max. Ideal length for going balls deep !?

[Kuter7]

What is max. ideal length for going balls deep in most woman and not worrying about hitting cervix?

So many places online says that average depth for woman vagina is only 6" aroused or even less. however From what i have read and gathered info from other forum member posts seems average is closer to 7 inches. it seems that borderline is 7 inches where 50% woman will take full length of 7" nbpel penis (assuming 0.5" fat pad) and 50% won't to take full length. answer only people who have more sexual experience with more then one partner.

 

[faithandhope]

Average is actually even less than 6". I'd never had a problem at 6.5" going balls deep unless we were just starting where I might have to go a bit slow. No problems otherwise. Bumped the cervix painfully a couple times but nothing I had to worry about. I'd say at 7"+ is where you might have to start being careful and paying attention, as more girls would find it harder to take 7+ balls deep. Most would be able to though, I think. Doesn't seem much bigger than 6.5"

 

[Mark 1]

I'm at about 7NBPEL and can only sometimes go balls deep with my girlfriend after a lot of foreplay. I never had a problem with it when I was like 6.5NBPEL.. Strange that half an inch can make such a difference.

 

[Scienceman]

I think I have pretty good experience on this one because I've known women with a large variance of what they can take.

In doggie style especially , even my very average 6 incher (6x5) has been enough to cause pain for quite a number of ladies. (Even ones with big juicy lips). Lol
I would say 6 or 7 out of ten will feel pain if pounded hard doggie.

When she's on top her extra control and positioning will allow her to take more. I would say only about 2 in ten will complain of a hard fuck in that position.

One particular woman could literally only take about 4 fifths of my dick before complaining. If my cock were an 8 incher the intercourse would have been very unsatisfying for me.

I have had two girls tell me (one is only 5' tall) that they could take their ex boufriend's monster cock with no problem !!!

Also, as far as blowjobs, I've had plenty of girls gag (one even barfed) lol while trying to take me all in. I'd rather have the girl take me all in, so if I reach my goal of 7 or 7.5 that may be a problem.

Girth is a trade off. On one hand, I'll feel more teethscratch when getting head. So in that sense more girth is bad. And also I will be offered less anal I'm sure. But it fills up a snatch real nice so it's all good.

 

[MrsLooking4more]

Depends on the girl but in average somewhere around 6.5 to 7 inches. Also it depends on which position, missionary style has more give than say doggy style or cowgirl positions.

 

[greenhit]

I'm 6x5 and can hit my wife's cervix pretty easy and it doesn't seem to bother her at all. Her first boyfriend was very big around 8 or 9 I'm guessing by what size cucumbers she has compared it too. Anyways she said he would go as hard as he wanted and it hurt but in a good way.

 

[jay1993]

I'd say about 7.75 BPEL would be the threshold to where all positions become trickier. With my current stats I find myself hitting cervixes in every position, and hitting CDSs and bottoming out in several positions. However, it is not at the point yet where sex has become a hassle to avoid hurting the woman and I can still go balls deep usually. I feel like I am pushing the limits of their depths now though, and that in about .25 BPEL or so I will be bottoming out consistently in every position. It has gotten exponentially more difficult , and pain has become increasingly more common for the woman I'm with, since surpassing the 6.75 BPEL mark.

 

[BTA]

I'd say about 7.75 BPEL would be the threshold to where all positions become trickier. With my current stats I find myself hitting cervixes in every position, and hitting CDSs and bottoming out in several positions. However, it is not at the point yet where sex has become a hassle to avoid hurting the woman and I can still go balls deep usually. I feel like I am pushing the limits of their depths now though, and that in about .25 BPEL or so I will be bottoming out consistently in every position. It has gotten exponentially more difficult , and pain has become increasingly more common for the woman I'm with, since surpassing the 6.75 BPEL mark.

What do you mean by 'bottoming out'?

 

[jay1993]

What do you mean by 'bottoming out'?

