sleeping with a hot girl Saturday, any tips?

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Learn how to not kegel during sex. This is what causes ejaculation.
 

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As I once heard in an interview with Ron Jeremy once, go down on her. Spend the first half hour pleasuring her. Give before you receive. Do let us know how you get on. Happy weekend.

I did the sound for a Ron Jeremy porno. He was playing with his penis the whole time between shots to keep it up. Pretty surreal.
 

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Learn how to not kegel during sex. This is what causes ejaculation.

That's pretty much true to an extent. The regular kegel is part of the ejaculation process, but some guys use it to DO MMO.
 

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appreciate all the advice, just want to say it went brilliantly!

I edged last night and ejaculated and then today I didn't do anything. Went to her place, a lot of foreplay at first and that calmed me down quite a bit. Then when i put it in I was going for a good 1 and a half hours! :D

Really don't understand how this happened but I am so happy, had have me loads of confidence!
thanks everyone
 
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appreciate all the advice, just want to say it went brilliantly!

I edged last night and ejaculated and then today I didn't do anything. Went to her place, a lot of foreplay at first and that calmed me down quite a bit. Then when i put it in I was going for a good 1 and a half hours! :D

Really don't understand how this happened but I am so happy, had have me loads of confidence!
thanks everyone
Ahhh, that feeling. it feels good, it feels really really good! Congratz man!
 

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Post some details, it might help the similarly nervous.Congratulations.I'll bet she told her friends how good you were :p
 

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hey guys, just thought I'd let you know I had sex again with her today and lasted a good hour+ again.

the only problem is my erection quality over the two sessions seems to have been very poor, probably about 70% I even went soft on two occasions :/ .. I really don't understand why this is. Overtraining of kegals/reverse kegals maybe?

any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
 

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Ummmm..... you def don't have prem ejac. Hahaha. Sounds pretty crazy to me. So you had prem ejac but overnight you became a porn star? I don't get it.
 

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I really don't understand it either. with my old gf I would last under 5 mins every single time (unless I was drunk) I had zero confidence. but with this new girl (who is much hotter) I have to literally force myself to cum! I'm wondering whether any of this is related.

1. I stopped taking HGH a week ago
2. my erection quality has dropped significantly
3. I did a week a training with K/RK.. quite intense exercises

I'm as confused as you James
 

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Haven't a clue if HGH will have any effect on your EQ and Pre-E but I think No.s 2 and 3 are linked. Exhausting the pelvic floor due to over working it with kegels can easily lead to lowering your EQ. This probably allowed you to last longer because it wasn't as stimulating having sex 70% hard.
 

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This is what I was thinking, do you reckon my EQ will go back to normal by itself? or should I continue doing my K/RK routine with less intensity, maybe every other day instead of every day.
 

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appreciate all the advice, just want to say it went brilliantly!

I edged last night and ejaculated and then today I didn't do anything. Went to her place, a lot of foreplay at first and that calmed me down quite a bit. Then when i put it in I was going for a good 1 and a half hours! :D

Really don't understand how this happened but I am so happy, had have me loads of confidence!
thanks everyone

Nice one, really well done! If you normally last 2-3 minutes then you've improved your stamina by a factor of 30. Great work. :)

I had sex yesterday for hooouuurs and hooouurs before eventually ejaculating (and pretty much blowing my head off in the process). This may not be unconnected with some heavy-ish ecstasy use the previous night.
 

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This is what I was thinking, do you reckon my EQ will go back to normal by itself? or should I continue doing my K/RK routine with less intensity, maybe every other day instead of every day.

I would rest for a couple of days and then start a every other day routine. You don't have to work the kegels everyday to get the most out of them, they need rest too. Build the muscles up slowly the same as every other muscle.
 

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ok thanks, I'll start again from tomorrow then, Im just hoping that the reason for my lasting so long wasn't related to my EQ, if it was then by improving my EQ I may be a 3 minute guy again. I'll keep you updated with my progress :)
 

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Ahhh, that feeling. it feels good, it feels really really good! Congratz man!

Could it have been that thing they say where if you do a lot of foreplay at he beginning and take it slow and get over the first 5-10 of sex without a PONR... You can last forever? I keep hearing that. Does it have something to do with nerve buffering or whatever it's called???
 

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Could it have been that thing they say where if you do a lot of foreplay at he beginning and take it slow and get over the first 5-10 of sex without a PONR... You can last forever? I keep hearing that. Does it have something to do with nerve buffering or whatever it's called???

Also... The penis is a lot more sensitive when it is at full erection and the penis head is filled with blood. Maybe the low EQ was a big factor.
And yes, exhausting the pelvic floor has been known to cause some changes. Tough one to call.