The Woman and Me

[bhud1991]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for a good while so far (just over a year) and it couldn't be better. She is my lover and my best friend and I couldn't ask for anything more. Sexually, we are completely in synch and we know what each other wants. She is a little Asian woman. (100lb frame) but she sure can take a piece once she is ready to go. She had found out about my "PE" and she's quite frankly kind of hurt. She tells me all the time I'm the perfect size and any more would be too much, but I know she's being modest. The last time I measured myself, I was 7.6" X 4.9". I bought a realistic dildo which measures as 7" X 6.25". She moans hardcore with me but she really moans when she's worked in with the toy.

I guess what I'm getting at is does anyone else have the same problem? I've been doing PE for just about 2 years, on and off and I'm quite frankly not satisfied with my size quiet yet. I'm definitely above average but I don't want to stop there.

 

[Praetorian]

I think that you hit the nail on the head with your last two sentences. You are doing PE because you want to attain certain goals which will make you feel satisfied. Working toward our personal goals is the right of every human being regardless of gender.

You are definitely above average and from the sound of things, as you stated, everything is good in your relationship. I wouldn't focus too much on the distinction between the reaction of your partner about stimulation from your penis in contrast to the dildo. Perhaps you being involved with a toy is a pyschological turn on for her so isn't a size based issue at all.

My partner is also petite and although I don't have your dimensions (unless I've gained a crapload since I last measured lol) I 'bottom out' and my partner is always satisfied unless I cum too soon or it just doesn't happen for us on a particular occasion. So, our sex life is good and she has always thought me 'big' in comparison to previous partners. She has no stated ambition for me to have a bigger wang. However, I am doing this for me and as long as it doesn't get to the point where I develop a wang which is uncomfortable or painful for her, I will keep up with PE.

You could just cite the fact that PE is a good way to maintain overall penis health; which is the truth. It can give you better EQ and that is always a welcome thing.

I have been PEing on and off since the late 90s but really let it go for a long time until recently. There are probably a whole load of very experienced, longer term members here who can give you good advice also. I wouldn't worry too much....things sound great at your house

 

[bhud1991]

You've definitely put it in good perspective for me. I have noticed that my EQ is incredible with all the exercises as well as my stamina which is definitely a plus in bed for us both. Aside from such, I am doing it for me and I'm not trying to impress anyone in opposition to what she may say.

"She has no stated ambition for me to have a bigger wang. However, I am doing this for me and as long as it doesn't get to the point where I develop a wang which is uncomfortable or painful for her, I will keep up with PE."

This is exactly how I feel. Lately she's been getting on me about such as I do with her about smoking but mutually we've looked passed such factors as "habits" so we don't argue about them. I'm trying make myself and her happy, that is all. Thank you very much for yourpost Praetorian!

 

[bahamaboner71]

You can also tell her that you are doing the PE to last longer. I told her that and she loved it. I also used a technique I learned here, I told her I learned that on the same forum where I got my exercises from, she really likes that. When I told her, I left out the part where I feel that I think my cock is too small for her.

 

[epoch]

OP - Praetorian and Bahama gave you the same answers most of us would probably suggest. Simply state that your primary goal is to maintain a healthy cock, and that other things like stamina will likely be great side benefits. De-emphasize the size impacts. Obviously, she'll let you know if things get too big for her and you can then re-examine your goals and intentions.