Your dick can go no further. The vagina actually extends past the cervix. There is an erogenous zone known as the cul-de-sac (CDS) directly beyond the cervix on the posterior (back) wall of the vagina. When you have pushed as far into the cul-de-sac as possible, you will have reached the very back of the vagina. When you bottom out you will know. You will feel the head of your dick pushing into a wall, and if you push too hard your dick will bend; that wall is not budging.

 

[Kuter7]

It seems that for some woman vaginas getting beyond cervix to CDS is easy, but for Most however its kinda tricky and not even possible, because for most woman going as deep as possible with long penis most likely will hit cervix on path to CDS and cause more pain rather than pleasure. Otherwise most woman wouldn't tell that they don't like too long penis and prefer girth more. That is impression what I have after reading so many about this topic. what are your thoughts? I am really not telling this from my experience , because I have had sex so far with only one girl. I am Nbpel 6.75" naturally, i don't think it's even worth to try PE for me. I wouldn't want to get big penis, and then release that I can't go balls deep on most woman.

 

[Dangs7]

i'm 7. I go balls deep with my gf... sometimes i'm hitting her cervix, but she loves it. some girls like it, some girls don't. toss up.

 

[Glamissand1]

I'm 7 3/8 BPEL and have to start slow and push her cervix back if there's little to no foreplay. With lots of foreplay I still have to be careful at the last 1/2 inch where I hit her a spot and slide across her cervix towards the cds. She loves me grinding deep and burying my glans into her a spot. With a little hip move I can use my glans to rub all around the front side of the cervix. She likes the way it rubs on her cervix but does not like it to be stabbed. It was about 7 inches when I would always contact the cervix no matter how tented she was. FYI she has full power to tell me when to stop gaining, and she is still up for more.

 

[donjelqer76]

This depends almost completely on the woman

Pre-PE @ 6.5" I bottomed out on a pretty big percentage of women I was with - some liked it and some didn't. Post-PE its only been my wife and at 7.75"-7.9" and I rarely hit anything. There is a lot of variance not only in the woman's depth, but on whether the woman enjoys it or not. There really is no magic number - just pay attention to your partner and you should know whether or not you should be going balls deep or not

 

[jay1993]

It seems that for some woman vaginas getting beyond cervix to CDS is easy, but for Most however its kinda tricky and not even possible, because for most woman going as deep as possible with long penis most likely will hit cervix on path to CDS and cause more pain rather than pleasure. Otherwise most woman wouldn't tell that they don't like too long penis and prefer girth more. That is impression what I have after reading so many about this topic. what are your thoughts? I am really not telling this from my experience , because I have had sex so far with only one girl. I am Nbpel 6.75" naturally, i don't think it's even worth to try PE for me. I wouldn't want to get big penis, and then release that I can't go balls deep on most woman.

Id go for a more than 6.75 NBPEL. Ive posted before that a lot of women associate long dick= big dick. The whole girth matters, length doesnt concept is incredibly overplayed and not true. Sure, a short fat dick is better than a long pencil dick, but do you think that length would have ever been talked about at all if it didn't matter? Women LOVE it when you hit deep spots, and Id go so far as to say that an 8x5 is better than a 5x6.

 

[thedaywillcome]

Id go for a more than 6.75 NBPEL. Ive posted before that a lot of women associate long dick= big dick. The whole girth matters, length doesnt concept is incredibly overplayed and not true. Sure, a short fat dick is better than a long pencil dick, but do you think that length would have ever been talked about at all if it didn't matter? Women LOVE it when you hit deep spots, and Id go so far as to say that an 8x5 is better than a 5x6.

I don't even think that 5x6 is even possible! lol

I think it varies depending on the women, not to mention most wouldn't know how many inches you are just by looking. I have heard from many women that they are much more enticed by girth than by length and for a large portion of the female population the very max length would be 7' in length for going balls deep. I bet most women who want more than that don't even realize that the guy isn't even entering them completely as it is and that there is one or more inches that never really gets to enter them without causing some pain or discomfort. If anything the larger sizes may play a more psychological role in the whole experience than a physical, not saying that it doesn't though.

I'd say 7x5to6 would be the most ideal for providing physical pleasure to the largest variety of women.

