chick, damn dude, go get a beer or 12 and go hogging, time to get Mr. Happy wet. The rest of you is.
Some good friend that is.
If by chance she does contact you and you can meet up go for it then and there. Doubt you'll ever talk again anyways after this blow off tonight.
If by chance she does contact you and you can meet up go for it then and there. Doubt you'll ever talk again anyways after this blow off tonight.
She just contacted me. Her last shift at work was really rough on her (she works nights) and she had fallen asleep without realizing it. It seems she's about 10-15 minutes away from where I'm currently at. I plan on going straight to her place either tomorrow or the day after.
Best part is, she no longer has a roommate. ANYTHING could happen! :-D
Best part is, she no longer has a roommate. ANYTHING could happen! :-D
Go for it!
Don't worry about what might happen the next day or years later with the relationship between you and her. People tend to grow apart and after a while no contact will be made so might as well take a shot.
Bring a flower for the apartment (aka: her) and see if she's sending any signals and do be afraid to act on them.
Don't worry about what might happen the next day or years later with the relationship between you and her. People tend to grow apart and after a while no contact will be made so might as well take a shot.
Bring a flower for the apartment (aka: her) and see if she's sending any signals and do be afraid to act on them.
I'm gonna need a LOT of luck here guys. My bike hasn't been used in awhile, and so I have no idea what shape it's in. given the bad luck I've had with that thing in the past, I wouldn't be one bit surprised if something is wrong with it. Then there's me. Even assuming the bike works, I haven't been on a bike in months. I can't leave center until 5:00, it will probably take me 15-30 min just to bike there one way, she has to catch the 8:00 bus to work, and to top it all off, I'll probably be arriving all sweaty (weather is finally warming up). Today was no problem because there's an off-center bus out here on Tuesdays.
I'd much prefer to arrive at her place fresh, but nope. Not happening.
I'd much prefer to arrive at her place fresh, but nope. Not happening.
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Take a taxi. It'll be worth it if it all plays out.
If it don't then walk home and save the coin.
If it don't then walk home and save the coin.
Has she been playing you like that the whole time you've known her? She just fell asleep after work, huh? Just tell her your intentions then, she sounds like the kind of girl who would play you just for the fun of it. You are gonna get hurt if you go over there expecting anything at all.
Tell her what you want. I can pretty much guarantee a girl who blew you off like that is gonna feign shock, when you tell her you want to sleep wit her. "What? I thought you were my friend! Blah blah blah."
Find a girl who has some self respect. Cause if she ain't got enough self respect to honor her own meeting time with you, she certainly doesn't have enough respect to treat you decently.
Tell her what you want. I can pretty much guarantee a girl who blew you off like that is gonna feign shock, when you tell her you want to sleep wit her. "What? I thought you were my friend! Blah blah blah."
Find a girl who has some self respect. Cause if she ain't got enough self respect to honor her own meeting time with you, she certainly doesn't have enough respect to treat you decently.
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I've read this whole thread and I have a few comments. 1. someone said all girls like sex.....not true....you've never met my ex wife. 2. I will admit that her wanting you to go check out her apartment and she has no roommate, that was a TOTAL invite bro.........it's akin to being asked by a woman into her pad for a nightcap after a date.....that's a flat out invite for sex. 3. her story that she fell asleep after work is VERY plausible. Women work JUST as hard as men do if not harder in some instances. 4. This is my final comment, some folks above said that women don't make the first move.........again, not true. My gf not only made the first move but THREW herself at me on our first date and we've been together ever since. So yes, women do make the first move, it's just not as common.
In any event, I hope you got some success after being left out in the rain........let us know!
In any event, I hope you got some success after being left out in the rain........let us know!
First off, a word to the skeptics.
1. I have known this girl for at least two years, if not longer, and I can tell you that she is genuine. She is not being troublesome on purpose.
2. She often works 16 hour shifts at her job, and they are night shifts to boot. She must often be totally exhausted. The fact that she is even trying to meet up with me tells me that she wants to see me. Her tired body just sometimes has other ideas. Now, for an update.
I suppose I've been neglecting this thread lately haven't I?
My bike is gone along with a great many others. It looks like Job Corps did one of it's purges of bikes they thought weren't being used. Bastards. I decided I would use public transportation on Wednesday instead, but managed to misremember the bus departure time on Wednesday. Missed the bus. *headdesk* Scratch the bus. I was able to secure another week here while I follow up on a job lead, so I'll be able to see her this Friday!
