What motivates you all?

[Vice-a-Roni]

Hi, I'm new here. I'm a virgin (21). There have been situations where I thought I could have had sex, but until recently I had been under the impression that women thought men were pigs for wanting sex, and avoided indulging it. (I haven't had a serious girlfriend, or a girlfriend at all by strictest technicality. I've been overly picky, leaving a couple girls before anything happened because they just weren't the kind of intelligent girls I thought I'd end up with.) I probably won't stick around, but I did some google searches and similar websites claiming to promote penis growth arose in the results.

My question is simple: What motivates you? I understand these exercises bring about temporary results that require consistent exercise to maintain. Granted, I do have that competitive, masculine urge to have a large penis, but at 6.3x5.5, I'm already above average.

If I'm already confident with my size, should I really worry about increasing it? Further, penis size is one of those medical studies that has been convoluted (possibly) either by pop culture or in attempt to protect egos. I've heard things I can't confirm- that size matters to a point, that not all women prefer large penises, that the majority of the nerves are toward the front of the vagina, that women are more turned on by oral stimulation of the clitoris than by intercourse, etc.

Can you confirm or deny these claims? Won't some women be turned off by a larger penis?

Also, hello! Thank you for reading and replying. I hope life is treating you well.

 

[BTBrian]

No, you do not need any larger of a penis to please a woman. You're plenty big. If you want to make your penis healthier and maybe improve how good you are in the sac when you decide to have sex then you should stick around though.

 

[BTBrian]

Also, you don't need to keep up your routine your entire life to keep your gains. There's a "cementing" period where the gains become semi-permanent and then most people just do a light workout once a week or so after that to keep their gains. But to keep the health benefits of PE (and believe me, it makes your junk way healthier) then you would have to keep doing the workouts anyways.

 

[4Samson]

Everyone has their own reasons and motivation for pe. You will either have your own motivation or you wont. Either way the information is made available here for you and its up to you to decide.

 

[Tharros]

The confidence, the gains, having a healthy organ, lasting longer/better control, having a better understanding your own body. Take your pick. As far as I'm concerned PE isn't just about getting a bigger dick - it is about all of these things. I enjoy doing my workouts, so why would I stop? I find them relaxing - it is time for just me and my body.

Also I don't think women are turned off by a big penis - unless it is some ugly monstrosity. It has been endlessly discussed what women see as the 'ideal' size - so many men aim for 7.5x5.5 to 8x6 which is seen as the perfect range. Being bigger has its benifits, while you are correct in saying that most of the nerves are toward the front of the vagina, if you have more girth you cause more friction, and can also rub the clitoris causing even more stimulation. As for length, you can't hit her a-spot if you are less than ~7-7.5".

 

[Vice-a-Roni]

As for length, you can't hit her a-spot if you are less than ~7-7.5".

Really?
So if I'm less than 7 inches, I won't satisfy her as well?

As for the rest, I suppose that will be postponed until I lose my virginity and know what I'm working with. I'm tempted to rush losing it, but I suppose that might not be the wisest move...

 

[MrBigDick]

Men aren't pigs for wanting sex...........men are programmed to want it........that's just how it is. Have sex whenever you are good and ready to do so. But as was said above, please feel free to stay and enjoy learning how to maintain a PE regimen or what not. Welcome aboard.

 

[BTBrian]

You can more than please a woman if you're less than 7 inches, girth is generally the most important thing for stimulation and you're big in that department.

 

[4Samson]

Really?
So if I'm less than 7 inches, I won't satisfy her as well?

As for the rest, I suppose that will be postponed until I lose my virginity and know what I'm working with. I'm tempted to rush losing it, but I suppose that might not be the wisest move...

Every girl is a different size and he is just talking about one specific pleasure area. But yes the a-spot does exist at the back beside the cervix i believe. So one would need some length if you want to stimulate that specific area. You can pleasure a women many other ways though.

 

[Alshia]

Yes, men are programmed to want sex, just like all humans are programmed to want to eat when they are hungry. The sole purpose is survival. It's not something we can really control, since our sexual self is autonomous.

What motivates me is that I have nothing to lose:

Don't do anything => Small penis
Do PE, if no gain => Small penis
Do PE, if gain => Bigger penis!

I'm already ugly (my face), if I have a small penis as well it's going to make it even harder to get free sex. I like to look at bigger penises. Masturbating is a chore when you have a small penis.

 

[Vice-a-Roni]

but I will be more fit, and I don't care if I don't write the next great American novel

I see. I'm a writer too. There are many other ways I seek to challenge myself than fitness though, so if I were to do this, I'd probably take it to the fullest like I try to take everything, and I'd want to make sure my heart was in it for the right reasons.

