Taoist Techniques for Premature Ejaculation

[chrisli87]

Just curious if anybody here has ever tried Taoist methods to cure premature ejaculation.

I've just picked up and been reading "Taoist Secrets of Love - Cultivating male sexual energy"

The Taoist methods seem very promising, because they believe in semen being a very sacred and powerful life force and should therefore not be wasted. In fact the Taoist practice, is to not ejaculate at all during sex, but instead circulate that tremendous energy throughout the body.

What i find promising for premature ejaculation sufferer's is that the core methods are focused around taking the sexual energy and tension from the penis and pelvic region and releasing it out around the rest of the body. This i think is great for arousal control, which i think is a common problem among us PE'rs.

You can check it for free here: http://www.holybooks.com/wp-content...ts-of-Love-Cultivating-Male-Sexual-Energy.pdf
There's a fair bit of spiritual and Taoist philosophy stuff you have to sift through, but i think that stuff is useful as well to improve your mindset about sex.

 

[Pegasus]

Yes we have had guys pass through that had an interest in various" soft" styles. Tantra , taoist practise,Chia etc. No masters of it though which is a pity.
For balance most of the work in this link has no spritual gooblegook much of it is 'hard " style dealing with strength , timing skill etc.
Multiple Male Orgasm and Dry Orgasms - PEGym Forums

 

[pe_mystic]

thanks. ive been interested in soft mmo and moving the energy thru the body, only happened a few times but id rather it than hard i think...!

 

[pe_mystic]

which book is better this one or multi orgasmic man?

 

[Pegasus]

My link was not a book but a group ,it has lots of thread within it and link to various points of interest . It is quite free so it's well worth a look. I am told the chia book is worthwhile if you don't mind mystic stuff , several guys have said they understood it better after reading in mmo club.
We have several homegrown soft style mmo practioners, Minuteman and mvgasion come to mind .

 

[chrisli87]

thanks. ive been interested in soft mmo and moving the energy thru the body, only happened a few times but id rather it than hard i think...!

Thats what i thought, it seems alot more natural to do "soft" mmo, instead trying to fight the response with brute force (ie using a kegel)

Also i like the arousal control focus on it aka moving the sexual energy away from the ejaculatory region. I believe arousal is a significant part of my pe and probably alot of other people as well. I also think people are more easily commited to a kegel routine because its a simple exercise that doesn't take alot of conscious effort.

Trying to retune your mind to control arousal is alot more difficult. It requires your full attention and effort. And theres no real exercises or step by step methods to follow, as far as i have found. Most mentions of arousal control will just tell you to think about something outrageous or funny, or concentrate on the sensations of your whole body. Easier said than done i think!

With this energy moving business, even if this moving energy thing is total crap, you still have something else to focus on other than "ahhh i can feel myself getting too aroused, back to 7 back to 7, it's not working... MArgaret Thatcher naked , Margaret Thatcher naked!".
(not exactly sure why every body uses margaret thatcher, i dont actually no what she looks like)

Theres a good exercise in the tao of sexuality book about concentration, focus and basically completely emptying your mind. I'll post the section from the book

which book is better this one or multi orgasmic man?

I personally like the tao book. i read the multi orgasmic man a year or 2 ago and from memory this is what got me started doing kegels. Which we PE'rs know can make it even worse. Personally i think mmo is something that has to come after you've fixed your PE problem. Training for MMO i not really addressing the actual issue.

 

[chrisli87]

This is an exerpt from the tao of sexuality book about a focus exercise:

THE CENTURY COUNT: BUILD YOUR STAYING POWER
This useful mind control technique is a breath exercise. Slowly
count from one to one hundred. Let no extraneous thought enter
your mind. Coordinate deep, harmonious breathing into your lower
abdomen with the counting. Count a complete inhalation and exhalation
as one.
This is not nearly so easy as it may sound. Most people have
difficulty counting from one to ten without wandering. When the
mind strays, begin the count over till reaching 100 with no random
thought.
This method of calming the agitated spirit will greatly help you
develop the self-control to pull back from ejaculation. If you've not
practised relaxing, you will have difficulty resisting the urge to
release the seed.
Practice the 100 breaths twice daily. After a period of serious
practice you should be able to clear the mind and calm most violent
agitation with few breaths from the depths of the pelvic diaphragm.
The Cold Water Skinny Dip may be used by those readers
who have difficulty exercising any degree of self-control at all. It is
a simple mechanical technique to help you begin to exercise selfrestraint.
The Century Count will help you actually learn to command
the penis to cool off when too hot. To retain the semen you must be
able to withdraw excess heat from the genital region at will. With
regular practice you will prevent ejaculation far more easily than
seemed possible but a short time before. It is an important step
toward the higher forms of esoteric love. Esoteric knowledge alone
is useless or worse, for it may engender a complacency that precludes
doubt, or experimentation with real people and events.
Knowledge with living application through practice is the goal of
this work. The Taoist approach is fundamentally practical.
Most books claiming to improve the art of loving literally bury
the reader under a bewildering variety of second-rate methods. It is
better to learn a few excellent methods in greater detail. I am
familiar with many other techniques, but my experience has shown
a student fails in this practice if his mind is overloaded with information.
A boxer who knows 20 different punches usually falls before
one who knows two or three punches that he has honed to
perfection. First master the fundamental principles, by "getting"
the energy inside your body using these techniques, then improvise
as you will in bed.


​Hope you find it usefull

 

[Pegasus]

Actually at a physical level soft and hard arn't so different , but you arn't ready to hear, so I wish you success.

 

[arkham]

I was practicing this "energy movement" with some success, but one day I have lost ability to do it. Before I would move the "energy" to the head, get very pleasureable sensation in whole body and an instat boner. Now I can't move it further than the loins. Has anyone any suggestions what to do in order to move the "energy" again?

 

[Hanma]

Eh, your path is probably blocked.

 

[arkham]

How I'm supposed to unblock it?

 

[Hanma]

Read Mantak Chia's book, I forgot myself ...

 

[arkham]

It seems I have to read it again. As I remember there was something about unblocking paths but it wasn't described how.