 

[BigO]

This depends almost completely on the woman

Pre-PE @ 6.5" I bottomed out on a pretty big percentage of women I was with - some liked it and some didn't. Post-PE its only been my wife and at 7.75"-7.9" and I rarely hit anything. There is a lot of variance not only in the woman's depth, but on whether the woman enjoys it or not. There really is no magic number - just pay attention to your partner and you should know whether or not you should be going balls deep or not

I agree with this post. I can go balls deep in some positions with my wife but I am now getting into that area in size that borders on the need to be carefull. I must be gentle going doggy style. She is only 5 foot tall and in a spooning position I can slam it but only after a slow start. I am also enjoying the newer size with different tricks. Now when I am in deep I can push all the way in and then give very deep short slow strokes and make her cum when I decide that she should. OH, the power!

I may have to change my name to BiggerO

 

[CaptainJohnson]

It seems that for some woman vaginas getting beyond cervix to CDS is easy, but for Most however its kinda tricky and not even possible, because for most woman going as deep as possible with long penis most likely will hit cervix on path to CDS and cause more pain rather than pleasure. Otherwise most woman wouldn't tell that they don't like too long penis and prefer girth more. That is impression what I have after reading so many about this topic. what are your thoughts? I am really not telling this from my experience , because I have had sex so far with only one girl. I am Nbpel 6.75" naturally, i don't think it's even worth to try PE for me. I wouldn't want to get big penis, and then release that I can't go balls deep on most woman.

Firstly, most of the nerves in the vagina are around the front, so girth is easier to sense for women. Next, you have to consider that the cervix elevates during arousal. This means, as arousal continues, it becomes easier to access the CDS. Many men do not stimulate their women long enough to gain access to this area, and some women may simply be not sensitive enough to be aroused to this point. Many women find it easier to orgasm after giving birth to children, and this might be related to why. Sometimes we don't know how to feel or use certain parts of our bodies without being first introduced to them. Involuntary controls can become voluntary, and inactive neurological pathways can become increasingly active due to stimulation.

The same argument applies to the AFE as well as the g-spot, or anything else on a woman or even a man. Learn about your body, learn about your partner's body, and have fun. Remember, cock-size isn't everything.

 

[wind chill]

I am Nbpel 6.75" naturally, i don't think it's even worth to try PE for me. I wouldn't want to get big penis, and then release that I can't go balls deep on most woman.

I hear you brother.You could go to 7 nb or pack on some girth if you satisfied with your length.I always thought the perfect length is 6.8 nb, so you have a perfect length basically.
My longterm goal is 7.1nbpel.The problem with something like 8,9 like vast majority on here are going for is that you will not be able to fuck a woman as hard as you want plus you would be hanging around a few inches.I wouldn't want that.If you ask my ego he would go for a rhino penis 25 inches in length but i want to control my ego and notlet it take control, altho ego is a tough mofo!! One day i look at my body and say hey this is not bad, look how many people would want to look like me altho my body is nothing to brag about really.However the ego says your not a real man, your not even a man. 265lbs of pure muscle is a real man.It's strange, it's like we have a demonic part of ourselves which we call ego.I wish i didn't it.Have to keep it under control, don't want to let the dog out haha.

 

[Sean Jacobs]

It depends on the woman. I'm just a hair over 7" BPEL and I can't go balls deep with my wife in most positions. In my oppinion 6-7" is probably where you would want to stay if you want to go balls deep in any position.

 

[Scienceman]

Your dick can go no further. The vagina actually extends past the cervix. There is an erogenous zone known as the cul-de-sac (CDS) directly beyond the cervix on the posterior (back) wall of the vagina. When you have pushed as far into the cul-de-sac as possible, you will have reached the very back of the vagina. When you bottom out you will know. You will feel the head of your dick pushing into a wall, and if you push too hard your dick will bend; that wall is not budging.

Two girls I know go for this spot. They literally call it bending. I've wondered if a longer dick will force them away so they can't get their vaginal grip on the cock base. Instead they may have to float an inch or so off the base. That might affect the torque they can apply on the cock. One girl in particular can hurt me and put bruise spots all over my head if she wants to.

They cum automatically though, which of course it the upside.