This a-spot stuff is a bit emasculating. I do have a strong competitive drive, and I'd like to be able to hit that a-spot, if it really does exist as an erogenous zone.

Still though, my worries are probably irrational and brought on by my virginity and inexperience. I'd like to be the best sexual experience a woman has ever had.

However, I accept that this will take knowledge of my performance. I'll work on the exercises if I have sex and see a problem with it, but for now I'm confident that the best solution is to wait it out, see what happens, get a sex life on my own time and without compromising my ideals.

Anyway, I'm glad to be here! I probably won't have much to say on the exercise front, but I look forward to getting to know you all and traversing the forums!

 

[Unit]

Welcome to the PEGym. My motivation is a healthy sex life and PE has been a boon for me. I am married and monogamous and sex is still an intimate sharing and I shall continue to make effort to keep it that way. You're welcome to stay or go it's your call we have nothing to sell here.

 

[BTBrian]

I see. I'm a writer too. There are many other ways I seek to challenge myself than fitness though, so if I were to do this, I'd probably take it to the fullest like I try to take everything, and I'd want to make sure my heart was in it for the right reasons.

This a-spot stuff is a bit emasculating. I do have a strong competitive drive, and I'd like to be able to hit that a-spot, if it really does exist as an erogenous zone.

Still though, my worries are probably irrational and brought on by my virginity and inexperience. I'd like to be the best sexual experience a woman has ever had.

However, I accept that this will take knowledge of my performance. I'll work on the exercises if I have sex and see a problem with it, but for now I'm confident that the best solution is to wait it out, see what happens, get a sex life on my own time and without compromising my ideals.

Anyway, I'm glad to be here! I probably won't have much to say on the exercise front, but I look forward to getting to know you all and traversing the forums!

Honestly this is one of the best things I've seen posted on here in a while. Good answer, you don't need a bigger penis and confidence is the most important thing. Good luck!

 

[schwing]

My take on sex is that it feels great for a reason. Sex is natural, sex should be fun and I don't think anyone should have hangups or a puritan attitude about it. And girls wanting sex is bad? Girls have needs just like man. There is a difference between whoring around and dating and having fun.

As for motivation, most guys want a bigger dick. Others want a healthier dick. I want both.

 

[Jelqinator]

Aesthetics and of course, practical uses of having a bigger schlong.

 

[Vice-a-Roni]

I don't know why, but I felt like updating. I mis-measured. My penis is actually bordering on small-average, about 5.5 inches long erect. The girth is accurate, and may even be 5.7.

Anyway, I'm here because about a month after my post, I lost my virginity. I've been dating the girl in question for about two-and-a-half months now, and she's more than happy with the size of my penis.

But anyway, I don't know why I'm here. If some of you are still around, good news, I guess?

 

[jd10021]

Vice, congrats on your relationship and losing your virginity. As for why you're still here, you're like a 16 year old still learning to drive deciding to join a car enthusiasts' forum. They may be related but a 21 year old sexual novice with already ample size doesn't need to get distracted on his sexual awakenings based on the ramblings of a PE board. You should definitely explore the world of sex with your girlfriend. If you want to dedicate your personal time to fulfilling research, find a sex board and/or spend your time researching and practicing things like this: how to eat pussy - Pornhub.com.

Personally, I think achieving an above average penis is in itself a worthy pursuit and PE is essential for every guy's penis health issues as he gets older; but in your case my recommendation to you would be to come back months or years down the road if and when you ultimately have a good reason to be here.

 

[thenewdude]

The confidence, the gains, having a healthy organ, lasting longer/better control, having a better understanding your own body. Take your pick. As far as I'm concerned PE isn't just about getting a bigger dick - it is about all of these things. I enjoy doing my workouts, so why would I stop? I find them relaxing - it is time for just me and my body.

Also I don't think women are turned off by a big penis - unless it is some ugly monstrosity. It has been endlessly discussed what women see as the 'ideal' size - so many men aim for 7.5x5.5 to 8x6 which is seen as the perfect range. Being bigger has its benifits, while you are correct in saying that most of the nerves are toward the front of the vagina, if you have more girth you cause more friction, and can also rub the clitoris causing even more stimulation. As for length, you can't hit her a-spot if you are less than ~7-7.5".

Well, I really think you need to get your facts straight on reach bottom (hitting the a-spot). Maybe in certain positions a man cannot hit the 'a-spot' with less than 7 but there are positions where a man can having 6 inches. Secondly, most women who are down with their man are not concerned about the size of his penis than his character. I am telling you this as a man who is an OG. Trust me my size has never been the main denominator is keeping a woman (outside casual sex which I am not down with anyway).