how often do you get laid?

[Led_Dikkin]

The wife wants it more than I do!

Depending on the time of the month, at least once a day. During those lovely days of the month she has a real oral fixation!! I love her!

 

[TTBB]

I hear exaggerating makes your dick grow bigger and builds false standards for people to live up to.. seems it might apply to sex in general..lol
many posts here sound ideal not sure about realistic...sorry just honest with what i am thinking.

 

[Led_Dikkin]

I hear exaggerating makes your dick grow bigger and builds false standards for people to live up to.. seems it might apply to sex in general..lol
many posts here sound ideal not sure about realistic...sorry just honest with what i am thinking.

Cool new PE trick! If that's the case, 5-6 times a day and 10 on Sunday!!

In all honesty, I'd like so slow down a bit, but her drive right now is through the roof! I'm beginning to have a hard time keeping up, in more ways than one.

 

[CaptainJohnson]

We almost always hit at least 3 times a week. 2 times is a rare rare occasion when I am bogged down in work and so is she, but usually we find the time. Its initiated by both of us interchangeably, and sometimes we have to get each other going if the other one is a bit tired from a long day. I'd say 4 is our average, and 6 is the high-end. We have plans to attempt a 2 to 3 times a day thing for a week, but that sure as hell won't be during the school year. Its something we want to do as a challenge, but we have no plans to maintain that rate, as I feel sex that often would start to feel like a chore. Everything in moderation, and you will always look forward to what comes next.

My personal favourite is when you take a week off. Just pure touching and foreplay, no coming, nothing... and at the end of the week you just go nuts! I think we've done this about three times, where sex was just once a week, and those were some fucking amazingly fun weeks. Frequency is just another tool to spice up your sex-life.

 

[Praetorian]

What the hell? Where is all of this sex happening?!

Married for 10 years here. In the first year, the usual of 1-3 times a day and lovely, lovely BJs. Fast forward 10 years...we both work too much, I am away 50% of the time working in the wastelands and we are generally just exhausted. I do approach her more than she approaches me (fairly rare on her part) and make advances but get shut down most of the time. Currently at about 1-3 times a month and sometimes nothing for up to 6 weeks.

She seems fine with it but I'm finding it a bit frustrating. I suppose I get the urge 2-3 times a week so the dry spells are proving dissatisfying. It is hard to move forward with solutions as she is genuinely exhausted from work. I just think that the marriage is at a bit of a plateau.

 

[donjelqer76]

What the hell? Where is all of this sex happening?!

Married for 10 years here. In the first year, the usual of 1-3 times a day and lovely, lovely BJs. Fast forward 10 years...we both work too much, I am away 50% of the time working in the wastelands and we are generally just exhausted. I do approach her more than she approaches me (fairly rare on her part) and make advances but get shut down most of the time. Currently at about 1-3 times a month and sometimes nothing for up to 6 weeks.

She seems fine with it but I'm finding it a bit frustrating. I suppose I get the urge 2-3 times a week so the dry spells are proving dissatisfying. It is hard to move forward with solutions as she is genuinely exhausted from work. I just think that the marriage is at a bit of a plateau.

Yep, that's "life happening". Kids, work, stress and everything else all just adds up. It can definitely get frustrating, but in the end there really are more important things in life I guess.

All you other guys here - you all make me sick!

 

[Thick_Unit]

Single and virgin, so zero times on average.

+1

 

[Kenshomi]

Married 22 years 2 kids. 2x week

 

[Hopeful&dedicated]

Married with 3 kids under 10 years old. I'd say it averages out to 4-5 times a week.

 

[UpcomingStallion]

How can you do PE and have sex 20+ times a week?!?!? The most sex I've had is 8 times in a period of 12 hours. My penis was so fatigued afterwards I needed a good 24 hours to recoop to a 10EQ. Mind you I'm not taking any of the 5g's as I'm losing my hair and I'd rather not speed up that process. So yeah...how can you have sex 3 times a day and do PE?

To answer the OP, it varies with my gf due to school and exams. Average...probably 5-6 times a week. We've done 20+ but that was over the summer.

 

[4Samson]

How can you do PE and have sex 20+ times a week?!?!? The most sex I've had is 8 times in a period of 12 hours. My penis was so fatigued afterwards I needed a good 24 hours to recoop to a 10EQ. Mind you I'm not taking any of the 5g's as I'm losing my hair and I'd rather not speed up that process. So yeah...how can you have sex 3 times a day and do PE?

To answer the OP, it varies with my gf due to school and exams. Average...probably 5-6 times a week. We've done 20+ but that was over the summer.

