Is it worth the risk?

[paranoid]

Been with my girl for 5 months now and things are going well so I'm not sure if this is worth saying something about..

She has had two kids, soooo things aren't really umm....what you would call "in the best shape" downstairs?

Now we have a great sex life, but if we have sex twice on the same day, I have trouble climaxing. It's frustrating because I don't want to come right out and say it, that sh*t hurts feelings, but when I don't come I have questions to answer, you know?? I wouldn't like to be told that mine isn't sufficient, and I would imagine she'd feel the same, but how do you deal with something like this?? We're deep in love and are very passionate, but unfortunately passion is only one ingredient of sex, and just doesn't cut it.

 

[donjelqer76]

Are you PEing yourself? If so, tell her about it, it may make it easier to gently bring into the conversation that there are things that she could also do to improve her sexual health such as kegels. Women have different sizes down there just as we men do. I agree with your compassion in considering her feelings over everything else, but there are ways you can get her involved without putting her down.

 

[NCGUY1972]

I dont understand. My wife has had 3 kids and eeverything is fine down there

 

[kc513]

had sex with a girl last week that had a kid and she was the loosest i have ever been with. also been with another girl that had a kid and she was probably the tightest i have ever had... i guess some girls just bounce back better than others... the second girl was also very petite

 

[Toadstool]

Maybe you could bring it up by telling her that you do kegels for better control and improved orgasm. Then guide the conversation to how women should do kegels too for tight vajayjays and stronger orgasms

 

[paranoid]

Thanks heaps for the input guys, I'll fine tune my choice of words and dive right into that conversation...so to speak!