I used some guilt/flattery to try and increase the chances of her being there. This is what I said:
"You are currently the only girl I know that I would go to the trouble to pretty myself up for. Did it Tuesday, and did it Wednesday. The extra effort is beginning to wear on me. I'll be doing it again on Friday, so you'd better be there. *gives playful look*"
A little flattery, and some mild guilt tripping. Nothing too radical, but I think Friday will be my lucky day!
Guys, she said I could have dinner at her place! I don't know if she's actually making dinner or if it'll be something ready made. Things are just getting better and better. I'm really eager to see what happens tomorrow!
I had a realization about her last night. I fell in love with her a long time ago. Time and distance has done nothing to dim my feelings for her. I really don't know how I'm going to handle tomorrow. Once I leave this place, I'll probably never see her again. Can any of you relate perhaps? You meet that one girl that you think you could be happy with but due to various circumstances, it just can't happen?
Wish me luck!
1. I have known this girl for at least two years, if not longer, and I can tell you that she is genuine. She is not being troublesome on purpose.
2. She often works 16 hour shifts at her job, and they are night shifts to boot. She must often be totally exhausted. The fact that she is even trying to meet up with me tells me that she wants to see me. Her tired body just sometimes has other ideas. Now, for an update.
I suppose I've been neglecting this thread lately haven't I?
My bike is gone along with a great many others. It looks like Job Corps did one of it's purges of bikes they thought weren't being used. Bastards. I decided I would use public transportation on Wednesday instead, but managed to misremember the bus departure time on Wednesday. Missed the bus. *headdesk* Scratch the bus. I was able to secure another week here while I follow up on a job lead, so I'll be able to see her this Friday!
I used some guilt/flattery to try and increase the chances of her being there. This is what I said:"You are currently the only girl I know that I would go to the trouble to pretty myself up for. Did it Tuesday, and did it Wednesday. The extra effort is beginning to wear on me. I'll be doing it again on Friday, so you'd better be there. *gives playful look*"
A little flattery, and some mild guilt tripping. Nothing too radical, but I think Friday will be my lucky day!
Guys, she said I could have dinner at her place! I don't know if she's actually making dinner or if it'll be something ready made. Things are just getting better and better. I'm really eager to see what happens tomorrow!
I had a realization about her last night. I fell in love with her a long time ago. Time and distance has done nothing to dim my feelings for her. I really don't know how I'm going to handle tomorrow. Once I leave this place, I'll probably never see her again. Can any of you relate perhaps? You meet that one girl that you think you could be happy with but due to various circumstances, it just can't happen?
Wish me luck!
No offense kelthuzad but you seem very socially awkward, lol. Either that or you are just trolling all of us
You are a virgin, right?
You are a virgin, right?
Not trolling. Virgin yes. If you choose to suspect I am a troll, I will not argue. It's pointless.
And you're right. I do have a tendency to take things in my life and blow them up into something huge on the forums. I do my best to keep it in check, but sometimes it runs away from me.
At first, the main point of this thread was to ask what she may be thinking, but unfortunately, it has turned into something else. You guys will not see another update from me unless I have met up with her, or I am certain I will not be able to.
And you're right. I do have a tendency to take things in my life and blow them up into something huge on the forums. I do my best to keep it in check, but sometimes it runs away from me.
At first, the main point of this thread was to ask what she may be thinking, but unfortunately, it has turned into something else. You guys will not see another update from me unless I have met up with her, or I am certain I will not be able to.
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I finally saw her. No sex, but it was wonderful to see her again. I told her how I felt. I just said it plainly "I love you." She said it back. Her reply made me so happy, but it also hurt me so much! We both feel the same way, but our paths in life are separate, and so a relationship is pointless.
I knew that sex wasn't a certainty, and I think I was prepared for that. Still, disappointed. Very disappointed. We parted with a kiss. I'll probably see her again on Monday.
Such delightful torture! I love being with her, but it hurts. If I weren't leaving this area soon, I wouldn't even bother doing what I am doing.
I knew that sex wasn't a certainty, and I think I was prepared for that. Still, disappointed. Very disappointed. We parted with a kiss. I'll probably see her again on Monday.
Such delightful torture! I love being with her, but it hurts. If I weren't leaving this area soon, I wouldn't even bother doing what I am doing.
If you really want to, she would be very willing to have sex with you.. Remember, the choice is yours.
