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Nope, not so. I knew a guy once who couldn't cum from a blow job no matter what he tried........
My gf loves giving me blowjob, but at the first time I didn't feel exciting at all because she just kept sucking my glans. So I asked her to lick my frenulum and strok my shaft, wow! that made me crazy and felt almost in the heaven!
But, I have a question: do you guy like receiving BJ when your dicks are flaccid or rock hard? Sometiomes she sucks my soft shaft and I feel to die and beg her to stop because I feel my stamina will be swallowed out of energy. So how do you guys feel?
But, I have a question: do you guy like receiving BJ when your dicks are flaccid or rock hard? Sometiomes she sucks my soft shaft and I feel to die and beg her to stop because I feel my stamina will be swallowed out of energy. So how do you guys feel?
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I can't be given a flaccid blowjob, because I, you know, get an erection
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To Sperminator: I know what you mean, odd as it may sound it took me a while to 'learn' how to really enjoy a blowjob (enough to ejaculate that way, anyway).
First off you just have to accept that the sensation is never as going to be as intense as from penetration. It's a really different kind of feeling and I just don't get it in porn when there's all this really vigorous face-fucking going on, as if the guy is just trying to use the girl's mouth as a second cunt. That's really not what a blowjob is about. The second thing is that even now, it's pretty rare that my girlfriend (who is *excellent* at it) can get me there using only or mainly her mouth. Most 'blowjobs' are really 3/4 handjob with added oral stimulation of the head. Don't be afraid to help her out with your own hand as well (since you know better than anyone how to do that, right?). Finally I would advise seeing if you can get her to suck you when you haven't seen each other for a few days, and abstain from masturbation too, so you're all horny and have a big load stored up. You can try having her get you most of the way there with her hand, then start licking you as well when you feel you're nearly ready to come. Over time, you'll be able to train yourself to get off more and more just from the sensation of her lips and tongue.
Of course, if she's new to the game, she can only get better in time as well.
A great thing to do, I find, is to make a sort of ritual of out it, almost, for each time you see each other for the first time in a few days. You can try making her come first by licking and stroking her, then you'll be absolutely ready to pop by the time she gets to work on you. It's pretty cool to make each other come by oral sex before you even start actually fucking.
Oh, and once you're ready to come from being blown, try and arrange it so there's eye contact between the two of you just at the critical moment. This is beyond hot. Try it while you're eating her out, too. It just takes it to another level.
First off you just have to accept that the sensation is never as going to be as intense as from penetration. It's a really different kind of feeling and I just don't get it in porn when there's all this really vigorous face-fucking going on, as if the guy is just trying to use the girl's mouth as a second cunt. That's really not what a blowjob is about. The second thing is that even now, it's pretty rare that my girlfriend (who is *excellent* at it) can get me there using only or mainly her mouth. Most 'blowjobs' are really 3/4 handjob with added oral stimulation of the head. Don't be afraid to help her out with your own hand as well (since you know better than anyone how to do that, right?). Finally I would advise seeing if you can get her to suck you when you haven't seen each other for a few days, and abstain from masturbation too, so you're all horny and have a big load stored up. You can try having her get you most of the way there with her hand, then start licking you as well when you feel you're nearly ready to come. Over time, you'll be able to train yourself to get off more and more just from the sensation of her lips and tongue.
Of course, if she's new to the game, she can only get better in time as well.
A great thing to do, I find, is to make a sort of ritual of out it, almost, for each time you see each other for the first time in a few days. You can try making her come first by licking and stroking her, then you'll be absolutely ready to pop by the time she gets to work on you. It's pretty cool to make each other come by oral sex before you even start actually fucking.
Oh, and once you're ready to come from being blown, try and arrange it so there's eye contact between the two of you just at the critical moment. This is beyond hot. Try it while you're eating her out, too. It just takes it to another level.
unless im soft and shes quick thats all I get is the head. Sometimes I ask her to squeeze it all in while its soft but it goes in soft and comes out hard.
Why did I have this in mind while I was reading your comment:
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I can't be given a flaccid blowjob because I...
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... get en erection.
YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!
Anyway ^^
Blowjobs are great, but it took me a long time to "force" myself to cum from one. My girlfriend was not that great at first but she was willing to do it (which is a huge turn on for me... knowing that she WANTS to make me feel good) but now, with practice, she's amazing ^^
Give it time. Practice makes perfect.
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Ahh, so, you like the clopclop?
I was going to post an inappropriate link but thought better of it lol