I admittedly slack on the pe when we are together. I actually dont think I would stand a chance to keep up without the eq bonuses of pe. I'm very happy with my size and I know she is as well. I was happy with my size before pe and it seems as though I've gained about 1 1/4" and some girth over the last 9 months. I abandoned a routine quite some time ago and just do it whenever its convenient and whatever I feel like doing at the time. I seem to continue to gain although I would still be fully happy if I plateau.

Her sex drive seems very high. When we are apart she actually tells me that we should have more sex and she hints at it when we are together sometimes. I just tell her I think atleast 3 times a day is already more than most couples. I enjoy her enthusiasm though and it is nice to feel wanted. She is very vocal in how much she enjoys herself...

 

[penisesunite]

Wow, some people can have sex more then three or four times a week? I'd fall apart. I get extremely sexually fatigued if I'm too active. I think my ideal is two times maximum, two long sessions a week. Any more than that and it's going to start showing in how tired I am.

 

[Jayj]

Damned... I'm in a 7 months relationship, I'm 25 and she's 21 and... well... when I see the sex people are getting I'm thinking : "WTF?"

Our average may be 2-3 times a week, but it varies (sometimes nothing for several weeks, sometimes once a day... but never more than once a day).
We are both very tired from work these last few weeks so it dropped to once a week :/

Seeing you guys and your stats I reaaaally hope it's not gonna drop even more in the next few years

I want more sex!

 

[CaptainJohnson]

Damned... I'm in a 7 months relationship, I'm 25 and she's 21 and... well... when I see the sex people are getting I'm thinking : "WTF?"

Our average may be 2-3 times a week, but it varies (sometimes nothing for several weeks, sometimes once a day... but never more than once a day).
We are both very tired from work these last few weeks so it dropped to once a week :/

Seeing you guys and your stats I reaaaally hope it's not gonna drop even more in the next few years

I want more sex!

We commonly attribute the lack of sex in our relationships to failures in our own sexual performance, but the reality is this is rarely true. A huge issue is couples often think, "Well we see each other a lot, so we can get to it later," and this behaviour is very common when the couple is very busy and constantly strained from work and home responsibilities. I'd suggest talking to your gf about it and devising goals to work towards. Maybe choose a time and a day to do a sexual activity you have never done before...

... Might I suggest strip-tease jenga?

 

[Jayj]

Strip tease Jenga.... mmmhhh... that's a great idea: my girlfriend is very clumsy

But don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining, I'm having the best time of my life with her. And sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. She's smart, cute, kind, passionate, loyal, independant, etc.

I talked to her about the "lack of sex" already and she basically told me what you just said : "if we're not doing it now, we'll be doing it another day right?" Sex is definitely not a priority for her (even if when she's horny she's unstoppable lol)

 

[Dontrike]

Damned... I'm in a 7 months relationship, I'm 25 and she's 21 and... well... when I see the sex people are getting I'm thinking : "WTF?"

Our average may be 2-3 times a week, but it varies (sometimes nothing for several weeks, sometimes once a day... but never more than once a day).
We are both very tired from work these last few weeks so it dropped to once a week :/

Seeing you guys and your stats I reaaaally hope it's not gonna drop even more in the next few years

I want more sex!

I don't know about you, but my stats can only drop to -1 time a year at this rate.

 

[Raider]

Raider don't get laid punk ass bitches!....I'm sorry, i don't know what just came over me....:specool:

 

[Glamissand1]

6-8 times mostly on weekends. I work nights and wife works days, so we forplay all week and bone like rabbits every weekend. Together 8 yrs with 2 Kids.

 

[Upandup]

It varies. I have two children, one of whom will be 9 weeks this Saturday. So, once in about the past 2 1/2 months. Prior to that was about once every two weeks (during pregnancy) and prior to that once or twice a week.

I'm 33, she's 31, we both have busy jobs. When we have sex, the stars (and schedules) need to align. Don't feel bad, guys. In my circle of friends (with kids) I'm apparently having more sex than most porn stars. For those in your early 20s...2 - 3 times a week is great, and if you can get more then go for it!

Those were really good days...

 

[MikeShlort]

Damned... I'm in a 7 months relationship, I'm 25 and she's 21 and... well... when I see the sex people are getting I'm thinking : "WTF?"

Our average may be 2-3 times a week, but it varies (sometimes nothing for several weeks, sometimes once a day... but never more than once a day).
We are both very tired from work these last few weeks so it dropped to once a week :/

Seeing you guys and your stats I reaaaally hope it's not gonna drop even more in the next few years

I want more sex!

Good to see that a mid 20s guy can get an early 20s girl. I am very uninterested in the worn women pushing 30